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Why do you start off every take with how attractive you are and yet never show your picture?
140 takes isn't "every" take. This is only the third take I've written which has to do with my looks. If someone doesn't want to read about it then feel free not to click on a take that's clearly a personal story of how society views me and my ten year relationship.
I am a professional that posts very personal things on this site and would rather not be identified.
Those that have formed close relationships with me on here have been sent photos upon request.
I meant to say , Out of 140 takes 3 takes isn't "every take".
I have been told you do this kind of thing fairly often.
Rumors are hardly ever true and are usually exaggerations. I'd take those people comments with a grain of salt.
What are you trying to imply by posting a photo of Gisele with a bunch of black men, in a mytake about unattractive men?
Nothing , clearly I stated black men are attractive , see the pic of the very muscular black man below.
I see people as people.
The races of the people didn't hit me until after I posted the photos. I think more people should stop laying attention to race and actually read an article instead of looking for racism.
*paying.
Seriously that black guy is Good looking? Huh he is ugly and buff
By societal standards he'd be considered good looking because of his body.
Face wise , I agree he's not very attractive.
Trey Songz is better looking
Girls are simply money and confidence addicts, and it just results in them chasing after the wrong guys.
And guys are just chasing the most beautiful girls or the ones who don't have ambition
@FrenchEmma Most guys like sass just not the bosssy annoying kind generally.
Are you trying to say black men in general are ugly and white women in general are beautiful?
Yes i am
I implied that black men are attractive towards the bottom of my take when I show the muscular man.
I don't see color like people do , so the races of the people didn't pop out to me.
I decided to use that photo because it shows a woman getting worshipped for her looks and queen treatment that attractive people usually get. It's an action I disagree with by far.
you do realize all those black guys you posted are just guys on steroids.
So basically your saying 1) Only black muscular guys are attractive or 2) Only muscular guys are attractive?
@naturaldeven4 They're still attractive. That's their own personal problem.
@Toouglyforfemales I like variety and couldnt show that. I could spend a totally different take showcasing all of the types of men I like if ur interested.
@Touglyforfemales
I'll take a guess and say overweight guys like me aren't your type?
Not really but I wouldn't x someone out because of their weight.
That's a yes another thing women on here can't admit to.
Self proclaimed very attractive and comfident yet apparently also humble and down to earth. Hmmm
indeed contradiction is strong with this one... .
A girl/woman can be confident and humble. Loving yourself does not mean that you're self absorbed
"Self proclaimed" would only be applicable if no one else thought I was attractive, and only viewed myself that way.
But responding to your overall comment, yes it's possible an attractive person can have a good personality.
*and I only viewed myself that way.
@FrenchEmma she started the take by saying 'Im a very attractive and confident woman.' Ok. Fair enough. These are nice quilities in a woman. She later went on to refer to herself as humble. Even within the immediate context of her using humble she contradicted herself. To be humble is to have a low estimate of ones self worth so if she was truly humble and down to earth I doubt she would describe herself as such.
Humble is the way you operate towards other people. I even listed an example of how I react to people when they give me a huge compliment like calling me beautiful. Simply describing myself personality wise is called being aware , it has nothing to do with being humble.
You just want to pick to find flaw in everything , just so you can have an attempt at an argument
@Takeowner no. humility is a deeper spiritual state of humans. what you describe is epidermic showoff humility. its pride in disguise. plus a humble person doesn't believe its humble nor does it need to say it. the others see it by the way it carries itself and talks... .
Humble means respectful. It has more than one meaning. Out of an entire article which point is to show that looks shouldn't matter much , you decide to nit pick at a personality trait I believe myself to me. I have to say , you truly are petty.
No, he's correct in his definition of humble.
When you say 'thank you', you're just being polite, not humble.
I'm pretty sure you didn't read the dictionary. Google the definition , there's more than one meaning.
Don't need to argue with pieces of shit that has never met me
I'm just glad my boyfriend is easy on the eyes with a good heart. The total package.
Weird, I'm not that ugly like those guys in the pictures, but I still don't have a girlfriend (virgin in late 30's)... I guess I just don't have luck in love.
Are you a social person? Do you put yourself out there to meet women?
I know lots of women, but I always end up friendzoned.
Maybe it's the way you come across. You have to try to take more initiative and not so relaxed. I know relaxation usually equals friendzone.
Do you make a significant amount of money?
Well, that's the problem, I'm too shy to be assertive.
@EvilPimp Not really.
Women want a holes but say they don't then they bitch and bitch and bitch some more
about there being no nice guys and when nice guys come they think he's fake nice.
There's no pleasing women.
@Touglyforfemales I'm aware of that.
What was it about his personality that made up for his mediocre looks and insecurities?
He was the first guy I encountered that didn't force sex on me. When we were ready to make that move, he only ate me out and didn't push me to go any further than I wasn't ready for. I've had ton of other men in my life, that made me feel bad for getting to that point and with-holding. Little did he know, the way he reacted made me want him sexually even more. He was the first respectful man I had in my life. He made me laugh and I felt I could be my true self around him and not put on an act.
Did he also give off the impression he didn't put a lot of value in your looks. I have heard that model quality girls who get told they are hot all the time often fall for guys who present themselves as unphased by her looks.
Do you think there's truth to that?
Yeah, he treated me like a normal girl. When we officially became a couple he made is a regular habit to call me beautiful or sexy (didn't do that before). He even shared that he always got rejected by pretty skinny girls and was shocked that I was different. He told me I have a fat girls personality whatever that means.
Physical beauty is just a mask. The real beauty comes from the soul and it can be contagious.
If ur next My Take could be about how fugly bitches can a get hot rich guy that would be great. 😜
fugly is not a very nice way to refer to people :/
It was a joke. I was referring to myself and can do so however I please.
@HookingSwan yeah its not, at least say ugly lol jk
@HookingSwan I'm fugly in fact I'm the reason the word exists.
Women who brag about how hot they are usually aren't that attractive at all.
Clearly, it's a crime to mention that you are attractive. Don't have to have you believe me. I know what goes on in my everyday life and the crap me and my guy has faced.
You can mention but not over and over again. Trust us men, we know if you're smoking hot.
Didn't know mentioning it twice was called over and over again. Ever thought I'd have to mention I am attractive because it has everything to do with this article? If you don't want to hear about someones looks don't click on an article with looks being a dead give away. Of course , that's going to be the main topic Einstein.
Unattractive men can get beautiful women when they're rich.
couldn't agree more
@Bilal5 Same here but we know she and other women will deny it.
Yup. There's literally no chance if the guy isn't rich. Maybe if he's really tall or really muscular then he might have that rare chance with a beautiful woman being unattractive.
I don't mean to be offensive, but...
how did sex, you know, work?
Didn't he crush you or something?
Wow! Just wow ! :-0
Yeah, I know, I'm sorry.
There's a good chance he was on the bottom. I've been there.
I was on top.
When he was he'd try to not put his weight on me. There were days I felt crushed and had back pain , but he learned to better balance his weight. It's not a problem
Thanks for clearing that up.
No problem
Well most western women are stupid and have bad taste in men, so this myTake isn't surprising.
White women are the ultimate cumdumpsters.
@JiingJjingi Go away you racist asshole.
It's a fact. No need to whinge about it. Waah waah
@JjingJjingi It's also a fact that you're a slut.
What? Im not white.
It seems like If a guy isn't attractive he has to rely on his wallet to get the woman's attention otherwise he's screwed. What about the guy's character? Women hate it when guys overlook their personality for their body parts. Women are hypocrites.
Well because at least if the guy is ugly and is rich he could still get with women.
If a women is ugly it doesn't really matter if she's rich or not. Most men will not want to be with her.
@dominiquois LOL are you kidding me? Look at Honey Boo Boos mom she's huge and
unattractive and still gets laid if she was a guy I doubt she'd have 1 female friend.
most of the time it is because they are rich, they have money and beautiful women are always after money.
Not just beautiful but all women. I seriously believe that all women are gold diggers
some just hide it better.
@Touglyforfemales yeah I agree with you and if anyone wants a prove just youtube gold diggers
Thanks. Take my older sister now I know she's family and I don't believe she's a gold digger cause she's always worked but this past April she married a guy last yr made $200k+ from
his locksmith business but to be fair he had a business partner and has contracts with
companies. But still if he didn't have money would she have married him? Maybe? But she's dated before and didn't marry any of those guys.
I'm kinda disgusted you guys think like that. It makes you guys sound immature
@Beautifiedgirl123 the truth is always bitter and I always tell the truth, even when it is disgusting.
thats like stereotyping that all men are dickheads or cheaters. Don't worry, unlike you I don't believe that and nor will I fall down to your level.
Do what you have to do to please yourself
@Beautifiedgirl123 But that's what most women think about us guys anyways.
@Beautifiedgirl123 Oh please you would dump any current guy your with the second
some rich guys ask you out lol.
@Touglyforfemales don't for a second think you know me. See I would dump an arrogant and shallow bastard like yourself.
It's funny because you assume I'd dump a guy for someone rich. You've made assumption that I'm not rich either. There's a lot more assumptions you've made but hey whatever makes you sleep at night
@Beautifiedgirl123 i don't know why you even bother arguing with him. he is obviously a very out of touch little man.
"Oh please you would dump any current guy your with the second
some rich guys ask you out lol."
that's the part where you nod politely and walk away
@MoreThanFriends true! But someone has to knock some sense into them. Although lesson learned, people like them just don't learn
@Beautifiedgirl123 haha you are cool
No, it's not. I see women on a daily bases who are beautiful, who go on dates with men who don't even bother to dress up for their dates.
Why? Well maybe it's because
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iyeUcFKRv4I feel like this was scripted and fake... it just seems too hard to believe someone could be that blatantly superficial.
@FidemMeam it is. There's proof online
Sometimes (often times) the good looking person is too insecure to find someone equally good looking or better. Although I hear your point !
Yea, definitely every case is different!
I just wanted people to see that not all good looking people are superficial or stuck up. How they are really depends on their life experiences. We cannot just stereotype , I guess that's the biggest point here.
Agreed
Oh please this is nonsense we all know good looking guys get the
girl/s while us average aka ugly guys get rejected.
I wish I was here not even fat or anything and am struggling.