Girlfriend demanding more gifts and flowers?...Is this accepatable? (Page 2)
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Boy, I think you should dump that shallow, whiney bitch and look for someone that will love you for you and not the gifts that you get her.
Why the downvotes? I think they are from gold digging, shallow, whiney bitches
Think about it, a media holiday is the day you decide to show your extra love to her? You should not be taking offense, if that was the case women could easily go, "Well, I won't have sex with you but on V-day I will to show you how much I love you." You'd feel cheated, I think. Girls and guys need this kind of thing throughout the WHOLE year, not just V-day. I hate Valentines day for that exact reason.
It seems that it's not the flowers or chocolates that she really wants.
She wants you to spend more time with her. Be with her in her daily going.
Girls cannot really be happy with all of those material things.
She's using you. A girlfriend like that is in it for the money. You need to be with someone who loves you the way you are, and doesn't measure love based on material wealth, or measure love based on how much you give her.
Based on your update...dump her, now.
Right after she told you what she wanted, specifically, she stated that that's the reason she has a boyfriend; to buy her stuff.
You're her boyfriend, not her daddy.
She just wants you to show her you love her more and maybe that's her way of asking for it. That was definitely the case for me
This can go one of two ways: either she needs more attention from you or she is materialistic. A good way to test this is to try and do something romantic that does not require money. Try going on a walk through a beautiful scenic place or surprising her with a date to a museum. Do spontaneous things. A girl who just needs a bit more attention will appreciate the gestures. A selfish girl will continue to complain.
No don't take offence!
Just make you're lady feel special in other ways so she won't want you to spend money on gifts and flowers to make her feel like she is the only woman in the world! A surprising text reminder her just how lucky you are to have her may do the trick or an unexpected phonecall?
You should most def take offense...she can't be appreciative that you went out of your way with money that could have been used for other things to buy HER something nice. My boyfriend doesn't buy me anything for v-day or on a reg basis but that stuff doesn't matter.
You should give her flower when you feel like it, cause when she wants and woesnt really men anything cause it ain't really coming from you, I don't if that makes any sence to you but that's my advice. Cause I want my flowers and etc be a surprise and ment from my man not by him telling I need more if this and this. Has to come from your heart...
Man too many red flags cut her now unless you're going to play her game and beat her at it.
You make her earn that cash make her do the most nastiest things as possible to earn it to.
Let her know that a girlfriend has to do things and make her man happy as well and you're not satisfied.
Turn the tables on her and see how she likes it. if she love you she'll go through it if not then let her know that she's a gold digger and to kick rocks.
That's just bull man. Break up with her. You deserve to be treated way way way better than that.
Considering your update: Definitely dump her. You can choose to stay with her but it will only cause you pain in the long run.
Demanding no you should give her these things when she's least expecting it that way it will be more special
Ask her if it's really the lack of gifts that is bothering her.
If she says yes...your reply should be something along the lines of, "get out."
I'm sorry, but that sounds like a spoiled brat to me... She DEMANDS more gifts? It's not really a gift, or has much meaning if she is demanding it:(
Is this your girlfriend?
https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=DOFAnpb8I3Eyes
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It is always acceptable for a woman to ask for whatever she wants.
MOVE ON! She doesn't want a boyfriend she want's a sugar daddy and personally that is just sad.
Don't take offense. Just watch out if she is a materialistic person. Flowers and chocolates shouldn't represent all of love.