Am I the only one who hates staying over at people's houses?

[Anonymous]

People ask me all the time to spend some time over and there's no other way to put it: I hate it.

Then I have to come up with excuses not to go, but eventually I have to, which leaves me counting the minutes until I can finally go home again.

Am I alone on this?

[523206720]

I don't like it either because it means I can't sleep naked when I feel like it - I can't get up 4 - 6 times in one night to get water if I'm thirsty - *I get thirsty a lot - It's not horrible just not as convenient as sleeping in my own home. Also sometimes their blankets are a different thickness than my own so I can't fall asleep and the temperature of the bedroom might be different as well which makes it harder to sleep. The only time I ever enjoyed sleeping over at somebody's house was my uncle and aunt's house but that's because their house is so big that it is impossible to disrupt the other people in the house through my own behaviour.

[Ildskf]

Yeah... I absolutely hate it as well... The thing that sucks is whenever my BF and I hang out... I ALWAYS go over his house... which is like a half hour drive... I always feel like I'm on his turf and he almost never offers to come over to my area. It's probably because I've hid him from my family and I still live at home... so he can't come to my place. Still... it would be nice if we could do other things besides hanging at his place all the time.

[Anonymous]

No I hate spending the night at peoples houses. I'll even walk home drunk if I don't want to stay over night as someones house. I'd rather be in my own bed at home.

[BertMacklinFBI]

it depends on the person asking me to come over lol.

[Asker]

Yea, well, that too...

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Why do you feel this way?

[Asker]

Well, I feel trapped to be honest. Gotta follow their schedule, can't just go do something on my own if I want to. I don't know, it's like this obligation to socialize 24/7 while you're there. I mean, I love to socialize, but I really need my own space.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You mean like a longer trip than an overnight? I can see that. I wouldn't go as far as avoiding the situation, but I see what you're saying.

[Asker]

Ah yes.. I mean, one night would be ok but still, I'll avoid it if I can. Not even I know why it bothers me so much.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

you like things done your way. And "your'" stuff. When I first got married, I moved into my wife's condo... I couldn't get us out of there fast enough, because it was 'her' place.

[Asker]

Exactly, I think that's it.. I wish I could just be open about it without coming across as a freak and without hurting people's feelings.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You're doing more damage to your friendships by not being honest. That would be my only concern.

[Asker]

You're totally right. Thank you

[sovetskii13]

I don't hate it but I am not into it. I prefer my own home and bed. Luckily (I guess) I don't have any friends so I never sleep or even go over to anyone else's house.

[islandinhabitant]

No your not alone, I go through this as well. I understand this completely although I can't explain it :-S

[plain_table]

You're not alone. I find it uncomfortable to stay over at other people's houses. I love the privacy and comfort of my own room. ^_^

[Milomir]

hate it, i sleepwalk so there's as chance i might break something
also, when i'm at someone else's house i can't watch p*rn and masturbate lol

[Asker]

haha good point :)

[Mesonfielde]

Sleepwalking isn't that common for me, but I've freaked people out with that before. The guy thought sleepwalking was an urban legend... not anymore.

[Mesonfielde]

I had to live with a bunch of random people for 3 months in the UK. Don't assume any weird shit just because the guy who saw me sleepwalk was a guy. Lol.

[Asker]

lol.. nope, not assuming anything. I bet you must have some pretty interesting stories though ;)

[TheEnding]

Nah, me too. I'm too used to my own bed and my own room. It's hard to get comfortable sleeping somewhere else.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say I HATE it, but I do prefer the comfort of my own home. (sort of, I used to)

[Anonymous]

I also hate staying over and can't stand people inviting themselves to my place either.