Nope. And girls can be shallow if that's all they care about. I look at a guys character before I see if they have abs or not. Now that doesn't mean if they guy is really fat and ugly that I'd want to be with him, I'm just saying looks aren't everything. They guy could be completely gorgeous and have the worst attitude on the planet. Your cute and that's not that short, I know a guy whose 5'2" and had no abs whatsoever and he's had chicks like him who are taller and pretty cute. See, your taller than me, and I'm short to everyone. Maybe that's because all my guy friends are 6' something. :p And I do find it attractive that you say you stay healthy and fit. Then, abs don't really matter, although it can become a bragging right lol, like I have a ligit six pack but I don't want guys to just want me for that, I want them to like me for who I am. So no, not all girls think that.
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I don't like really slender or really really skinny guys, because I am overweight... so yeah, I feel so fat around them and they don't attract me. Girls who care too much about abs have super high expectations. Sure, nice abs are nice to look at, a reason why those actors appeared lol. I personally care about the face when first checking out or meeting a guy. I've had a crush on a guy that was overweight, but I honestly didn't care that much, I really liked his face. Biceps are better than abs sometimes, by the way lol. And you're not that short in my opinion, you're ok :) I'm 5'3 . It's good that you're active and that you try staying healthy :D Really, don't worry. Just because you met some girls that really care about abs, doesn't mean everyone''s like that :) So for me, humour and nice face-best combination :)
Not a fan of the big muscle look to be honest. I like a toned body but nothing more I don't think. I'd rather date a guy sporting a bit of a belly than one with rock hard abs and crap. I do appreciate a nice back though, so if your shoulder/arm/back game is pretty strong I'm a fan. Sure the Abercrombie and fitch models are a bit of eye candy but it's definitely not a reality for most men and not something that even meets my list of preferences in a partner.
Nope, I absolutely hate a man who looks like he works out in the gym. A guy who does heavy lifting and manual labour all day however... mmmmmm! Proper muscles! But seriously, have you seen normal people? They date... other normal people. I fancy the shit outta my fella and he's got a spotty bum and a bit of a tum, still does it for me!
Well I'm short, but I am slender. I'm shorter than you and weigh over 30 pounds less. I can get abs easily, but some girls should like you. Girls in RL don't care about height as much as the girls on here.
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Truth be told, I've also said that what you described is what attracts me to a guy but I realized and I'm pretty sure other girls too that they never stay in that standard. There are a lot of men out there and not all of can be that "perfect guy" and we are okay with that. I'm sorry if that was a little too blunt.
No. If you asked my best friend, then yes.
I think any girl who likes guys with abs has ridiculous expectations, i mean, just think of all the effort it takes to maintain all that!
I like guys who are happy and confident with who they are - and to be honest, i'd choose a sense of humour over a six pack anyday! :)The only body types that are a turn OFF for me are obese/fat guys and guys who are overly built and have huge muscles. Like body builder type of bodies. Anything else is fine for me and a turn "on". Abs are also not very important.
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Whatever it is you are asking (I haven't read further), unless it's about biological necessities, the answer is NO.I dont like too slender guys. I want my man to be strong and masculine. Abs would be a plus but its not a must.
No! I think it might be that most celebrities fit that physical profile. 5'7 is on the shorter side but it's not too short. A lot of girls will still find you attractive :)
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Abs are not important for me. As long he isn't fat, obese or overly muscled I'm fine with his body type.
I actually don't like abs and as long as the guy is my height (6'6.5) its fine with me...
No. My man should be extremely skinny and slender yes (NOT anorexic though) but any signs of muscles or abs is a turn off
Girls think its hot but as long as your not like fat its fine.
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