God created me. He made me a beautiful and special woman. I will not fake my existence. I will not pretend to be a man. I have no reason to!

[ElizaPam]

This is me. This is the real me. The happy me. The special transgender woman God created. I will always be me and God will always

I am myself. I live my life true to myself. My female appearance makes me happy. My breasts make me happy. My cute clothes and makeup makes me happy. I like cute and sweet men and being with men and making love with them makes me happy. It feels right. It feels natural. I will be a wife and mother some day. I'm

I WILL NOT fake my life. I will not fake my personality, my sexuality, my interests, my hobbies. I will not pretend to be happy living a life I can't relate to. I will not force myself to hate my breasts, I will not stop being beautiful and wearing cute clothes. I would have no self esteem pretending to be a man. I will not pretend to be attracted to women and force myself to be a husband and father.

I have no reason to be a man. I have nothing to gain from it. It's not me, it's not who I am, it won't come naturally and it won't make me happy. Everything I do would have to be done for the purpose of being a man instead of the purpose of being happy. God didn't create me to be miserable. God didn't create me to live a lie for all eternity pretending I'm a man.

Here is me at age 13 in 2007 right before I decided to live as my true self. Did I look happy as a boy? I was living a lie

Why should I live a miserable lie? To make you transphobes happy? I'm not doing that. Why do you even need me to pretend to be a man to make you happy in the first place?

Me, a beautiful 28 year old woman. Why should I throw this away? What could I gain from throwing my happiness away?

I will be a woman until I die and then I will live for eternity as a woman in heaven. I will never pretend to be something I'm not.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

What you did was give up on yourself. Every day you do this you're running away from things you tried to bury.

Just know it's never too late to take a deep look at yourself. We are designed to lie to ourselves in order to avoid pain. When you're not mentally strong enough to handle extremely negative emotions, your heart can literally collapse.

Mental strength comes from moving past painful experiences with reflection and improvement of emotional intelligence: your ability to recognize, internalize and process emotions in a logical way so that they aren't affecting your decision making in overabundance.

Personally, I got no problem with what you're doing. This isn't coming from a place of hate. But the way this is written it makes you wonder if it was made to convince me or to convince you.

If you really are a woman trapped in a man's body, that is a very personal journey. Why would you want to make that public? Unless deep down you have a voice telling you this is wrong, there's absolutely no reason. You should know that everyone has picked a side on this debate. You're never going to get someone like me or many other people to truly believe that you are a woman but you needed all this surgery to feel like a woman and you couldn't be a guy because you were sad when you (air quote) were a guy. And you have to know that which means you almost certainly knew what kind of comments this post was going to get.

So my thing is why write this if you're so sure?

[Rosexøxø]

You’re spot on and delivered it well, and better than I was going to.

It is giving up on self a bit.

I caught it at the end of his post. He said he had no reason to be a guy and would not fake it. etc. He basically was hearing from others what a “man should be like.” A stereotype, and he didn’t want to do that. He went further in the opposite direction to prove to himself he is free.

Somewhat like when we can’t handle the expectations of performance, placed on us from others, so we purposely fail, so they will stop expecting perfection from us, or things we feel that are unreasonable and demanding. We let them down so we have space to be “ourselves.” At our own pace; etc.

Maybe this guy heard from others, everything he was supposed to be, and he figured a gender switch would get him away from a life he wanted to avoid.

It can be combined with some possible violation or fear of women, or men.

I don’t know what pressure he was placed with at that time, but I am sure it was so unbearable he wanted to hide in a ‘look,’ and cosplay/ alternate life, so he can find freedoms from certain very true responsibilities as a human, but the rest being a lot of fake and unrealistic things he had been told and shown, from I don't know, men or women in his life, in his youth.

I hope he finds peace. What you said was spot on. I love that comment so much, and I want to add:

I hope my support for your comment doesn’t affect his perspective on the individual thing you wrote/typed, with the unique perspective that you have, apart from mine.

Thanks 🤜🤛

[Weapon77]

Take this from someone who has been there and actually cares and is a psychologist. You were unhappy for reasons that needed to be addressed in counseling NOT related to gender. It is a GROSS oversimplification to say becoming a girl would fix everything, even if you expereinced gender dysphoria, which is technically a kond of body dysmorphia. You likely had depression, anxiety, and body dysmorphia that could've been largely foxed with athletics/exercise, counseling (especially since bullying and/or abuse were involved), and medication if needed.

Changing gender will never give you what you actually need/want. That hole you've felt will only seem filled by your fairly recent change, but it will lose it's novelty and charm eventually. For many, this happens in their thirties after it's too late to have children. Unless you made your chouce when you were 18, I'm so sorry you were allowed and encouraged to do this drastic thing before you had finished puberty and could fully consent. I wish you the best and hope you realize how to really deal with your pain before it's too late and you regret it later in life.

[ElizaPam]

It's too late I've been trans for half my life since I was 14 I'm 28 now

[Weapon77]

It's never entirely too late, but if you've had top and bottom done there are obviously some unfortunately irreversible changes. It doesn't mean you can't stop taking the female hormones that will cause health and mood problems and start getting a testosterone prescription for what your body would have been producing to stay healthy. Not sure if you ever wanted children, but I'm sad if you don't have that option now. There are still tons of kids who need adoptive homes though.

[msc545]

NOT a Psychologist.

[Weapon77]

@msc545 I definitely am lmao I have the degree to prove it. I am, however, not the current kind of all-to-common extremist psychologist who either believes everything said by the government and popular culture or just stays quiet, panders, and validates delsions just to keep my job.

I am fine never being employed again if it means I can tell young people the truth and save their lives/quality of life. Right now, adults are failing them, mostly by telling them whatever it takes to keep them quiet and compacent rather than doing what is necessary to actually heal them and address their pain. Modern psychology just pushes along kids with gender dysphoria because they don't want to deal with them because it is such a dicey thing in our culture.

I didn't always think this way, but the research I did during university and since then has vastly changed my mind. Interviews, anonymous questionnaires, and targeted studies are eye-opening.

[John_Doesnt]

Don't believe every person on here claiming to be a psychologist or a doctor or a scientist. This guy probably didn't even finish a trade school.

[Weapon77]

@John_Doesnt Trade school is great for those who want that kind of career, so quit being a jerk and bashing it like they are stupid. Most electricians and mechanics are smarter than you, and many of them are smarter than me. So get off your high horse. I don't know what your career is, but while you probably aren't a complete loser, I guarantee you don't work as hard as most people who went to trade school. Don't be an asshat and attack good people who have nothing to do with this topic and conversation. In philosophy classes, they teach us that personal attacks, especially against innocent people or groups, is the number one sign of an idiot. Consider that before you speak the way you did this time. Try making a viable counterargument instead. I doubt you can, however. People like you talk big until they have to back up their claims with research and evidence.

As for me, I have the degree and the experience. You are welcome to debate me in private chat if you'd like, but I get the feeling you are just a rude person who wants to fight.

[msc545]

WHat degrees do you have and where are you licensed?

[Weapon77]

@msc545 None of your business. You won't even use your actual profile picture, but you expect me to divulge personal imformation? That's creepy, surely you understand that. You are free to debate me in private messages though to test my knowledge.

I can tell your degree isn't in psychology, and likely not any science at all. If you have a degree, my guess is political science or history with how many politically charged posts you make. You definitely have accepted a certain worldview and have no inclination to be open to altering it, so discussing further with you is likely futile. And your profile picture being Channing Tatum likely indicates your own insecurity that you try to hide in various ways, including self-righteous brovado. Don't pretend to be an expert in a field in which you are not (psychology), don't assume you know so much that someone who disagrees must just be lying, and don't be so resistant to conflicting viewpoints.

[msc545]

You are more than welcome to check my license with the California Board of Psychology. by the way - calling yourself a Psychologist when you are not one is actually illegal.

[Weapon77]

Ah, now it all makes sense. You are Californian. Nothing else needs to be said lol Like I said, you can debate my viewpoint in PMs if you'd like, but you continuing to comment here shows a beligerant desire to argue. If you really are licensed, surely you know that not all clinicians or other psychologists agree with you. Many agree with me, even though it isn't politically correct.

[John_Doesnt]

"what are your degrees?"
"None of your business"
That sounds to me like you have nothing.

[msc545]

I don't want to argue, I just want you to stop misrepresenting yourself.

[Weapon77]

You are still arguing, so clearly you do. Rest assured, I'm not. And of you were real, you wouldn't have a profile picture of Channing Tatum. You wouldn't be trolling either. You are just a bored kid trying to police strangers. Bye

[lauraanne02]

You are obviously not a psychologist

[Subarugirl]

It illegal to pretend to be a doctor. No psychologist would say something like that risking their license.

[TruthBringer]

@Weapon 77 Spot on, mate! There is a reason why many people who transitioned get to regret it later down the line. Wouldn't be surprised if that happened to this person as well. For his sake, I surely hope not.

[Weapon77]

@TruthBringer Exactly. All psychologists know about this pattern that many experience of desiring to detransition, but so many are too afraid to speak up and get canceled or are biased by their own ideology to say anything. Kt's sad that we are compromising our integrity in healthcare provision to make money.

[Weapon77]

@Subarugirl @lauraanne02

[Subarugirl]

Then what are your degrees? What are you’re qualifications?

[TruthBringer]

@Weapon77 Yeah, I don't even listen to any of those politically correct "psychologists" who are just out to make a buck. Listen to the detransitioners. Whose voices are unironically being undermined by the LGBT community. Did you watch Matt Walsh's 'What is a woman?' documentary? Great documentary it is!

[Weapon77]

Exactly. Many people, mainly women, like Ms. Subarugirl above, act like they care so much about the issue until detransitioners speak out. It's my professional responsibility to listen to EVERYONE. I don't have the luxury that she and others have of picking and hoosing which experiences and outlooks to listen to.

Yes, Walsh's documentary is interesting. Not necessarily even for his part, but it's bizarre how many peole who agreed to appear on the project will just get mad and quit having a civil debate. Sad too for people who are supposedly so enlightened and tolerant.

[TruthBringer]

Trust me bro, these people who claim to be all for acceptance and tolerance are the ver least accepting and tolerant. Our little Subarugirly here is no different, blocking anyone who has other views than her own. That's what these people like to do, silence anyone who doesn't conform to their beliefs. I bet she has never listened to a detransitioner in her life.

[Weapon77]

@TruthBringer Probably not. She's been harassing me on my response to SOMEONE else's post about avoiding women who wear makeup deceptively. She's either dense or delusional... or both. Or just really rude.

[TruthBringer]

@Weapon77 Just block her. Feel no pity for people who block at their own convenience. I just return the favor, really. She got fed up with me debunking her statements and selective morality in the past.

[Weapon77]

I always do after awhile. I think sometimes I get caught up in how bizarre it is to me how bizarre people can behave lol It's like staring at a trainwreck.

[Anonymous]

God created you as a male not a female. You're not doing God's will, you are doing you own will. Your way of thinking is not Christian, it's actually Satanic. You want to do whatever you want without even following God's will for you. God made you a male so you could find a lovely Christian woman to marry and so you could be the head of the house hold, a leader and protector of your family and lead them to Christ. Instead you're following "do what thou wilt' which is a Satanic message.

[ElizaPam]

But being a woman feels right everything about being a boy felt wrong 😔

[Opinion Owner]

But you don't know what it's like to feel like a woman since you're not one. You're a man that wears feminine clothing and make up. That doesn't make you a woman. A woman doesn't need any of those things because she is a biological woman. You are a biological man.

[ElizaPam]

I've feminized my body to resemble a female and people see me as a woman and treat me like a woman

[Opinion Owner]

No. You still look masculine. How do people treat you like a woman?

[Subarugirl]

She looks like a girl to me.

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl he has a penis

[Subarugirl]

Really? Have you seen it?

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl it's a dude

[Subarugirl]

How do we know you’re not a dude? Since you have no problem misgendering people when if we just started referring to you as he?

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl I was born a female. Please learn basic anatomy.

[Subarugirl]

How would we know, have you ever had your chromosomes tested. You could be intersex and not even know it. You expect me to just take your word for it? Obviously you don’t care about misgendering someone and think it’s okay. So you should have an issue with someone misgendering you.

[Subarugirl]

You know that doesn’t always happen right? How can you be sure if you’ve never had your chromosomes tested?

[Opinion Owner]

@Subarugirl you're a complete imbecile. Why are you so triggered... do u happen to be a tranny too?

[TruthBringer]

@Subarugirl Intersex people and anyone who have different chromosomes other than the XX and XY are in the extreme minority. Very small chance that she is or has any of those. The dude is a guy pretending to be a woman, plain and simple. Maybe going back to biology classes would do you well.

[Opinion Owner]

@TruthBringer people who are intersex always find out somehow cos something is off.

[TruthBringer]

@PinkRose24 What's funny is that subaru and all the other allies want us to pretend that intersex people are supposed to be a norm, when they are not.

[Subarugirl]

Okay Mr

[Opinion Owner]

@TruthBringer ikr look at her argument. All she replied with was "okay Mr". I don't even know if she is really she though because she's that much in denial maybe she's a dude too...

[TruthBringer]

@PinkRose24 Oh don't mind her, she is projecting her own insecurities and that of her little community onto you. She thinks that just because she and her little community of mental issues get offended when being misgendered, that the rest of us will feel the same way.

[CateM]

For goodness sake, can't we just respect a person's gender identity for once? She's a woman because that's what she identifies as, even if she was born male. Maybe she didn't need to post a whole MyTake about it, but you need to respect her gender identity.

[Opinion Owner]

@CateM he's claiming that God made him that way. God didn't make him that way. He's trying to destroy how God made him.

[CateM]

So fucking what? What she's saying is that she was destined to be a woman. by the way, you're using the wrong pronouns

[Opinion Owner]

@CateM Stop living in delusion! That's a man and will always be a man. He can never and will never be a woman. Grow up!

[CateM]

It's 2022, lady. That's a woman. You're the one living in delusion, you're the one who needs to grow up

[Opinion Owner]

@CateM Is that your argument "it's 2022"? 🤣 Ok you can't prove me wrong because I'm right. Thanks. ✌️

[CateM]

L. You're only proving my point that you're the one who's delusional. Open your eyes and live in the present

[Opinion Owner]

@CateM Only a minority of people agree with you. Open up a biology book ✌️

[TruthBringer]

@CateM You can't expect and DEMAND the world to just play a long. There is no such thing as transitioning. Just because you "think" and "feel" you are a different sex, doesn't make you that sex. So while you're demanding respect is shown, realize that the very group you're defending is very notorious for not respecting other people's views themselves. 2022 doesn't say much. There are many sciences and moral views that are centuries old and still apply today. Post-modernism isn't guaranteed to be some truth.

[CateM]

@TruthBringer I know you can't expect everyone to play along, and they shouldn't not respect others, but bigotry still isn't ok

[Opinion Owner]

@CateM we speak the truth

[CateM]

What's right isn't always popular, what's popular isn't always right. She's still a woman. She might not be able to bear children and breastfeed like a cis woman, but she's still a woman

[Opinion Owner]

@CateM how is he a woman?

[CateM]

That's her gender identity

[CateM]

That's her gender identity. It's no different from you or I indentifying as one

[Opinion Owner]

@CateM Fine I identify as a millionaire. Give me money to transition to my millionaire life.
See that's stupid AF?

[CateM]

THAT is, but gender isn't

[TruthBringer]

@CateM Latelty, objective truth is labeled as "bigotry". Just having a different view is labeled as "bigotry". We live in a snowflake society where everyone wants to play 'victim' so badly by finding anything offensive.

You're free to believe this individual is a "woman", but don't start labeling people who don't think the same way and express their opinion a "bigots". If you or anyone else don't want to hear different opinions, then don't come on public forums asking or sharing personal stuff.

[CateM]

@TruthBringer If you don't want to be labeled as a bigot, don't BE a bigot

[Opinion Owner]

If enough people donate to me I could end up being a millionaire. No way in hell will this dude ever be a woman

[TruthBringer]

@CateM Ad hominem attacks are a testament to the invalidity of your arguments. Disagreeing with a transperson claiming to be the sex they transition is is not synonymous with bigotry. Bigotry entails a PREJUDICE against a person or a particular group. Disagreeing that a man can become a woman or vice versa based on objective biological & scientific reasoning has nothing to do with bigotry.

It's obvious you don't even know what makes someone a bigot, yet you're throwing that buzzword at your convenience to anyone you don't agree with. I hope you actually mature over the years because this mindset will only harm you in your own life.

Grow up.

[CateM]

@TruthBringer I'm saying pinkrose24 is being transphobic here

[TruthBringer]

@CateM You should have made that more clear because you were directly replying to me which makes it seem very obvious that you were telling me to stop being a "bigot". When nothing I said is inheritably bigoted.

[Opinion Owner]

@TruthBringer how I'm I being a bigot? I'm not going to call a man a woman. 🤦‍♀️

[TruthBringer]

@PinkRose24 I didn't call you a bigot. The other person did.

[Subarugirl]

bigotry is defined as being obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction, in particular prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group. You are doing exactly that so by definition, you are a bigot.

[Midgetmcwidget]

I find it offensive that you say being a girl is about clothes boobs and makeup. You are not a woman and this is degrading to say other wise.

[ElizaPam]

I don't think that, I think being a girl is about being female and I want to be female

[Deserter]

💀💀💀 lmao

[Subarugirl]

Funny you dont have an issue when other girls talk about it...

[PinkRose24]

@Subarugirl is a tranny protecting other trannies

[AMS700CX4u2]

Go take some self defense classes. I don't think it is significant whether you wear a male Gi or a female Gi. But go and learn to fight. Some of the most intense fighters I have met are female. If the issue is fear of confrontation, changing gender will not solve the problem. It will intensify the problem. You need to seek female friends. Their world is not all peaches and cream.

But something I have notice in trans man to woman exchanges is that the new female is overwhelmed with the stockings and shoes and purse and dress and jewelry. More so than a real female. It attracts attention to the fact that they are not comfortable with being a female. Myself, having spent 40 years in anatomy and pathology start looking for the telltale signs of masculinity. Sharply defined muscles, an Adams apple, Body hair, Facial construction, complexion, and acne in the young A Gynecoid pelvis, hand and finger shapes.

Sometimes it is easier to run than stand and fight for yourself. Fear of taking the first punch? Most will report that the punch did not hurt as bad as they thought it would.

I may be sorry I opened my mouth, but I had some problems establishing my identity. You will never know how the story is going to end unless you read it to the end.

No Fear, Dude, Now go get a black eye and get it over with. Story Time

Once there was a farmer who thought he would improve his stock by bringing in a new Bull. When the New-bull arrived his head and horns were taller than the semi needed to haul him. He was about a man and a half tall at the shoulders and testicles were the size of honeydew melons. Getting him out of the trailer was a task. He tore the wooden parts to shreds. He greatly reduced the trade-in value of the semi and trailer. It took foour men to get him into the corral. When the men let him go he snorted and scratched the ground sending all the old bulls scattering to the other end of the corral. Eyes were wide to say the least. When the dust cleared the corral was polorized. The New bull on one end and the old bulls on the other. Except for a young bull who stood in the center of the corral with his head lowered and kicking up dirt displaying all the signs of (you want a piece of this) aggression. The old bulls were were all in chorus. "Junior you are gonna get yourself killed" which fell on deaf ears as the young bull charged. It took the New bull by surprise as he whipped around to counter the attack. The old bulls were not surprised when junior landed in their midst a little worse that he started. But he got up and shook himself off. The most senior to the old bulls said "Junior , what made you do such a crazy thing, He could have killed you." Junior relied " I just wanted to make damned sure He knew I was a Bull.

[Investigator]

"I will be a wife and mother some day."

With the state of current medical systems, only one of these statements is plausible. You might end up a wife to someone, but being a mother is not possible and you have to already know this--especially if you've had bottom or top surgery, you are biologically incapable of reproducing. I suppose you can be a mother, i. e. caregiver, via surrogacy, but that is basically one step removed from adoption.

"I will be a woman until I die and then I will live for eternity as a woman in heaven."

This line is the lynchpin of the entire post: you were born a man and then you "became" a woman through surgery, hormones or some other medication procedure, and now somehow you were destined to be a woman. "God created me. He made me a beautiful and special woman." If this were true, you would have been born a woman. For the sake of charitable, one could interpret this statement as "when I go to heaven, the spirit of the woman that I am and not the man I was born as, goes to heaven". Still a stretch, though, especially depending on what circumstances prompted the transition.

Before the "trans" movement started, women who acted like men used to be "tomboys" and men who acted like women used to be..."femboys", I guess. Nowadays, if you feel you are a woman, then you are a woman. Therefore, the question you should have been asked was "are you really a man trapped in a woman's body or just a very feminine man?"

[genericname85]

god didn't create you. your parents made you by understanding biology properly and procreating accordingly. you wouldn't be there otherwise. so maybe better listen to biology than to "god", whatever that is supposed to be. you can feel like a woman all you want. that's fine. i just don't understand what purpose that serves but you are a man, not a woman.

i am not trying to be mean. you may suffer from gender dysphoria, which sucks for you and i feel for you. but gender dysphoria just like annorexia or body dysmorphia is not fixed by everyone else around you accepting your false self perception as the truth. imagine how horrible it would be if everyone around an annorexic person would confirm their thoughts that they're "too fat"... i think the same when it comes to gender dysphoria. i am not a psychologist but i do not believe that it's helpfull to reflect the individuals false perception of reality and help enforce a cognition that has no correlation with the physical real world.

[genericname85]

it's like an annorexic person feels liek they're too fat even though they are skinny to the point where it's a health hazzard. should we all be like "yeah you're right. you're fat"? or someone with body dysmorphia thinking they're weak and skinny but actually they are quite buff and muscular. should we reflect their perception that they're weak and skinny? i don't think that's right. same with gender.

[TruthBringer]

If you're so content in your transitioning. Then why are you here shouting it out loud? Are you trying to prove something? Are you trying fish for applause? Or are you trying to convince yourself in the process?

Someone who is truly content in their life choices won't feel the need to advertise it to the world. Or argue with people trying to prove themselves. They are too busy living the life they chose to live. Whereas judging by your past posts, you're obviously seeking validation for your transitioning.

[lightbulb27]

Curious, did you ever have your hormones checked when young. I've seen lots of males that looked like you when young. Fat cells make more estrogen, that's a fact. That may distort ones view since the hormones are what is steering the body/mind. The other part of this would be emotional, who knows.

You say you don't like men (hairy, etc..), but are you attracted to them? Do they smell good? Or you just feel like being a girl?

You have some advantages in that, I assume, you don't PMS. Women go through that all the time, you don't have hormonal cycles, right?

It's your life, you be you.

[sheenagwapa]

Salvation is a gift to ALL. just focus on having a relationship with Jesusand yoy will be fine. my favorite saint St. Faustina i read on her diary that she is supposed to be in purgatory one day if i remember correctly but then she will be suffering here on earth so she will go to heaven not really sure but i read it somewhere on her diary. you see heqven is a sacred place and no one is entitled to be there. it's a gift through Jesus who act like the sacrificial lamb.


offer your sufferings here on earth to God. love your neighbor, love God and you will be fine. repent acoid sins because God said "if you love me you will follow my commandments" "be perfect as your father in heaven is perfect" God bless yoy dear ❤️

[Anonymous]

Some people belive in heaven and some don't. But without exception all definitions of heaven will never welcome someone like you

While I'm not a big believer myself I do find it more than a little pretentious for you to assume you can live a life so far from the path of god and somehow find your way back to heaven.

The reality is you're gonna have to chose which one of the two you belive in more.
- Is heaven real?
- Are you a woman?
Because if both are true for you then you are doomed to be in hell on the day you die

[Red_Arrow]

"God created me. He made me a beautiful and special woman." What God created was a boy that was expected to grow into a man. You even show the pictures of the boy God created. You tore apart what God created and YOU created a woman.

[ElizaPam]

I would rather die than be a man. Puberty made me suicidal. Men are hairy and veiny and boring. You'll never know how good it feels to put on a cute outfit and do your makeup. You'll never know how good it feels to love your breasts and make love to a man. I bet you're bald.

[Red_Arrow]

Puberty didn not make you suicidal. Your own refusal to accept what you are did that. I will never put on a woman's clothes and do not miss that at all. And I do not need makeup as you do. But I certainly know how good it feels to love the breasts of a real woman and to make love to her. And I am partially bald. Does not bother me. I accept how God made me.

[Subarugirl]

If god didn't wan't her to be a woman than she wouldn't have the desire to be one. If you belive in God than you belive that god controls everything and that nothing happens unless god wants it to... so if it happened, god wanted it to. Who are you to question god?

[Alperengin9]

@Subarugirl Thats not true. God gave us free will. Ask yourself if god controls everything then why are there murderers and rapists? Is that the god you believe?

[Subarugirl]

@PrettyPriya @BeeNee

[Red_Arrow]

@Subarugirl So you believe that God wanted the terrorists to fly into the Twin Towers and put all the people inside to a terrible death? And God wanted the shooters to kill all the young children in the schools where the shootings took place? And God wanted religions that believe in a different god to murder Christioans in wars? Looks like you believe in a pretty bad god.

[Subarugirl]

LMAO I dont believe in any god, but if you Believe in the god of the Christian bible and believe that he is omnipotent and all powerful then you would have to believe that everything that has happened or will happen is according to his plan... like the bible says.

[Red_Arrow]

@Subarugirl The God of the Christian Bible allows free will. Like the Bible says. There would be no point in our existence if we were nothing but puppets to a god.

[Subarugirl]

Okay… that’s still doesn’t change the fact that everything supposedly happens according to his plan. All the death, and rape, torture, child sex trafficking, FGM, the holocaust, all those little kids with leukemia… that’s all according to his plan.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Subarugirl
If that was true then why is Satan seen as the ultimate evil and God allows Satan to tempt people to see if they will actually do evil things? If God controls everything then why was Lucifer punished when he turned on God if what Lucifer did was under God's complete control?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Does that mean I can change my name as Abdullah Isa Goldstein sounds more like me? Should I grow a Jewish Muslim beard, although I wasn’t born with one? Should I keep practising Islam as a Jew, although nobody in my family is Muslim? May I wear a skirt, as I find it more comfortable? May I grow my hair, although I was born with short hair? O my goth, may I wear lipstick, although I wasn’t born with black lips?

Do what You please, it’s up to You, as long as You don’t commit mischief in the land. I find it weird that You want to wear two breasts and makeup. Those You put ON, not take OFF. If You have an X and a Y chromosome, then You’re a male. That’s the definition of male, but You can choose which gender You want to be. Gender ≠ sex

By the way, how do I drop my being of a bloke and become non-binary?

[JamesDiaz11]

Hmm, pretending to be someone you're not... Tell me, when you were conceived, what were you? Were you a person designed to have breasts, and be a girl? Or were you designed to have a male appearance, male parts, etc?

It seems that if there is a god you were made to be a man, and it's only your delusion that is telling you anything different.

[MCheetah]

You can live however you want to. Just don't expect me to play along with your fantasy anymore than I expect people to pretend I'm six-foot-eight and not a short f*cker.

[Anonymous]

I don't blame you one tiny bit. Sometimes I considered changing my gender too but I think i've lost way too much time already.

Besides there aren't many fancy things about being a man (if there are any?), so I completely understand and support the transitioning.

Some say it's a man's world. But that is only true for the rich men out there and most of us are not rich. I think you know what I mean.

However i do not recommend using religion to justify your decision. They won't accept you and would rather oppose you.

[Deliciouscookies]

It's wonderful that you have a strong sense of self and are confident in who you are. It's important for everyone to find their own individuality and be true to themselves. Regardless of the beliefs or opinions of others, it's key to lead a life that aligns with one's own values and makes one happy.

[JordynJayne]

How about you just live your best life and don’t worry about publicizing it! Girl we don’t care. You’re beautiful regardless of the life choices you make, the mistakes you make, the lessons we all learn.


You don’t have to justify yourself or your actions. Just do you

[Ms_Facesitter]

I am not religious, but I feel like what you were born as is how you were made in His image. There is a lot of I am this and I am not this and it sounds a bit like a pep talk that I would do before going a job interview.

I hope that is not the case, and that you found yourself. After all, life is very short so I think you should do whatever makes you happy and do what you want to do in this life so by the end of the road you can reflect back on it without any regret.

[A_Bell]

You have my sympathies. My anger goes out to those that mutilated you as a child instead of offering psychological assistance.

[howdidireachhere]

stay mad

[Adaeva]

A million million spermatozoa. All of them alive.

And, out of that great cataclysm might have chanced to be,

Shakespeare, Newton, another girl named Sue.

But the one was you.

[Daniela1982]

I think you should just live your life and not worry about it. I mean, you don't always have to call attention to it. Who on here would even notice if you yourself didn't keep bringing it up?

[msmissydc]

I am so happy for you. Do what you feel is best for you. As long as transphobes are the only ones that dislike a choice its a great choice😅🤗! This is a really great turn on the 'god created you dont try to destroy his plan' or variations of this.

[RolandCuthbert]

I have no hatred for you. I don't pretend to know anything about your life or your struggle. So I expect no hatred in return for that ignorance. All I can do is hope you find some peace and some happiness.

Good luck.