If you saw a guy being hit repeatedly by a woman because he refuses to hit back, would you step in and kick her ass?

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I definitely would.  While this question is directed mainly at women, I’m also interested in what the men have to say about this scenario.

DanaeAdam5 · Accepted Answer

Oh hell yeah I have seen it before in hight school.
Girls should be treated with fucking respect but we also have no right assaulting men (except if they hit us first)
Since today we have the stereotype that "women are allowed to hit men but if a man touches a woman he's going to jail"I would step in and beat the living shit out of this crazy bitch.

cute_short_nerd · Accepted Answer

Yes I would. All ya gotta do is a knee nock. Once she’s down sit on her and bitch slap her until she cry’s, if you got her pinned right she won’t even be able to get one hit in.

TonyBologna25 · Answer

I’ve come in contact with this situation as a sheriffs deputy and simply broke it up. It was a typical domestic dispute call and as soon as I rolled up, it was hot. Quick shove that pushed her on the ground, little knee to the face when she fought back, and then a wrist lock and cuffs. The woman deserved more, but the right thing to do is to simply apprehend her to avoid anymore physical harm. Rather let the courts punish and deal with her.

I was honestly kind of stunned that this guy just refused to strike back. I mean this was a hefty bitch and she was just whaling on him. I don’t really understand the logic of trying to “respect” women in that situation. I think it’s actually pretty weak to allow another person to beat the living shit out of you and not fight back.

Men who claim they would never hit a woman, even in the event of self defense are delusional in my opinion. If someone threatens the safety, or my loved ones safety, then it doesn’t matter if you’re male or female. My goal at that point is to stop the threat, and I’ll stop that threat by any means necessary to do so.

alex202020 · Answer

I had something similar happened to me with my ex and my neighbors. My neighbors both really like me husband and wife and I like them enough yes Hulu. The woman did not like my girlfriend for no other reason just to Justin tiger will never make the never talked I wasn't talking shit so she just didn't like her like her because I could feel that my girlfriend didn't go over there much she was doing the wrong thing visit with them as they were older 50s whenever. One day my girlfriend a psycho but I I don't hate or nothing this is just what it she is saw some picture of an ex-girlfriend in my computer and started freaking out and threw my computer in the water and was getting all physical psycho. The next door neighbor came over without knowing anything of the story and hit her a couple times and my girlfriend didn't fight back with her but in reality I felt as if the woman was doing it just to get her own frustrations out rather than his to help with my situation. And I wasn't asking for any help I wasn't anyone help me or help me. You got understand most men can't get away from a man in the fridge once you are asking the most any case in reality just if your woman is flipping out get out of the situation if you can't handle it for you restrain her hands but do you want me to help you jump me to call the police if you can that's that's what you'll be my suggestion because I actually remember feeling like why did she do that I didn't ask for any help and she came in just without any prior knowledge I

sagevalentineee · Answer

He's too sweet. Violence isn't a solution to anything, regardless of gender, but even if she's a woman, if she's really coming at you, you have every right to defend yourself. If I was a man and this happened, I'd let her get one in before I shove her away, situation looks better like that.

I'm really non-confrontational and I'm quite scared of people that get physically aggressive, so I'm not sure I'd be able to intervene, I'd probably try to help people calm down and defend whoever is being attacked.

Men fighting is scary... but women fighting gives me chills. I can't imagine getting that angry... it's not really in my nature to lash out like that so it freaks me out.

simplelikeme · Answer

You know I'm a victim of a psychotic nut who used to physically assault me all the time. There was no woman that would step up and stand up for me. And honestly I think if a woman saw it she would probably join in and help assault me not help me. My X would wake me up in the middle of the night and assault me kick me punch me and spit on me if I did not get up and have sex when she wanted it. Actually I was raped numerous times by her. It's funny that are worthless Police Department doesn't see it that way and won't do a damn thing about it. Most women are immature and wood enjoy ruining a man's life even if he was innocent just to get back at other men. But nobody deserves that :-(

halloweenkween · Answer

I wouldn’t hit her because I personally believe that violence has never solved any problems. I would interject though and get between them and tell her to stop. If I had to remove her hands I would, but I wouldn’t be aggressively physical. I would also report the incident after.

Doody22 · Answer

I don't think women should be allowed to repeatedly hit a man and expect no retaliation just because they are weaker, I will allow a couple of light hits but if it gets too much I have every right to defend myself.
I would not go up to a bear, repeatedly slap it in the face and not expect a reaction.

Skye1717 · Answer

Just because she's a woman doesn't give her "freedom" to beat up a guy simply because he's too respectful to hit her back. I don't know if I'd actually step in and hit her myself, but I'd be very, very inclined to take some kind of action to stop her.

GraveDoll · Answer

Mostly like no because i can get in trouble too. Sorry I like my job and freedom and a waste money to the court. Hell i avoid fights because i want to keep making the money I do and I like having no record. i think long term not with my emotions.

so hell no.

I mean no one should roll up or interfere in shit that had nothing to do with you to begin with. that what 911 is for... i mean that where my tax money go anyway,

regardless rather it a man or woman.

trying to be captain save a hoe is not real life.

Barbaric · Answer

I've stepped in to stop a situation like this before. I didn't hit her of course, but I grabbed the metal bucket she was trying to bash him over the head with from her and told her to calm down, carried on speaking to her and stalled her while he got away.

If I were being attacked I'd try to escape the situation. If followed I'd retaliate regardless of what anybody thinks about it. What often happens there is that men who just stood there and watched before get involved too like "you hit a girl" and try to hit the guy for defending himself, which is what many guys are afraid of - and they can get some too if they wanna try that. Fuck em. I'm nobody's punchbag.

MuffinBoi · Answer

No. When you think about it, that's a terrible idea. Because I'm not the one being attacked and I hit the woman, she could accuse me of assaulting her.

And let's face it, there's a 99% chance of me getting charged with something in that case because I'm a guy. A criminal charge is the last thing I'd like on my record, especially when looking for a job.

I'd probably encourage him to at the very least, walk/run away from the situation. If he doesn't do that, well let's hope he's robustly built.

TommyLee73 · Answer

I have seen that happen. About a year after I met my ex wife I was in front of her parents house at night and her brother was there. His girlfriend pulled up got out of her car and started beating his ass. He wouldn't do anything I kept quiet for a minute but after she knocked him down jumped on him and kneed hom in the nuts. I said damn dude why don't you hit that bitch. It hot her to stop because she started coming towards me yelling. Before she got close enough to hit me I said if you hit me I will hit you back. I don't think I would have done. They got married a few years.

JosyJosy · Answer

I say yes, because I hate the 'men don't hit women' rule in society making the guy just take it. Because people... will just watch. But if the guy hits the girl, he might jumped. It's fucked. And seeing a girl abusing that society rule, makes my blood boil.

But I would try to just sever them first honestly, we don't even know why he would be getting hit, maybe he deserved it, we don't know.

Dongtai · Answer

I don’t jump to conclusions. If I saw a guy getting hit like that by a woman my gut would probably tell me to check it out. And I would. But I wouldn’t automatically start wailing on her and probably not at all.

I’d ask what’s going on and deescalate the situation either with my words or by getting authorities involved. I can’t bring myself to hit a woman but that’s not the only way to solve this problem.

msc545 · Answer

The reason most men won't hit women, even if the woman is hitting them, is because we don't even have to touch a woman to wind up in jail. All she has to do is call the police and say we threatened her. Women, on the other hand, can pretty much beat the shit out of a guy, and not get in any trouble by saying "he threatened me". The legal system in the US basically shits on men in these situations. If you are a guy, your very best move is to GET AWAY from that woman as fast as you can, and never get near her again. Resign yourself to the fact that even if you do this, if she calls the cops, you are going to jail or perhaps the hospital first for the injuries she inflicted on you. The entire MGTOW movement started because of these facts, and because men get absolutely financially RAPED in divorce courts.

Why do you think so many men refuse to get married, have child, or even get in serious relationships anymore. We aren't stupid and we won't act against our own self-interests.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

I already saw this happen to a friend of mine after an altercation in a bar. The girl was going mental on him and I thought he would just defend himself. He didn't and simply try to shield himself. Since she was full assault mode some punches connected and I had to do something.
I came from behind her and gave her a hug pinning her arms to her sides. She tired to escape of course, but I even hold tighter to hurt her a bit and make her change her mind. Lucky for her her friends were also watching and I didn't held her for long I had to let go.
My friend then pulled me away and we just kept walking while hearing her and her crew talk trash.
God I still get mad when I think about it!
I wanted to face them, but my friend had enough for the night.

Anonymous · Answer

all the times I've seen this happen in real life, I have not once seen a women step up to defend the man. Not once. From what I can tell, most women tend to automatically assume the guy "deserves it". For real, more bitches need to start getting dropped by a man when she tries to go off on him like that. Ain't no reason for assault and I think it's time that women as a whole, stop trying to justify it.

coffeewithcream · Answer

No.
As soon as you do you will have 27 wannabe-heroes sticking up for the clearly out-of-line woman to defend her by kicking your ass.
This happen in bars all the time and women know it.
A woman can stand beside a seated male, whether she knows him or not, yell and insult him non-stop. No one will intervene. However, the second he gets up, wannabe-heroes will stand up all around the bar to stick up for the little lady by warning him to sit down. She can continue to berate him or face a serious ass whooping. Happens.
The best you can do is leave the bar. If you know her car, cut her brake line so she goes over a cliff. Then you can drink beer at another bar in peace.

Danielle93 · Answer

I would record it and call the cops. That way if that nasty biotch says otherwise, I got the evidence against her.

genericname85 · Answer

honestly i don't see how a normal woman could hurt me or most other men. like it would hurt them more than the man xD and if he's beaten up by some female MMA fighter or something, you can bet your ass i won't step in to get my ass beaten too xD i'll just call the police on them and move on about my day.

ShadowofRegret · Answer

Not often that a woman will come to a man's defense, I think it is admirable to be willing to do so as it shows you are not afraid to confront someone to save someone else.

It does seem there is a double standard though, a woman gets hit by a man, and everyone jumps all over him, but when a man gets hit by a woman, everyone thinks he deserves it, the guy gets treated like a criminal regardless if he is the aggressor or the victim.

masterdm001 · Answer

No but I'd let him know he doesn't have to stand for it and she is in the wrong, she hits me for it, I call the police for assault and she can serve the time for being cruel. Been in a relationship when I was abused more and most who only get hit. It's not Okay

Anonymous · Answer

Depends what the situation is. What is her relation to him? Like if it were her brother or something then it’s not my business.
But if it’s outright abuse then I would step in. I wouldn’t necessarily “beat her ass” without reason but I would definitely restrain her at least

FGaines18 · Answer

Nope, people are very individualistic these days and the humility in humanity is disappearing. I know if this were happening to me there would be a low chance that a bystander would step in for me. We also never know the full story (he could have hit her first) so I would have to just mind my business.

TheFireTiger · Answer

Women are so confused for the Feminism and PC* (Political Correctness) what they think what being like a "macho" and all Macho thought against the Feminism Fight are Be Like a "Macho", that have no sense.

For other way I can not support the Violence and If a Man, don't respond against a Physical agression by a woman is Because He is Under Self Control. And He is a Real Feminism meanwhile the Feminism is Like a Actually a Macho does. (Suppose to be)

Thank you

mattmanyah2 · Answer

It totally depends I've never hit a woman but I have grabbed a punch and pulled her over my shoulder and I have been kicked and made her do a backflop... I don't like getting into fights but I don't like seeing people beat... 9 times out of 10 I'd talk them down man or woman not ever going in swinging.

RawIronhide · Answer

This is harsh and a dubble standard but it's the best of a bad situation. You should stay out of it. Short of a life threatening situation, i hold myself obligated to keep my hands off of women, and if i saw a man beating on a women i would be strongly compelled to stop him. Reasons are complicated but i can explain further if you wish.

F-eight · Answer

First of all, I'd first online try to stop and ask why is she hitting him. If she doesn't then what @EdD87259 said seems perfect or calling some authority to keep it in a check. If the guy is at fault, it still doesn't give the woman the right to hit him so that woman hitting is wrong nevertheless.

Agape93 · Answer

If he refuses to hit her, no. If he can’t physically fight back, yeah sure.

doeadeer123 · Answer

actually, i rethought my decision. originally, i was going to hit her. but actually she might have her reasons and he might have his reasons. maybe he cheated on her with her twin sister and she's super mad so she's punching him. and if he's refusing to hit her back or run, well, that's just his problem.

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

Saying that men shouldn’t hit women, but women can hit men is in a way sexism of its own. Implying that a man can take a punch from a woman, but a woman can’t take a hit from a man, therefore women are weaker than men.
This is obviously absurd. I am a pacifist and would never hit anyone, man or woman. But I would definitely interfere and separate the two, even if I took a few punches myself.

MoonNieve · Answer

Absolutely, you do not strike another human being no matter what Gender they are. I despise women that think it’s ok to hit a guy just because he’s a guy!

coolhandroo · Answer

Women Hit men knowing they can't be hit back. Bullshit. If we go by that logic then shouldn't big gorilla dudes not be able to hit scrawny weak men if they are attacking them? Show me one difference and I'll apologize to this Fucking bitch when she wakes up. Jokes

Celtero · Answer

Not really my business, the guy should get away from her. I'd say the same if genders were reversed, it's just harder because men have natural defensive instincts towards women.

SenseiSeptred · Answer

When it comes down to violence in war and peace the gender is not applicable because even though injury is more easily forgotten and forgiven than insult is, mastery has it's place where too much of a social gaffe is a good way to lose honor and privilege in any country or government body especially crimes that are done upwards of caste ranking and standing.

theCobbler · Answer

Well depending upon the situation... ie. . 1) not knowing them or what started it ... no!  2) knowing what had already happened and he deserves it! Rock on girl!  3) knowing what had happened and he's innocent I'd break it up for sure  4) too many variables in any scenario ... I believe in minding my own business unless it gets bloody!

lolilola · Answer

I would find out what's going on first and try diffusing the situation so the would be no further violence.  The guy should learn to defend himself and push her off wtf. He's more likely a lot stronger than her anyway and capable of pushing her off.

thegirlfromthething · Answer

I wouldn’t step in but I’d call the police or a security guard if there was one nearby. I’d record it too, as evidence.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

nope... i don't hit girls either... maybe i should speak up at her tho to let her know that she's being watched

BoxySama · Answer

I am very aware how to restrain someone without causing any serious injury

Akshayjosh · Answer

Call me any time if your a victim of the above example. I'll make sure that bitch gets fucked up and never gets her nerves back to do that again.

Drowningkingfish · Answer

No that's a really bad idea if your a male bypasser in this situation. Plus if the women is pregnant, then she cannot be touched in fear of being responsible for assualt and one death count of a fetus.

LoU_Hades · Answer

I wouldn't intervene if a guy beats a woman if she doesn't asks me for help. I guess I wouldn't defend a guy if he doesn't ask. For some people is violence in relationship something like a fetish and I don't want disturb their weird intimacy.

Desire-for-Greatness · Answer

I don't condone hitting women. If she's being violent she needs to be restrained and prevented from harming others. But if she was posing a real danger to others then self defense is not only permitted but encouraged.

TienShenhan · Answer

If he looks like a pussy in need of help, yes. If he looks like he could wreck her, no.

WTFever · Answer

Yes, I would step in and stop the violence, doesn't matter what the sex of any of the parties involved.

Matt57 · Answer

I’d probably force myself between them and get him some distance and get her on the ground and hold her there until the cops come.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn’t beat her but I would try and get between them and stop her though I believe if a woman is hitting a guy he should have the right to hit her back

Jeff9743 · Answer

I would probably try and separate them somehow, but yeah it's kind of a two way street

Anonymous · Answer

No, if he doesn't know what to do in this situation, he might learn had way... I would just stand and watch... I wouldn't just stand and look, if some woman (even wife or reletive) would attack me, nobody canceled 'reasonable force', only because she is a woman...

Twalli · Answer

I have a decent catalogue of joint locks that I can put her in to stop her from being able to do that without pain. Granted I can break bones too if I put too much force into it.

MrSlim · Answer

I wouldn't kick her ass but I would certainly restrain her. Jiu Jitsu is your friend, I can restrain most people without causing them harm.

Mystic_Nova · Answer

I'd only do it if I knew them or was family. It's not my business otherwise. I'd only help the other way around and she was pregnant l, cause baby could get hurt

Cryptic-Game · Answer

I'd break up the fight if possible. If she knees his nuts, I'd not blame him for striking back. But if he only got slapped, I wouldn't step in. However, you said constantly beating on him. Then I'd feel like I ought to step in. If he allows this to occur again, I won't help again as he needs to take the initiative to know to defend himself and would warn him.

MrMisfit · Answer

Y'all ready for this. We guys were always taught " never hit , slap , a woman," right. Well if she draws back instead of slappin the dog shit out of ya. Like a man draws back then knock that bitch on the ground. Next she'll pull a 38 or 380 out an shoot.

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

Call the police, I don't know either of them and it's not really my fight. Only if she was doing some real damage would I try to calm her down/restrain her.

HerrSten · Answer

Probably not cause I don't meddling in others businesses which in this case is a bad trait I must admit. Some men and women for that part as well just can't fight and it doesn't matter how big and strong they are they just freeze or become very passive.

Curiousgirl122101 · Answer

Honestly I would probably call the police. It isn't my place to hit her back or I would give him my njnebr in case he wanted someonw to talk about it with

Unit1 · Answer

Restraining her seems like the best choice since I have 0 knowledge what the fight is about. And if I get hit by her, then it will get bloody.

frerardsprincess · Answer

I wouldn't hit anyone but I'd either try to separate them myself or get someone else nearby to help separate them because no one should be hit like that regardless of gender

Edd87259 · Answer

Start by asking her if men and women are equal if she says yes I can hit her without feeling bad since we are equal

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