Cousin wants to have sex with me?

[Anonymous]

Me and my cousin used to fool around when we were kids. Found a dirty movie, wanted to try some of the stuff in that, no actual sex, then we stopped when she moved out because she used to live with us. Her mom was out of state and her dad was in prison.

Anyway, we're older now and she has a boyfriend and a kid. We had a get together after not really talking to each other for some time. We were alone in the dining room at night since everyone else was outside. we were talking and remembering the past, hoping she wouldn't bring up the sexual stuff since that's something I wanted to forget and leave behind me. Well apparently she didn't want to leave that in the past.

She brought it up and joked how stupid and weird we were in the past. I laughed along just to get past the awkwardness. But then she starts rubbing her leg against mine and I shot right up and went to go get some water. She followed and then whispered in my ear. That if we don't have sex soon, even just for one night, she's gonna tell everyone what we did when we were kids. How do I stop her from telling anyone while NOT doing what she wants me to do?

[Anonymous]

That is fucked up that she's being manipulative like that.

Honestly, kids do some weird stuff sometimes. Is it really so horrible if she was to tell people the truth about what happened? She's a cousin. It's not like you were kissing your sister.

Personally, I might actually bang her if it was me. I'm not sure if I could resist the temptation of finishing what was started years ago. If that is not what you want, then call her bluff.

[sovetskii13]

So what if she tells everyone what you two did back then. You were kids. It's common for kids to experiment by playing doctor. Just don't have actual sex with her now because it will a totally different story if you get caught.

[vishna]

Don't have sex with her! You can just say she's psycho. Deny it. If she's that crazy to try and sexily blackmail you, other people probably know she's crazy too.
She might just be acting sexy and it went too far. Say no, and see what happens, if she actually says what you guys did, deny it out the ass.

[ShaunaM95]

She's probably just bluffing. Your best bet is to not have sex with her and just let her tell what ye did when ye were kids. No one will care at the end of the day and it's better than being caught having sex with her now that you're both adults and know it's wrong.

[Asker]

I don't think she's bluffing. She's always been able to play the victim, even when we were kids. She could fake cry on the spot and always got me in trouble. Real bratty and it looks like she's still like that. And still, there has to be a way to get out of this without people finding out. I don't want people around town, especially girls, getting freaked out and not want me to be around them. Since my family members love talking crap about everyone and spreading stories. I would have to move out of state.

[ShaunaM95]

Well like I said, it happened when you were kids. No one is going to care. And it's better than being caught now when you're both adults.

[Jaye234]

Oh. Um... tell her that it's wrong, you knew it then and was a mistake you wish you could take back. How old were Y'all?
It's her secret too, so if she does blab you can always say it was a mistake or flat out lie.

[Alistayr]

You actually have the upper hand. She made the suggestion, knowing she is already married. Call her bluff with that.

[Rocknme420]

yes experimentation as kids is one thing but incest as adults is a crime. I'd steer far away from that one bub

[oldoldold]

dude your going to pay one way or the other. so either be embarrassed by what you did as a kid or get caught as her sex slave

[MoeAli]

Be a man and take control

[Asker]

And how would I do that when she has the upper hand? Hit her and give her even more fuel to put blame on me?

[MoeAli]

By standing up for your mistake in the past. Be decisive. A no is a no. So what if you fooled around when you were a kid. you WERE a kid but your a MAN now

[TheFlak38]

You just gave me a boner. Do it man!

[Anonymous]

You KNOW you want it!!!

[Asker]

No I do not. I didn't know what I was doing as a kid and hormones were taking over.

[Anonymous]

don't do it it is your cousin