Is he whipped?

[Anonymous]

How do you know if you have your boyfriend whipped.

I don't want to but sometimes I feel like he is.

[redheadbabygirl]

Been there before, and as a result he’s now my EX boyfriend.

Signs that he might be whipped:

1. Avoids conflict AT ALL COSTS, even if it’s an issue that needs to be resolved, and even if it means lying.

2. Does everything you tell him to do, even if you’re just joking (seriously, who wants that?)

3. Tries toooo hard to please you and your parents

4. Never says “no” to anything, even if you KNOW he disagrees. In other words, agrees with every word that comes out of your mouth.

5. Won’t give you any space—he’s always around and wants all your attention all the time.

6. Waits on you hand and foot.

7. If you ask him if something’s wrong when something obviously is, trips all over himself to hide it.

8. Buys you gifts all the time (not saying gifts aren’t good, but if it’s like every time he sees you, that’s probably too much)

9. Apologizes for absolutely nothing

10. Showers you with compliments that you doubt are sincere.

If he does any of these 10 deadlies, then he’s probably whipped lol.

I hope I don’t come across as being bitter, (I’m not at all) but I found through experience that a guy who’s sincere and secure in your relationship is a thousand times better than a “beck-and-call” boyfriend! If you’re a strong-minded girl like me, then you won’t get along well with a sissy boyfriend who won’t stand up for anything.

If you really think it might be a problem, maybe he just needs some assurance that you love him and won’t leave him. My ex boyfriend always had nightmares about me leaving and being with other guys, so I think that might have been the main reason that he tried toooo hard with our relationship. Sit down with him and talk it out. Let him know that he doesn’t have to be your doormat in order for you to appreciate him. In fact, tell him that you really respect him when he says “no” sometimes!

Good luck! I hope this was helpful! : )

[Atomizer]

Very good list.

I've done about half of 'em before I realized it was counterproductive, and I was insecure.

Live and learn!

[redheadbabygirl]

Yep! It was a nightmare for me, but I definitely learned a LOT about what I did and didn't want in a boyfriend, so in spite of everything, I think it was ironically good for me. lol

[Seenthatmovietoo]

Umm so when was the last time that he told you No?

Or told you that he really didn't care about your wishes?

Or that he was doing something without your permission or without asking how you felt?

If you have trouble with ANY of these answers then he's probably whipped. So loosen the leash a bit before he totally rebels and then you'll be writing about how to get him back.

Good luck.

[Atomizer]

He never disagrees with you or stands up for himself, even when you know his opinion is different from yours.

He's over-eager to please you.

He always puts your needs first.

If you're in a bad mood, he goes overboard to make you feel better.

[l-hedoniste]

If he changes his mind when told, that's a danger sign.