Fuck being nice?

[Anonymous]

Do you agree ?

[AleDeEurope]

The problem is not "being nice", it's the fact that you put others before you. I've been like that for a long time, I thought putting other's satisfaction and happiness before me, will make me happy, and I would attract girls because, well, they want someone that treats her like they're their world. But nothing of this happened.
Now I started to be more selfish, focus more on myself than on others. If I couldn't help them, well, it doesn't matter, I'm not gonna work my butt off to try help them. I'm more happy with myself, 'cause I'm putting my needs before other's. I feel girls are more interested and attracted, because I'm happy, and that attracts people.
I never stopped being nice, but I did stop being ice by putting others before me.
Never stop being nice, but never forget to focus on yourself most of the time.

[thecd1979]

How about being nice because it’s what a decent, civilized human being is supposed to be like and not because you expecting something in return from a woman you are interested in. Realize that a women is not obligated to anything because you are “nice” to her. Read up on my takes on" stop being that nice guy "and and “not all guys are jerks"I will explain it all better and hopefully reform your destructive way of thinking when it comes to females.

[Esplorare]

Nah, I think the better attitude is "Fuck being present."
To "fuck being nice" is to embrace the decline of your moral compass for another which ultimately is a disservice to yourself. You can "fuck sugarcoating" or "fuck being overly considerate of someone who's not considerate of your feelings" so instead choose to be blunt. But it's better to just "fuck being present", "fuck giving them the time of day", and "fuck giving them any sort of space in your mental capacity". :)

[MissMinaaaa]

At the moment, I agree... Only because I'm being pushed over right now by everybody who I thought cared about me. And, when I look around, those people who tend to talk shiz, and make themselves higher than others seem to get further in social status anyways. My friends might be ditching me too, probably because I'm too "nice"/"innocent"... The qualities that are usually liked on a temporary basis-- but usually boring in long term-_-

[Nomad2]

Hang in there means you prob have higher standards and better values

[MissMinaaaa]

Thanks @Nomad2
But I don't think higher standards are always a good thing

[Nomad2]

well we all have our own standards the ones our families brought us up with and true friends admire and challenge themselves. All im saying dont lower your to match it with those who dont treat you nice so that just to fit in with them... the y are trying to bring you down coz you re too challenging for them thats all. If you disregard your own true yourself you will be lost in a longer therm. Find people who have the same views as yours, dont stress about being popular.

[MissMinaaaa]

That was deep. But yeah, I just stress about having/keeping friends-- not necessarily the popularity bit.

[Nomad2]

Hey apologies if you gotten more that you bargained for :) do you have any hobbies, interests? these could help to find social friends, who can potentially become close friends. Why re you stressed bout having/keeping friends? What do you think your issue might be? Asking coz friendships in my life are highly important = my close friends re my family. Would be happy to share some hints with you if you think these might help

[Account]

Fuck being nice for the wrong reasons.

[Account]

T-thanks~!

[Nomad2]

if you re a nice person the way how you re by stopping being nice or even worse by turning into not a nice/rude/nasty etc etc because of someone else you give them control over your niceness and hence yourself.. be uncontrollably nice back to those who hurt your feelings if you re mentally strong, if not remove yourself from the situation for some time and reassess later if you wish. Just remember to remain nice to yourself tho ;)

[Hannah591]

You should really say "fuck being nice to those who don't deserve it" because that's what you really mean. It doesn't hurt to be nice and friendly to strangers, but giving too much of your time to someone who doesn't reciprocate it is taking the mick and you should make the concious decision to stop giving them your time and feeling used.

[Ersacol28]

Well I agree and disagree I agree to not being nice to people who are not nice to me or to others close to me, people who are disrespectful, rude or obnoxious. But I want to be nice to people who are nice and who love me and care about me and my family.

[Anonymous]

Difference between being nice, and being attractive, is, you don't ASK HER OUT when you're "nice". If you like her dude, ask her out.

Look, women know that men want sex, it's in their blood to know that, hell they probably want it even more than us but they know better than to go around saying "hey baby, lets fuck" (which is uncool in my opinion). If you like this girl and want her to be your boyfriend, ask her out. Well, flirt for a little bit, make her chase you but, ask her out. Nothing will happen if you don't!

[Philosopher_Edge]

It's not about being nice or not.

It's more about understanding the difference of when to be nice, and when not to be. If you are nice, and someone walks on you, then you stop being nice to them. If someone tries to hurt you, walk away. If it continues, then you smash them.

Never accept behavior that is less than the behavior you offer.

[Aztecwarrior480]

Depends. I'm friendly towards those who I know fairly well and trust but I''m usually neutral towards everyone until they give me a reason to be friendly towards them or hostile towards them. If the person that I run into is a moronic, disrespectful prick/bitch, then don't expect me to treat you with friendliness, respect and common courtesy.

[AdoringFan]

Nah, fuck being overly considerate of others while outnumbering yourself. Being a gentle person is very good, as long as you don't let others walk all over you. Sometimes you have to be a dick to draw that line, but that's a small price to pay in my opinion.

[smokahontas]

No way! Being nice is awesome. If someone is being mean to you, be nice! be the better person.

[KhaysunDei]

I agree

[Anonymous]

i1127.photobucket.com/.../...f.com-add-text_15.gif Nope you should say fuck being a PUSH OVER though if you're 1

[KAZ-2Y5]

Every time I hear a guy say fuck being nice I feel bad because he probably had his heart broken by a girl and it is never a good feeling so that's why he feels that way. But dont let society change you because in the end it the nice guy that wins.

[CocoRachelle]

I do not agree. I know times can get tough, but I would still rather have nice people in my life then rude, insensitive jerks. If others are constantly not nice to me, then yeah I wouldn't be as nice. I would just ignore them or leave.

[Southerngirl99]

I am pretty nice (so I am told), and even if someone is being mean killing them with kindness usually works for me! And if they really push your buttons, getting mad has more of an impact because its out of character : D

[Aizou]

Nope, I love putting a smile on people's face.

There's nothing better, than seeing people's
face light up, into a smile when they were having
a bad day.

Making people smile, makes me smile as well
and then we're both smiling. ^.^

[muspelhem_5]

When people feel good about themeselves, they have the generosity to be nice (within reason).

When they don't, they might vascillate between being nice in order to be liked, or being nasty in order to be respected.

[MosaicMind]

Unless a person is perpetually angering me and acting like a jerk, I will try to be nice to everyone.

[TheDevilInside]

Fuck being nice to people who are not nice to me.

If people are nice to me, I will also be nice to them.

[MrBurger]

I'm being nice to people but it never pays up
They see me as the nice guy and I'm always left behind but my morals won't let me change so I'm stuck with being nice to people even though they don't care about me

[HispanicGuY]

No, be nice, be strong mentally, be open minded, if people treat you bad or you expect to much, still be yourself, you know you're strong but they are weak, or have problems.

[mr90skid]

"Speak softly but carry a big stick" - Theodore Roosevelt

Be nice but be thorough

[Mesonfielde]

I am nice only towards people who I find trustworthy, otherwise it is neutral.

[PlayboyRJ]

Nice people can't stop being nice.. Bad people can't stop being bad... And you should never stop being Yourself

[This_guy_here]

Yes, as a male, it gets you no where. It is also a sure shot to be friend zoned and you're also considered a loser. Because you know, "omg he's such a badass, not a loser".

[BelleGirl21]

No. I'm very slow to burn bridges. And I believe everyone deserves kindness.

[loda1994]

fuck being a doormat. being nice and at least be respectful is cool

[RainbowFanGirl]

I disagree. Being nice can go a long way, while being hot-headed and rude gets your ass beat.

[YazanAA]

I don't completely agree. You have to be nice with nice people but not with the bad ones.

[princessmethteeth]

Be nice to nice people, be a monster to not so nice people... reciprocity...

[Anonymous]

Everyone has issues. Some are left angry for the rest of their lives because of it. It's what makes people different. Life would be boring if everyone was the same. So yeah, by all means don't be nice. Live life as you please - it's yours, after all.

[Anonymous]

be nice to the people that are nice. '
but once someone did you wrong, then FUCK THAT!
I don't take SHIT from no one.

[KhaysunDei]

I will be nice until the day I die. That is my goal.

[blondfrog]

yeah I agree being nice gets you to get pushed around by others

[RationalMale]

agree. be cool. confident. interesting. funny.

nice? hell no!

[anonymous010101]

yaaa. it works everytime bra... unless u want the girl... then i woul'dnt fuck with her

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Nah it makes life bearable when you are nice to others

[Cowboy6666]

Nice with nice...
Bad with bads...

Tit for tat.

[Anonymous]

No there a difference between being nice and being a pushover

[jakeofalltrades]

i agree, i act how i want to act, if i want to be an asshole than ill be an asshole

[skeptic007]

im pretty sure ur talking about girls and yes I understand

[emmyzay]

fuck it. it is bullshit to be nice. fuck mr nice guys

[AmandaLynn1930]

umm... no... being nice can go a long way...

[xXiTacoXx]

I disagree, it'll only get you beat up.

[Anonymous]

girls do like nice guys, what they don't like is doormat personality type of guys.

[Not-Exactly]

Another attention wanting poll?

[1GuyOpinion]

If you want to be alone and have no friends sure.

[Damiandash312]

Lol hell no I dont. Being an asshole is SO cliche

[TheGreyMan]

Being nice is what keeps us civilised.

[JackKerouac77]

No, fuck girls! In their va-hee-za!

[emerald77]

No. I like being nice.

[xxbebosxx]

I like nice guys. Jackass got no shot with me.

[Mentality]

Fuck being anything but exactly who you are! ^_^

[hypno-trip]

Be nice but also be smart about it.

[BigbuttLvr]

You're probably from the east coast.

[nygiantsfan]

No way! Being nice is the best.

[Anonymous]

I DO... I WANT SOME ONE TO FUCK ME OUT

[been_waiting]

No I don't.

[Genie23]

Lol. No, I don't.

[Anonymous]

Be careful you're about to anger a lot women

[neverdowhatwesay]

I don't think so 😒

[Anonymous]

just BJ nice thats enough

[Anonymous]

dont force it, be it... .