Probably mad you lied. I mean you're 21 right. An adult doesn't need to lie. And. Is it, you wanted him sucking your neck? Or you wanted the mark left... Whether we like it or not, and I've done it too so no need to defend to me, it is looked down on. In society, in the workplace and much more. Younger people usually have a mindset, and I can't recall what it's called, but we don't feel it reflects on our workplace etc. But it does. I wanted them before too. But when I was adult about it and honest with myself... I just wanted that hickey mark on my neck... Wasn't even about them sucking on my neck so much as I wanted a hickey. Kind of like the mindset of wanting others to know you're sexually active. There was that " here I am, I'm not a virgin everyone" phase someone kissing or sucking on your neck is invisible to others. A hickey without a mirror is usually unseen by oneself... Slot of us whether admitted or not almost want it for others to see. Usually younger people for some reason. Not into stereo types... But when honest and real about it. I found it true. The realest person would be able to explain why so many younger people want that visible mark. I wasn't really able to but it'd be cool to have an unbiased, and real, truthful reason why when people confront us.
Haha, hickey stories are always the best.
You're 21, that's why he didn't freak out.
I got my first hickey in high school at like 17. I had NO idea what the hell was going on or that it would happen so fast. So, I walked into the house after work was greeted by my mom. She was like "What the hell is that on your neck?" I had NO IDEA what it was XD I ran to the bathroom thinking I had spilling something on myself during work. No, hickey XD but after she said that and her little spiel "Don't let boys do that, that's how they mark you" She made jokes about it the very next day. She was chill af. XD Yay to getting older and not strangled for being a little hoochie XD
No dad likes to think about his daughter being given one by a guy lol even if she's an adult. He raised you so he's always gonna see you as his little girl. Its normal for him to not be that happy about the little reminders that he's not the only man in your life now haha. Or mayne he knew you were lying? Either way I wouldn't stress it too much. Its pretty normal for dads to feel protective of their daughters like this. Be glad didn't call you out haha I think my dad would have reacted the same exact way.
1) because he knows your lying
2) because he knows it's a hickey, it's a fathers natural instinct to not particularly like the guy/girl you're seeing because you're his little girl and he WILL get protective when he's faced with these situations. He doesn't want to see this person break your heart one day
Your still his little girl and he doesn't probably know the boyfriend well and is angry that its a sign of you being a rebel. Probably best to maybe get your boyfriend to formally meet one another. BUT make sure your boyfriend knows to "clean up" as in dress up and be presentable and prove that he has what it takes to take care of you.
1.) hickeys are trashy.
2.) you straight up LIED to him.
3.) your his daughter still.
4.) he's upset he can't control you like he used to beable to so he's getting passively aggressive.
5.) have you ever introduced your boyfriend to your parents? maybe he doesn't like him?
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I read all the comments. People are taking this srsly. I think it's a little funny you lied, since the hickey was probably obvious. Why can't you imagine our dad yelling, curious? Anyway, I agree! I don't think you did anything wrong, it's so mild. I do think he could've been angry since you didn't cover it. Most people hide theirs.
First of all, it's never gonna be a good thing to see your little girl with a hickey. That brings up the image of doing the nasty and, well, it's nasty.
Also, why are you 21 and with a hickey? That doesn't give a good impression on others. A father knows that, and expects his daughter to know that too.
You're his little girl. No matter how old you get, your father doesn't want to even associate something like sex with his angel. It also could be due to you lying to him, which I could understand why you would.
No dad wants it rubbed in his face that his daughter is having sex.
All it takes 30 seconds and a little foundation and a makeup sponge to cover it up, perhaps if you don't want to get him angry/upset, do that next time.
Maybe its because you lied about it. I'm sure your dad knows what a hickey looks like. I think you should apologize for lying and move past this as quickly as possible. It's not something that should turn into a big deal.
Hope this helps~Turtle
No parent wants to see any of their children with a hickey mark on their neck. Shows bad class.
I would hide it with foundation.
PErhaps because you lied to him? You're right, you're 21 and free to make your own decisions, lying to your parents is still a dumb one.
He was angry cause you fed him a line of bullshit.
Old enough to make your own decisions, but clearly not old enough to own up to them.
Come on, no dad wants to know some dude is all up on his daughter.
He's upset people will see his daughter being a trashy skank and is embarrassed but he didn't say anything because ur a grown woman who has every right to get pounded as you please
Angry? You lied directly to his face.
Also do you live at home or have your own place and job to pay for it all?
If you are old enough to make your own decisions then why you still live with them?
Probably angry that you lied to him.
if you get pregnant, are you ready to be a mother?
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