When my boyfriend farts it really turns me on. Is that weird?

[Anonymous]

So basically my boyfriend always farts on me and I find it exillerating. It attracts me to him so much and I love the smell.. I know it sounds strange but I find it really sexy when he farts but if I fart he complains.. it is putting strain on our relationship & then turns into an argument sometimes I allow him to fart with plessure like I love it but he doesn't let me he moans at me. So now I am beginning to think I should find a different guy who loves my farts like I love his.. feel more appreciated. What do yous think? Have any of yous felt the same way? Should I be putting up with him stopping me from farting? When I let him fart all over me :L

[rollsroyce12345]

Young lady, just cause you get turned on by him farting, it doesn't mean he should get turned on by you farting. It doesn't work like that in a relationship, If he doesn't like it, then respect his wishes. You are being selfish to expect to him to love your farts.

You have to let go of the childlike notion, finding love or falling in love is expecting someone to take responsibility for your happiness. You have take responsibility for your own happiness. Your boyfriend or any man for that matter is not responsible for your happiness.

[rollsroyce12345]

With regards to you being turned on by your boyfriend farting, is it weird? No because what do you describe being normal in today's world. There people that love blowing themselves up, there are people like eating spiders. There are people that like having sex with animals, there are people that like licking bum holes. Get my drift. You are just fitting in with the world.

[404filenotfound]

It sounds like you have eproctophilia, it's a fetish and it's a bit different, but not as uncommon as you'd probably think.

If you really want to fart on him too, tell him that, maybe find out what fetishes he may have and suggest a compromise. Or else look for someone else that feels the way that you do.

[emmabee11]

I understand how you feel but sadly most guys are like this... they still have that old-fashioned view that it's not "lady-like" to fart or poop then treat us like aliens if we do... yet it's perfectly okie for them... how about you change the tables on him and complain when he farts instead? lol let him see how you feel.

[Gooseman]

I like it when a girl farts around me

[emmabee11]

Your a rare breed then lol

[Nixxx222]

Not a rare breed at all. I have a fart fetish, and I explained it to my boyfriend, he was totally cool with it and farts on me all the time. I don't want to fart on him so I'm kinda lucky he is not into it the way I am. I hope this girl finds/has found someone who accepts her for her.

[emmabee11]

@Nixxx222 I can't see the appeal myself because sometimes i can't even stand my own farts especially after certain pizza nights, Asda's pizza and good garlic bread has WAY too much garlic in it and it gives me a bad gut too so when i fart it stinks really bad... not sure what it smells of but it stinks lol, i have discovered though that i like certain sexual things and one of them is definitely something guys would never let me do because they have no self-control, they just wanna skip foreplay and get right to it which turns me off from most men point blanc, it seems i'm very attracted to very intelligent men too, not the stereotypical nerdy type who aren't actually smart but legit smart guys and with a lot of self confidence, although i like guys who aren't the genius type but just generally very smart, perceptive and cunning, again very self-assure, i have a VERY specific taste in men to the point most men have no chance with me lol, so i totally get what it must be like to have a f

[Sebers12]

No, he's not. Most men are turn on or at least are total cool with fact, that girls fart and poop. This thing that you described, it's total not a thing.

[Sebers12]

It's not rare. It's normal and common finding farts from partnera, atractive persons sexy.

[Stacyzee]

Well... I'd hate to walk into your room after you both just finished exploding in your fart fest.

But anyway, yes.
Stress to him how important this is to you.
If he can't accept you for your farts... find another guy that will!!

[Stumpjump]

A few things here.

First, it's awesome that you enjoy your guy's farts. Farting is one of those intimate things you only do with people you're close with like family and close friends, and it's funny. Your guy is lucky in a way, because for some it's really embarrassing. And many guys like to fart.

He doesn't need to have the same fetish as you though. Sometimes a guy will satisfy his partner's fetishes, sometimes not. If it's very important to you, then you are not compatible.

Farting is natural though, so complaining, depending on how severe it is, is immature. Everyone farts. He doesn't need to enjoy it, but he needs to accept it.

[Sebers12]

Girls love to fart as men as well.

[Bbg1995]

I don't think it's weird at all, I have a fart fetish and if I hear a woman fart or if she does it on me I get instantly horny but if he can't accept that you need to find someone who can I would definitely accept it if you were mine

[titsataki]

it is not always going to be reciprocated but if you like it it is only fair for him to tolerate it.

the whole story is more like that he is one sided. a relationship should flow both ways. especially in cases like that..

[SurfRider]

No it's not weird, it's hot. And a TON of guys would love it if their farts turned on their GFs!

[BeerFarts]

I'd blow your boyfriend out of the water. Lol. And quite honestly, I do think it's weird.

[strlb]

You're my kinda girl! Get rid of him. I would love to get to know you better. We can share our farts!

[DernSure]

I am turned on by girls farting. I think it's really hot :)

[Anonymous]

It turns you on so he does it. That doesn't mean he has to be turned on by it though

[BertMacklinFBI]

Its fine you have a fart fetish.

[Klaatu51]

weird... but not harmful basically

[jmmmfi]

Not buying it