I don’t know… You get unwanted attention. You have to deal with stalkers. People call your house and don’t talk just so they can hear your voice. Women you don’t know grope you in inappropriate places. Girls trying to get you drunk to sleep with you. Girls do inappropriate slutty things to get your attention like at work when you need to be professional or it could affect your career. You have to deal with rejecting girls and it’s never fun to break hearts. It doesn’t really ever get easier. Gay dudes hit on you.
You become a target. Short guys try to prove they’re tough by picking a fight with a tall guy. Insecure guys try to pick a fight because they don’ t trust their girlfriend. People trying to cock block you and sabotage you because they are jealous. People try to bring you down because they think you’re flying too high. People are always trying to size you up. People trying to ride your coat tails and act like they know you to parasite on the attention you’re getting from women. People always saying shit like “what’s so special about him” followed by some one up bullshit to try and insult you and make you look bad. Mean girls trying to break you down with insults and games.
Girls that like you feeling inadequate and scared to be with you because they think you will leave them or play them or are just using them as a rebound or could never take them serious or will cheat on them because all kinds of irls are chasing you. This leads to entire world of unnecessary bullshit and drama. A lot of girls will push you away because of stuff like that but they won’t let you go so it’s a back and forth play with your emotions. A lot of them freeze up with nervous ticks. Some of them do the entire deer in the headlights thing for a good two minutes and you can be talking to their face and god knows what is going on in their brain before they snap out of it like OH! In embarrassment. That entire lack of confidence sucks. One girl will start shit with another girl just because some girl check you out. A lot of girls will put on an extreme act for a very long time because they don’t want to mess it up, so you don’t really get to know them. Girls are probably more prone to insecure behaviors and fits when they are with a hot guy.
If you’re at any extreme then incompatibility is an issue because most people are not like you. People also assume that makes things easy for you and that everything is just given to you. So if you’re single, you inevitably get labled as gay or damaged or something stupid like that just because you are hot and a lot of girls like you. That enough?
The worst I've experienced are guys trying to flex in almost inflammatory ways when women are around. They feel the need to overcompensate, and they do this by trying to put the more attractive guy down in some way, shape, or form. I was often called a meathead and labeled as dumb by other guys whenever we went out and there were girls around, yet I was an engineering student with a damn near perfect GPA.
You also seem to attract a lot of shallow people, and you don't really ever know if they just listen to you and laugh at your jokes because you're attractive or if you're actually an interesting person.
People minimize and dismiss hard work efforts and say it's because of your looks. I was a personal trainer for a little, and everyone else at my club said that I got all my clients just because I was good looking and had the body. It pissed me off, because I really worked hard on my sales game to get me in the position I was in.
People assume that you yourself are shallow and avoid talking to you because of it even if you're the furthest thing from it.
At the end of the day, I rather be attractive than ugly though.
I would really wanna answer this question but im not that attractive, although this one situation happened to me which I think kinda fits the topic. Okay so like 2 years ago I was asked to prom by that guy (I was a freshman and he was obviously a senior, lets name him X). X was cheated on by his girlfriend, a little bit before prom so he quickly asked me to go with him, I didn't know him back then at all but he was friends with Y (my ex best friend). So I said yes. X’s girlfriend was supposed to be at the prom as well. He told everyone how beautiful I am and how he's gonna show me off at the prom and make his ex jealous. I didn’t know about this, Y told me after prom about the whole situation. So yeah, he kinda used me bc I was ‘pretty’ just to show off and show everyone that he can pick a ‘prettier’ girl. I was so mad back then but yeah you live and you learn.
Having to turn people down, which feels mean to do
And having trouble keeping your male friends when they're in a relationship because their girlfriends dislike you.
I'm not super attractive, I just come across as flirty quite easily. I don't really turn heads, but I have had enough people interested in me to know what sucks about it. Not that I'm complaining! Just answering the question
Being hated... if they ask you out and you reject them they say am arrogant and rude because of my looks (which i dont understand because am not that attractive) i lost 3 of my workmate with just this one line "am sorry but i dont feel the same" they stopped calling and texting me helping me with some work friendship is gone
Guys get competitive/jealous around you, people will assume you couldn't possibly ever have any insecurities and can thus be much harder on attractive people than others. Most also either love you, or hate you just because of your looks, there's no in between. Many women also get intimidated and will be standoffish, assuming you already have someone or is too good for them. And should you reject a girl, they'll hate you for it, asking if you think you're too good for them, even if you simply don't feel anything for them.
I don't know about attractive people but I personally had a shitty time growing up fat and ugly. Its the everyday scenario of people staring, pointing, laughing, sabotaging, pranking, and ignoring you that just takes a toll on you. Its obviously something attractive people dont have to deal with so they won't get it. Yeah, unwanted attention is annoying, and sexual harassment sucks, but when people go out of their way to ruin you and hurt you just because they think they're better than you... that sucks even more.
No one has it 100% easy, but the difficulties faced by the very attractive, while annoying, are minor compared to the unattractive.
I remember an MTV reality show where the beautiful people were given make-unders and then had to go to a club and try to get phone numbers or drinks from the opposite sex - and they were used to getting all the attention and people lining up to buy their drinks - and it was devastating to them to be ignored and rejected. Keep in mind that these people still had the advantages of being in social situations and having confidence, but many were still quite shaken by the experience.
I think one problem could be people assuming their lives are easier and having less sympathy for them as a result. Another problem could be girls don't want to be friends with them cause they look so good or girls spread lies about them or guys want to date them rather than being their friend or they are forced to break a lot of hearts.
People don't take me seriously, they want to be in my presence because I'm nice kind and pretty but eventually that makes them hate me too... I've worked hard to look the way i do. But others despise me for it. I rarely get approached by guys, and since i changed my demeanour (due to the crazies) im often called intimidating or stuck up... guys on the net say im hot all the time when theyve seen me but i know they wouldn't if they saw me in person. Life has become incredibly lonely.
This is something that’s been happening a lot with me lately: I don’t find myself that attractive but apparently other people do, at least that’s what my guys friends tell me, since all of their guy friends and dorms talk about me... Honestly just the feeling of being uncomfortable, I don’t like having attention on myself. Pretty much the uncomfortable feeling of guy’s eyes roaming over me. Some of them talked about how they wanted to have sex with me. Which I found out from my best guy friend. (Even though I’m saving myself for my husband and never had a boyfriend)! Also New Years I went to this arcade places and my cousins overheard this group of guys next to us talking about how they wanted to rape us and force us to do sexual acts
I also get cat calls all the time and honestly I just feel like guys only see me as an object... even a simple action of buying something at a gas station I get hit on. One time I was with my mom and cat called. Another time I just got done working out and was driving home enjoying the breeze of my window down. And the two guys in the car next to me started making remarks and saying how beautiful I was
With girls it swells their heads, makes them narcissistic and high-maintenance (traits which persist when the looks go away). With guys its good in your teens and early 20s but by mid 20s and later its more about how attractive his wallet is than how attractive he is.
- Jealousy from ugly girls - Unwanted attention so you feel like an object - Girls keep wanting to be friends with you. It happens at random places - creepy guys and stalkers
You have to say lots of 'no' to all kinds of people get interested in you. Sost part of the times they don't even care about how you are on the inside and assume whatever they want when they are rejected.
Whenever you’re too friendly with a guy they automatically assume you’re interested in them and then try to get you to go on a date with them. And they’re already in a relationship with someone else!!
One of the only problems I see with attractive women is that other women who aren’t as attractive get jealous, and typically develop a group that goes after the attractive women and bullies her and puts her down, I’ve seen this in person before.
I don’t think I’m that attractive, but something that makes me feel really uncomfortable is catcalling. Especially when they’re in a group and I’m alone I feel very unsafe
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