A couple reasons why women are so important to me, and what I like about women

Sjeggy

Here are a couple of reasons why women are so important to me, and what i like about women (6 even!)

This take is very subjective, so to all people Calling me a sexist, a brainwashed feminist or anything else,there is a nice finger in the middle of my hand just for you ^^

You see, when i was younger, i was a sad Little kid. i was Always bullied by everyone and therefore still to this day have trust issues because i feel like people are joking. yet in the end i was bullied by dudes, and therefore had an easier time talking to women. i trust women more easily because of the following reasons:

1.in MY experience women can be trusted more:

i was Always able to talk to women and by far was able to be more personal, my closest friends are female because of that simple fact. i cannot trust men because i got backstabbed so many times by guys. yet the female "backstabbing" stereotype never once proved true to me. i was far more open to my female friends.

A couple reasons why women are so important to me, and what I like about women

2. in MY opinion Girls have more helpful views when it comes to problems:

whenever i had something that i needed help with, from guys i get "just do it my way", especially on the internet are guys very good at telling you that you suck, that what they do is awesome, and that the fact that you cannot do something makes you stupid and how easy it was for them

A couple reasons why women are so important to me, and what I like about women

Women on the other hand gave me tips, shared their views and with that made me see things from a different angle making me find my own way to deal with things. I am a proud guy, and being bossed around makes me want to do the exact opposite, unless the Point is valid and i see the reasoning behind it.

3.most women are more sensitive and feeling:

there is just this great sense of Comfort a woman can give you when you need help. men are more straight for the solution instead of sympathizing. which in a sense is helpful, but since i already am that kind of guy, if i ask for help it means that i already analyzed the situation etc, and sometimes a less logical approach can make for better results, and Girls usually are better at that

A couple reasons why women are so important to me, and what I like about women

sometimes just a hand on my shoulder or a hug can mean more than any kind of help, and with guys that's not very common or comforting in my humble opinion.

4. i have great synergy with most women:

I have an easy time talking to women, i have an easy time working with women and i have an easy time helping women. i am a very logical thinker which works great with the awesome sensitive side a lot of women share! but I also have that sensitive side so i am capable of understanding her side of things more easily, just as a lot of women can also Think logically which creates very good compatibility. i had a classmate who was the total opposite of me because she only used her gut and instinct and i had the most Amazing discussions with her arguing about Everything (arguing/debating) because we were just so different and really Close friends.

5. Women tend to be more open:

i am someone that does not easily share things, sometimes though i have a feeling in my gut which makes me instantly like and trust a person. However nothing to me is more Amazing than the feeling of being welcome and trusted because i was so mercilessly bullied during my youth. guys can be open too, i have a few Close male friends, but Girls tend to be far more open to me. I love that they can trust me and come to me with any kind of problem and that i usually am able to fix them too

A couple reasons why women are so important to me, and what I like about women
and the other way around:

6.Women don't judge me when i show them a softer side:

those few people that i dare to trust get a more human side to me, to the general public i have a mask with a smile and nothing else. because everytime i show anything else all i get is pain. with women i can be myself and be liked for who i am even more often than with men. there is far less harsh Words, i mean i like joking around and such but at times i want to be serious and i am a sensetive overthinking guy, so Words can hurt me quite easily.

i am so thankful for having Amazing people in my Life, because i can now finally be someone i don't hate. and thanks to those few people i was able to grow and become the person i need myself. i now help people with their problems, either with finding a solution or a hug and love.

women made me that way, because they were the first to make me grow, and the first to make me stronger. yes i know there are bad women out there but my experiences make me far more trusting to women and make me far more caring and kind. i like being a dude and i am not gay, however i do have a sensitive side that i am happy that i have, because i can help people as much as i needed it myself

so thank you to all the Amazing Girls ^^

fuck you to all the terrible horrible and awful Girls ;)

have a great day! and if you are going to anonymously comment to bash me:

A couple reasons why women are so important to me, and what I like about women

Girls can feel proud of who they are just as much ^^

A couple reasons why women are so important to me, and what I like about women
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