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Should I give the girls a chance that rejected me for being overweight in the past? (Page 2)
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no because they didn't even want to be friends before which shows that they're very shallow. I don't fault them for not being attracted to you before but to not even talk to you? damn
Physical preferences are normal. It's completely understandable if someone is not attracted to you because they're not into overweight guys. It doesn't mean they're shallow. They could have a great personality. If they judge you based on your money or social status though, that's another story. Stray far away from those ones.
No I wouldn't. Doesn't seem like they are in to you, only physically. Maybe if you want a revenge one night stand and then ghost them. Lol.
Nah im not into one night stands. But im not gonna try and date them
If someone doesn't like you the way you were, they will always have excuses to leave you. Such girls are superficial, who, materialistic, and braggers.
Ignore them, looks matter but at the same time, as you pointed out they wanted nothing to do with you before but now they do which means they are shallow.
if they didn't want you when you were over weight, they are not worthy of you now. Fuck them..
At best i would use them as a pump and dump, because that is all they are worthy of.
Trust me on this, i have been there, I was once over 400 pounds, i dropped to 215, and suddenly i was attractive to these women.. I had fun with them, used them for a bit of pleasure.. But i did not date them. i married someone else.
Nah you should go for there's who liked you even when you werent fit
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It is hard to let go of the past. I went through the same thing and I wanted nothing to do with anyone from high school. I made myself a different set of friends and actually had a girlfriend. When I went to college I totally left high school in the past.
Dude, think about it. Yoh did not give a sh*t about yourself before, you did not care about your health. So very understandable. I find it odd when non overweight people go for overweight people. To me it's giving up. Now that Yoh care about your health it shows. I'm not sure if Yoh should go for these women. Maybe for someone you dont have thar history with
Don't want to date people that act fake as fuck. You can join that crowd. They didn't have to date me, but still showing respect as a human being would be nice.
Well you do not have to worry about that anymore. Join what crowd? I've been single for ages. I do show respect if you show me respect. But not respecting yourself is where it starts to go down hill. I have overweight friends. But I ain't saying shit, before they get offended.
The crowd that disrespects a person for being unattractive and then once someone looks better, you treat them like actual human beings. If you're gonna do that fake nice shit, might as well keep that same energy you had before someone changed
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Yes. Looks are important in any relationship. I want to be attracted to my partner. I want to love AND lust for them.
A change in their weight or hair or style or whatever that makes them attractive to me (assuming the personality lines up) makes them just fine for dating even if I wasn't attracted to them before.
My advice would would be to fuck them off, and I mean in the literal sense. If in their eyes you're only good enough based on something as shallow as what's skin deep, then my advice would be to view them likewise, being good enough for sex and nothing else.
It'll help your ego and let go of past bitterness to pump and dump them with the same coldness they showed you.
Naw, they showed their true colors in the past. Just don't treat others moving forward for the sins of others from your past.
If they treated you like garbage, a you may have indicated in your reply to hi_it_is_e123, then you have your answer. They are fake, which will not work in a long-term relationship.
If they simply rejected you without being intentionally rude, then I don't know.
It was the fact that they treated me like shit. I understand people have preferences but to act fake once i lose weight and act all interested, just seems disingenuous
No I would not, if you gain weight again, they may just up and leave!
That's actually a very valid point nobody talked about that elephant in the room people lose and Gain for different reasons
@yofuknutz yep!!! People are so catty!
I mean if you are into them you should give them a chance.
But if not then you shouldn't lead them on.
I mean if you reject them because they rejected you that's kinda just petty which is very unattractive
Sometimes being petty is justified
Nope petty is never justified.
Not dating someone because you don't know their intentions is okay but petty is childish always.
Let's agree to disagree then. Because even just treating someone like shit for not being attractive is messed up
They are fair weather friends, excited by your looks. You can have a bit of fun with them if you wish but they'll be toys and you appear to know this already.
People who have never known hardship have a tendency to lack self reflection and depth. They've never had to question themselves.
Look for someone with more depth if you're serious. Sounds like you deserve it.
No , they didn’t like you then so why give them a chance now , those type of people don’t know what it means to truly love someone
Now I'm assuming they were rude to you before and treated you badly when you were overweight. If that's the case, do not date them.
Otherwise, if they rejected you normally cause they had a preference, then it's honestly upto you.
The first one
Then you know what to do
sure. i think "being morbidly obese" is a very valid reason to be rejected or to reject someone for. so if one fixes that, i don't see an issue with giving them a chance, cause they've basically removed the flaw that lead to their rejection.
It's the fact that they wouldn't even talk to me but then act all nice and fake as fuck. Like i told another dude, i don't want fake ass people in my life
people tend to be nicer to people they find attractive. that's not being "fake". that's normal.
Yeah but it shows a lot about your character. Me id still treat people with respect and am still nice. You can continue being like them though. Go join your crowd
litterally everybody is like that. also you gotta consider that specially girls have problems with being "nice" to guys cause they missunderstand it for romantic or sexual interest. that's why they tend not to be that nice to guys they're not attracted to.
why do you feel the need to insult me? don't shoot the freaking messenger dude. seems like you're having character issues as well. i just explained to you how people work. why do you assume those people are "my crowd"?
maybe learn compassion and understanding for other people. better looking outsides can only hide an ugly character so far.
did i treat you disrespectful? did i offend you? how did i deserve being treated like that by you?
Not everybody. Speak for yourself and the other half of the species. But people are still nice and show people report regardless of what they look lik and so do i
Respect*
did i treat you without respect? was i not being nice to you?
Would you still show respect to people you don't find attractive?
i don't even know how you look. for all i know, you could be the ugliest motherfucker on the planet. did i tread you bad? did i treat you without disrespect?
here's a lesson for personal growth for you. take it or leave it. i mean well: if you disagree with someone based on an argument they made, attack the argument, not the person. antagonizing a person that brought an argument you disagree with is a horribly ineffective communication strategy, cause they will take offense, get angry and it will spiral into negativity from there.
stay with the argument. either discuss, elaborating on your view or just tell them you disagree and that's it. no need to lash out at them and lump them in with "horrible people" you associate with their argument. i guess you got hurt in your life. i know hurt people tend to hurt people. i have compassion for that. no bad blood dude. have a good day.
with disrespect*
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