Is it rude if someone planks in public or extend feet on table or another chair?

[Anonymous]

what would you do if you see someone exte

nding his/her foot on subway or in park , cafe etc

[DorkVader]

Let's talk about manspreading. I'd rather have someone taking up an extra seat than sit by someone who manspreads on me. Obnoxious, because then I have to manspread on them too.

[Asker]

yeah but aren't both situations kinda bad

[DorkVader]

No. One is a blatant violation of someone else's personal space. The other is occupying as much space as they want, which if there is allowable room, then that's their business. Just because you personally don't like people's feet on the furniture doesn't mean its not their right to do what they want. Let people live

[Asker]

maybe as a future sitter on there I want my clothes clean

[DorkVader]

Who's to say everyone who sits there will be clean, whether they put their feet up or not?

[Asker]

or dependless of pic
if there were people standing and the subway wass full
would she still have the right to use 2 seats like that because she came first

[Asker]

yeah you can't say people will always be clean but generally shoes are dirtier because they touch lots of ground

[DorkVader]

If she's taking up available seating, then yes, she's inconsiderate. Otherwise, I don't see the problem. She looks comfortable to me. I'd mind my own business

[Asker]

you mean there are place for everyone to sit it is not inappropriate of her

[DorkVader]

If there is no other place for people to sit, it's rude for her to take up 2 seats. But she doesn't have to give up the other seat. She can do what she wants

[Asker]

if gender was reversed, would you think the same as well

[Asker]

would you or wouldn't you?

[DorkVader]

Of course. People can do what they want. Asshole behavior isn't gender specific

[DorkVader]

Thanks for MHO

[theronaldmcdonald]

Only if it’s keeping other people from sitting or they are invading someone’s personal space.

[Asker]

no there are other seats available

[razelove]

I don't consider it rude, I stretch across pretty much anything I can. Can't say I "plank" across surfaces though, that just sounds uncomfortable.

[Asker]

what is difference

[razelove]

Planking is as it sounds, rigid as a board, hands at the sides, like standing at attention but laying down. Honestly the easiest way to get comfortable is with someone else anyway :)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Planking_(fad)

[Asker]

what is the girl doing in pic

[razelove]

probably planking and geocaching at the same time. Geocaching is as it sounds, you get coordinates from someone, or an online group, or sets of coordinates and try to find something there, could just be more coordinates, something to do, picture to take. A lot of phone games revolve around that, pokemon go if I remember right.

[Asker]

I dont see the connection of geocache

[razelove]

The red google location blip? I mean, the title of the page is planking, she's planking in a field, what the hell else would you be asking about?

[Asker]

planking and geocache are not same

[MikeGaveO]

As long as they allow other people to sit there when asked, I don't really care about how they use their available space.

[Asker]

do you think if she has the right not to put his feet off on the seat if there is another seat nearby

[Laozi]

Nope. It's not rude unless it's causing someone problem (I mean serious problem not just ego hurting).

[Asker]

like preventing someone to sit

[Laozi]

Yup. Then it's rude.

[Asker]

if she asks you to sit so that she can put her feets on you

[Laozi]

Then it's insulting. Now you've right to scold, slap, punch, kick, choke or throw her away.

[Asker]

no to the violance

[Laozi]

Chill. I was just joking. But you can tell them politely that they're wrong. But if they don't listen then you've to find another place to sit (if you don't wanna argue).

[Asker]

would you argue or does it depend

[Laozi]

I don't like arguing unless they go too far.

[Asker]

the girl in image doesn't go too far

[Laozi]

Then I wouldn't want to waste my time. It's not worth my time. I can find another place to sit. Also, I don't mind to stand.

[Asker]

for hours

[Anoniemus]

As long as they aren’t intruding into other people’s space, I don’t care what they do.

[Asker]

do you care about hygiene because she puts her feet like that you could sit that place

[Anoniemus]

I have clothes on and I bathe regularly. I’m not worried.

[Asker]

if you are tired and that's the only seat available

[Asker]

dont you care

[DiscomfortZone]

If it doesn't invade my personal space? Nothing. If it does? Ask them to move it. Politely at first, violently if necessary. At least with a cast and crotches they'd have a legitimate excuse.

[Asker]

if you stand up and there is no seats available

[DiscomfortZone]

Then I approach them and ask them to make room. Just like I said - I ask nicely, and if they want to make something of it, they may be my guests. I too can use my limbs to invade their personal space.

[Asker]

if she says you can sit but if you sit I will put my shoes on you

[DiscomfortZone]

Then I say "no, you won't".

[Asker]

and stand

[DiscomfortZone]

No, and sit. Let her try put hwr shoes on me, should be hilarious for everyone except her.

[Asker]

you'll sit on her feets

[DiscomfortZone]

Nah, I'll move her legs. I don't cope well with elementary school bullying tactics. I'll move her feet, and if she tries something, she'll end up bleeding. Simple as that. Good luck explaining to the police why she was harassing me.

[Anonymous]

I see girls putting their bare feet on library tables all the time. It doesn’t bother me, because I like feet lol (that’s probably why I notice it easily) but on public transportation it would be annoying and selfish.

[Asker]

what is the difference that makes libraries different in that kind of sense

[Opinion Owner]

The girls I see at the library would put their feet on the table and not take up space where someone could potentially sit. Some people think it’s disgusting but they’re not putting their feet on another chair just on the desk or table.

[Asker]

and also taking their shoes off?

[Opinion Owner]

Their would be completely barefoot not even socks! You can see their soles and toes from across the room lol. I swear I always see that in the spring summer.

[Asker]

you would be so happy then lol

[Opinion Owner]

I would not act like I’m happy but yes, I would be honestly. There’s something about feet that I find extremely sexy and that’s partly why I like Tarantino films. 😂

[Asker]

it may be fetish

[Opinion Owner]

It is! I know it is.

[Asker]

:D:D:D:D:D:D

[Opinion Owner]

Why does that make you happy lmao?

[Asker]

because I am fetish too

[Opinion Owner]

You have a foot fetish?

[Asker]

kinda

[Asker]

mine is a bit more complicated

[Opinion Owner]

Do you have a Kik account? Do you want to add me and chat about it?

[Asker]

what is kik

[Opinion Owner]

A messenger you can download to your phone! Download it now and let’s chat! It’s hard finding someone with a similar fetish.

[Asker]

we can chat from this site too

[Asker]

by private messages

[Opinion Owner]

On Kik, you can send pictures! Here you can’t.

[Asker]

why would I wanna send pics

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t have to! But if we chat about foot fetish, wouldn’t you want to see feet?

[Asker]

come to facebook
instagram or

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, what’s your Instagram?

[Asker]

I dont wanna share it here you type it

[Opinion Owner]

DM me

[Asker]

I will wait for a second

[Opinion Owner]

Is there anything wrong? You got my username?

[Asker]

I didn't use insta for long time I am installing it again now

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, just tell me if you didn’t get my username. I typed it but somehow it’s deleting. If you don’t have it it’s forzagiallorossi_

[Asker]

I deleted. maybe you dont want others to see your username I thought

[Opinion Owner]

I want you to find me and that’s it 😂

[Opinion Owner]

You won’t message me?

[Asker]

I masseged
already

[Opinion Owner]

On instagram? I did not get it!!! Again it’s forzagiallorossi_

[Opinion Owner]

This at the end is underscore

[Asker]

"semper fidelis" as roma

[Asker]

isn't it you

[Opinion Owner]

instagram.com/forzagiallorossi__

[Opinion Owner]

This link is my profile but I didn’t receive any messages

[Asker]

I sent wrong person

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, send me again please

[worldscolide]

Lol that's the female version of man spreading if you're talking about the picture..

[Asker]

picture is just for making things clear about what I ask

[Asker]

who is the man spreading

[worldscolide]

No one that I know of, women on busses complain about men that take up too much room when they are just is bad if not worse..

[Asker]

that's about perverts. the girl in image appearantly is not pervert

[worldscolide]

I think you don't know the meaning of pervert.. None of what I mentioned is sexual in nature..

How ever more in your question planking or draping their legs over a table is rude and wrong.

[Asker]

isn't the case when women complain about men in buses they sit so widely and try to touch them

[worldscolide]

No, it's because we sit in a way which is natural to us, allowing us to not crush our testicles, while sitting and women don't like it..

[Asker]

ha space problem okay

[worldscolide]

Yeah.. Trust me, the only time men want to touch a woman (good men not rapists or psychopaths) is with permission. Which contrary to what feminism would have you believe, most men are good men..

[Asker]

but there are perverts too

[worldscolide]

True, but the percentage is so small that it doesn't register... There are the same number of perverts in women as men by the way,..

[Asker]

but men are not so concerned about perverts

[worldscolide]

I think you're wrong about that, it's always men coming to women's defense. Always.. And perverts in prison are the most likely to be raped and killed.

You might not wish to accept those facts, but it doesn't change them..

[Asker]

I accept but lots of woman are concerned I think

[worldscolide]

They are, but the reality of the matter is this, men are 4 times as likely to be attacked, robbed, and killed.. More crime happens against us than women.. Additionally the violence against us is far worse as a child.. 70% of all child deaths are at the hands of women with fully 60% of those deaths being boys, same for abuse, sexual abuse, and neglect.. Women are not innocent here, they just refuse to talk about it and talk about it..

[Asker]

I know that but women dont agree

[worldscolide]

It's irrelevant. The statistics back me, regardless of weather or not they agree, they can't argue against facts.. Remember facts out weigh feelings.

[Asker]

women think they are superior

[worldscolide]

Trust me on this, they aren't, they are complimentary.. Not superior..

[Asker]

noone is superior

[Liam_Hayden]

Mind my business. I have no desire to get shot by some psycho.

[Asker]

if you're tired, and there is no seat available

[Rob19777]

I do that all the time. The difference between you and I is I just don't care what others think

[Asker]

well I do care, because I was doing it in the past and someone shot at me

[Rob19777]

With a gun?

[Asker]

no I meant screamed "don't do that"
sorry if I use it wrong
I meant speaking loudly

[Rob19777]

Oh...

[Asker]

yepp

[Asker]

did something bad happen to you because of that

[Rob19777]

No not really they just tell me to get my feet down

[Asker]

always did they

[DanOh2018]

It's a rather large fine for this boorish behavior where I live.

[Asker]

what do you mean

[Anonymous]

If it is a girl... and granted she has pretty feet... i will be hoping she does it barefoot.. but if she has shoes on.. sorry she has to put the. Down lol

[Asker]

what wrong with shoes

[bklynbadboy1]

It's okay as long as other seats are available but if there isn't then it's a problem

[Asker]

and your offer for this particular problem?

[bklynbadboy1]

I'd ask them to move there feet cause I want to sit down

[Asker]

if they dont want

[bklynbadboy1]

I'll sit on there legs

[TheFirstMan]

Of course no!!! I do it oftentimes and I find it sexy on girl 😂😂

[Asker]

lol the seat is gettting dirty because of shoes

[TheFirstMan]

Then remove your shoes... Or don't step on the couch.. Just plank😏

[Asker]

nope she steps on couch with shoes like in the pic

[TheFirstMan]

In the pic she use a new shoes. So, it's ok😏

[Asker]

how do you understand it is new

[TheFirstMan]

Cause it was a model. And the pic is too belle

[Asker]

I see that shoe for many years

[TheFirstMan]

Is that you? Are you serious? U looks great and attractive

[Asker]

no it isn't me
I meant I see this shoe on lots of women so far

[TheFirstMan]

OK. Do u like that pic?

[Asker]

yep why not

[TheFirstMan]

That's good, cause I like the outfit too. How old r u?

[Asker]

teen

[TheFirstMan]

I knew it... That's a long journey for you, be the best version of u every day!!! U will be good at the end👌

[Asker]

why did you start giving me motivation sentences lol

[TheFirstMan]

Cause I think u r a good potential to be my friend!!! 😂

[Asker]

I can't easily have friends lol

[TheFirstMan]

Why? Cause u r teen? Don't worry I'm out of your map, u won't see me in presence😂

[Asker]

no I am introverted

[Asker]

and shy

[TheFirstMan]

Me too, that's why I'm here. In presence, I'm too weird but others😂...

[TheFirstMan]

I find confidence when I meet someone alike me

[Asker]

there is noone like me near me

[TheFirstMan]

Yeah, same as me. All my friends comes from online, not in presence. I only feel comfortable with someone I really really use to.

[Plitty-Tank]

Probably so but most don't care to comment about it.

[Asker]

if you saw , what would you do

[Anonymous]

I see it as disgusting. Their whole house probably smells like dirty feet.

[Asker]

it is not feet

[hereismyanswer]

If there is no other place to sit its selfish.

[Asker]

if there is

[hereismyanswer]

I woulndt care

[Asker]

even if you are tired

[hereismyanswer]

? Then I would go and sit on the other free seat.

[Asker]

if that's the only seat available

[hereismyanswer]

Like I said, the person is selfish and would just ask them to sit normal.

[Asker]

if it is declined

[kethhhh]

Depends..
But mostly, yes it is rude.

[Asker]

why is it

[Therisinghero12]

Nothing, there's other places to sit.

[Asker]

if it wasn't

[Therisinghero12]

Then I'll stand, got two good legs

[Asker]

dont you want her to put her feet on the ground

[Therisinghero12]

Meh, not a fan of sitting next to people anyways xD

[Anonymous]

Only if there is no other seats available

[Asker]

if she asks you to put her shoes on your knees

[Opinion Owner]

Well that would be pretty rude

[Asker]

well then you do not have to sit

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe my legs are tired from working all day and I want to sit

[Asker]

she came first

[Opinion Owner]

Well one ticket pays for one seat not 2

[Asker]

consider a full bus. the ones standing on and the ones sitting all pay same price. A ticket can't always mean you have right for one seat

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but if there is space and you’re taking up 2 then that’s inconsiderate

[Asker]

I dont think so

[Opinion Owner]

Well it is

[Asker]

you can sit on her shoes if you want

[Opinion Owner]

No thanks, lol

[Asker]

so you can't make her put her legs off the seat

[Opinion Owner]

No I don’t want to be rude 😊

[Asker]

is gender relevant about your decision

[Opinion Owner]

Not at all