Do men marry a woman who serves them?

[Melanie31]

If I get married, I will do everything my husband wants. I will cook for him every day, I will iron his clothes. If I were married, I would even wash my husband's feet. What do you think?

[Lliam]

To an extent.

A husband and wife should serve each other, help each other, be there for each other through good times and bad. They care deeply about each other's happiness and fulfillment.

My wife serves me because she wants to. But I make sure that I contribute equally, not just financially. I don't want her to feel like I'm taking advantage or taking her for granted.

I cooked, cleaned and did laundry when I was single. I didn't get married so that someone else would do all that for me. I was looking for a loyal, loving, fun, life partner; a best friend, confidant and companion; and sexual partner.

[ohsheeT]

I think I want to marry you .. and it's not so much about you doing all the above.

It's more that I could feel your words as I read your question and your beingb100 % honest about it..

im so use to doing all the above for myself and I would keep doing it. .

I love how real you are tho because not many women would say what you said

[PBandJ_Nerd]

It's fine if you like that dynamic, but you need to keep in mind your husband needs to be somebody you actually love, get along with, have compatibility, etc. It's always a bad idea for a marriage to be just arranged or marrying a stranger right off the bat. I highly suggest you think about it in your 20s in the future to see how you feel about it compared to right now. Same with having kids. Both cost a lot of money & it is not easy. Even a divorce costs a lot (if you need it).

[alice55]

They don't, not in today age, they would rather have someone who they get along with in terms of personality rather than a servile dog. A lot of men does like gender roles (not everyone but a lot) but that does not mean they like woman that serve them with no personality

[itsannalee]

Just don’t date American then, there are a lot men in the world who still prefer provide their women, pay the bills just like traditional man. Man works outside to earn money, woman works home to keep the house clean and taking care of the family. Everything just needs to be clear and discuss it.

[alice55]

@itsannalee i don’t date American i m European / French and in Europe no therés nearly no man like that, it don’t really exist anymore

[itsannalee]

There are a lot traditional men in Eastern Europe. I met some, so they still exist.

[alice55]

@itsannalee in eastern Europe yes it’s true and I genrally get along with them but I live in France western Europe so 🥲

[itsannalee]

I have 2 French ex, they both are doctors. 1 is asshole (he is older than me), the other 1 is very traditional and still treats women like princess (younger).

[alice55]

@itsannalee You're lucky then, I'm quite on my guard with younger guys as they often just want fun and nothing special I would be wary of them personally

[SteveSmith1985]

I hate this so much. I hate the idea that you look at it as "serving him." Washing your husbands feet is... unnecessarily subordinate. It's beyond any justifiably way to express affection. It's an expression of being beneath someone. It's disgusting.

This is some unhealthy shit right here. I hope you end up feeling differently by the time you get married.

[mstbooblover]

I consider a man and a woman marrying each other not as an arrangement where the one serves the other. It's in my eyes rather a way to complement each other.

[SteveSmith1985]

Well said. I see you're more insightful than your average self-proclaimed lover of boobs. You are more complex than your screen name would suggest. Never judge a book...

[mstbooblover]

@SteveSmith1985 Thank you man. Mind that having a wee spot for big breasts does not contradict other interests. I like a healthy balance between fun and knowledge.

[SteveSmith1985]

haha, of course a love for big breasts can coexist with knowledge and insight within the same man.

It's still funny to see a boob-centric screenname dropping that knowledge on the youth. 🙂

[mstbooblover]

@SteveSmith1985 Absolutely ! Nevertheless, there's no age to like breasts, from birth to death I daresay, although not always for the same reasons... Being old also means having been young ;0)

[NathanDavis]

if I wanted a maid... I would hire three of them

[glennos89]

You seem like the perfect woman for most men. I do know I would appreciate a woman like you with that mindset 🙏🏼💯

[Neverfail99]

She’s 16

[glennos89]

I understand she is a minor I'm not stupid 🤦🏼‍♂️

Read my message again please because it clearly says "I would appreciate a woman like her". That means someone else with that same mindset!

Please read the comments better before attacking people like this. I really don't appreciate your comment because it's totally unnecessary 😠

[Emmann88]

Marriage should be equal, both the man and woman should serve each other.

[DrPepper12]

Your teens & twenties are for finding your bridesmaids, not your husband.

[Cheerfull009]

Oh my you are middle eastern or eastern, who do but in USA and Europe this tradition is opposite, don't tell them them , they will consider you a slave

[Jerre]

I agree with you except for washing his feet. What about having sex with him?

[Jerre]

@Melanie31 Thank you for the Like

[MFlint]

No, only some men expect that. Same with women. The rest of us want mutual love and service to each other.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's the type of woman I want to marry and they are hard to find

[FenixG45]

If I marry you and you want to do that, then okay, but it's NOT mandatory, just nice!

[itsannalee]

Get a traditional husband then, like my mine.

[QuestionObsession]

Are you really only 16?

[serious]

Yes. True

[serious]

@Melanie31.

As for your question what you mentioned about yourself, If this is how you think then I am sure you will be a wonderful wife who would keep her husband happy and I genuinely wish the man would be equally good as well who would respect you and treat you well.

Wish you all the best.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not a slave

[Amur8711]

Sounds great! 🥰