Im passive but I do give thanks when I have to give thanks and Im also polite when I have to be only that I do not express that effusively or very tender.
I dont know if that is part of my personality but my sister tells me I should be more expressive when I give thanks to people, and I have to give Thanks immediately after I receive a favor and not like some hours later, because the meaning of the thanks fades and she also tells me I have to be more expressive and effusively when I care for someone or give thanks and she also tells me that I have to complimentpeople more if I see them for example that person dress nicely or things like that.
My sister tells me I should be more gentle to people and always criticizes me for that.
For example last week it was my bday and I give thanks to the people who wish me Happy Bday not maybe right away mayeb I thanked them like 4 hours later or the day after, as I was nto available at the moment on the phone when they sent me the wish. My sister tells me I have to say Thanks right away immediately. The thing is that my sister is very expressive she hugs tightly to people and she is a mushy mushy person but im not like her, Im more passive when I show my emotions, she wants me to be like her and she tells me "you have to be more expressive because people like more expressive people not passive ones, also dont expect people to ask you so u give thanks, you have to give thanks naturally without other people asking you to give thanks".
The thing is yesterday my sister stopped by the house in the afternoon and I was at work so I was not at home when she stopped by. She stopped by to give my mom a present she brought from Cancun and she also left me something for me a small pendant but she did not let me know by a text at least and let me know that pendant was for me. She told mom to tell me that but my mom kind of forgot to tell me that when I arrive at home at nite. Mom just told me your sister left this here, probably
I dont know if that is part of my personality but my sister tells me I should be more expressive when I give thanks to people, and I have to give Thanks immediately after I receive a favor and not like some hours later, because the meaning of the thanks fades and she also tells me I have to be more expressive and effusively when I care for someone or give thanks and she also tells me that I have to complimentpeople more if I see them for example that person dress nicely or things like that.
My sister tells me I should be more gentle to people and always criticizes me for that.
For example last week it was my bday and I give thanks to the people who wish me Happy Bday not maybe right away mayeb I thanked them like 4 hours later or the day after, as I was nto available at the moment on the phone when they sent me the wish. My sister tells me I have to say Thanks right away immediately. The thing is that my sister is very expressive she hugs tightly to people and she is a mushy mushy person but im not like her, Im more passive when I show my emotions, she wants me to be like her and she tells me "you have to be more expressive because people like more expressive people not passive ones, also dont expect people to ask you so u give thanks, you have to give thanks naturally without other people asking you to give thanks".
The thing is yesterday my sister stopped by the house in the afternoon and I was at work so I was not at home when she stopped by. She stopped by to give my mom a present she brought from Cancun and she also left me something for me a small pendant but she did not let me know by a text at least and let me know that pendant was for me. She told mom to tell me that but my mom kind of forgot to tell me that when I arrive at home at nite. Mom just told me your sister left this here, probably
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mom assume it was for me but she just said your sister left this. So today in the morning, she asked me if I I liked the pendant she left me. So I reply "Yes very nice thanks". Then she started with her questioning and told me "Dont expect me to ask you to give me thanks, be more expressive do it naturally. Then I explain to her the reason I did nto thank her yesterday the moment she left me the pendant. I found out just this morning that pendant was for me so it is why I give her thanks today
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but only because she asked me if I like the pendant not because I did it naturally without her asking me If I liked it. She is a mushy mushy im not like that but she does not like Im like this my brother is even worse, he does not express to people his emotions he kept it to himself. He give thanks and that is all, he does not sugarcoat more than he needs to. I dont lke that of my sister she is always complain about me for those things.
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