Everyone seems to like everyone except me, should I just accept im not really that attractive?

[Anonymous]

Im dont consider myself to be especially hot or really pretty, but I have never though that I was unattractive. I have dated and I get attention, but I have never had a boyfriend nor do I got approach a lot.

I look different than most my friends, in both body type and facial features and it often does feel like the reason i dont have a boyfriend /date that much is because of this.

It Seems like girls with the slim figure get the guys, and as a curvy, but average sized woman I often feel unattractive.

Im not really looking to date, but it kinda gets to me when for example: one of my male roomies who usually hits on his female roomies doesn't flirt with you, the other male roomie tells you that the other female roomie is beautiful, when you're at a party and no guy makes an effort to talk to you and no guy seems to like you etc.

Its not something that bothers me on a regular basis, it bothers me the most when its more "pushed in my face ". Im starting to think im kinda ugly.

Should I Just accept that im not especially attractive? Am I Just one of Those person where sex and a relationship aren't in the card?

[Lovelinefan]

I suspect the problem is more in your head and less about your physical features.
There are a bunch of guys in your school, city, or town who would love to date you, I guarantee it. Guys like different things, some guys prefer skinny girls, other guys like fat girls, and everything in between. Some guys care more about physical appearance (think supermodel appearance) while other guys are way more interested in finding a girl who shares common interests and values, and physical characteristics are secondary to the mental and emotional connection / attraction.
So even if you were butt ugly (which I highly doubt, butt ugly is an extremely rare classification, lol), there would still be guys out there who would love to date you because of shared interests, shared desires, etc.

Back to what I said at the very beginning. It sounds like you don't have much self confidence. It sounds like you might not feel like you're very attractive?

What are you doing to try and meet guys?
Do you put yourself in situations and environments where you are around guys who have common interests as you? Could you join a club where you meet like-minded people?

Certainly don't give up. Take care of your appearance (be neat and clean, put a little effort into dressing well and presenting yourself as best you can, get comfortable in your own skin and make sure you let people see your pleasant, happy personality.
The right guy is out there, be ready when he makes his appearance! Don't be caught in sweat pants in a grumpy mood with bad breath when he bumps into you in line at the coffee shop. :-)

[Seanx30]

Not really there just more attracted to you not you for me I would find you attractive but not everyone likes the same thing I like hope right person finds you