I'm in love with a girl who's six years older than me, what should I do?

[Aspect59]

Usually, in marriages, the man is older. Sometimes, there are marriages where the woman is older. The girl I love is six years older than me. Will there be any problems with being together and marrying her?

[Amy_Mi]

Age is just a number, compatibility, energy, and mutual respect matter far more.

Be confident, clear, and honest about your intentions.

Show maturity through actions, not just words.

If she resonates with your energy and values, the age gap becomes irrelevant.

Focus on alignment, connection, and presence that’s what sustains real attraction.

[Aspect59]

We may have to contend with the people around us. There will be those who oppose us. We must overcome.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You must be some kind of islamic if you’re worried about that

[Aspect59]

There is no such rule in Islam.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

No, but there is a lot of unspoken social rules in such a heavily patriarchal society that relies on specific gender roles to function. The woman has to be younger than the man, the man has to work, the woman has to stay home to care for the children, etc.

[Sunrising]

Good luck with your relationship.

I don't think age is a problem whatever the ages involved if both people love each other.

I hope everything works out well for you.

[Aspect59]

I love him. I don't know if she loves me yet. I will find out in time.

[AngryCarl2]

I don't foresee any problems. You'll need to crack on and have kids before she gets much older.

[Aspect59]

I want it, if she wants it too, we can sort it out in a short time.

[AngryCarl2]

Good luck

[Ariesman81]

Yes. Potential lack of respect. Different biological timelines. Just to name a few

[Aspect59]

If I ignore social problems, there will be no problems left.