You should tell all the girls that rejected you for being overweight to go pound sand or if your horny fuck all those girls that turned you down & move on.
Hell no. If they couldn't take you for you at the time, dont give them a second chance. If all they want you for is your looks, they are shallow and. Ot worth a relationship
I understand how you feel, im the same can't let things go
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Why not do this--just see how they make it up to you. Go on a date with them and see how willing to please they are. If you find them attractive and they turn you on, hook up with them. If they're not interested in playing like you want, then bail.
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The point is it's all upside to you. You have nothing to lose.
@Thedivinechic wow thats awesome that youd find a glimmer of attraction to a homeless person because they definitely dont care for success. Impressive that all that matters is the content of their character. If more women were like you, the world would be a better place
You didn't ask him if he was still overweight so it says you'll believe what you want instead of the facts. can't always be right about the way you feel, facts over feelings
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You should tell all the girls that rejected you for being overweight to go pound sand or if your horny fuck all those girls that turned you down & move on.
You were fat. That made you less attractive.
If they let you down respectfully, then sure, why not.
If they were mean about it, then don't even waste a message on them.
They were mean about it
No, you shouldn't. There's plenty of other girls out there.
Also, did they actually say it was BECAUSE you were OVERWEIGHT?
3 of them did. Told me they dont date bigger guys and that i should lose weight before trying to talk and ask girls out
The other one just seemed repulsed by me and could have just told me she wasn't interested
ah, I see, Sorry that happened to you. Hopefully you can pick out the people who care about you for you and not your looks/weight.
Hell no. If they couldn't take you for you at the time, dont give them a second chance. If all they want you for is your looks, they are shallow and. Ot worth a relationship
Do whatever you want.
If you wanna date them, date them.
I personally wouldn't because I'm petty like that 🤷♀️
Date other women? Besides, I doubt that you would be willing to date a heavy woman.
Why hold onto it? It's literally life. Fat people are not attractive, and I doubt you wanted to go chat up fat girls when you were fat or fit.
Actually i dated an overweight girl and i still would. Oh but please tell me that i wouldn't and how all of us humans behave exactly the same ☺
So since weight doesn't matter and it's fake, why not go be a fit guy dating a chubby girl?
I have no problem with that. As a matter of fact, if i show you that id be dating an overweight girl, would it shut you up then?
If you're dating a chubby girl then why are you upset about women who rejected you when you were fat?
You're too dumb to read aren't you?
I think your core issue is you're extremely angry and insecure. You definitely should avoid those girls.
Your problem is your lack of reading things. Go back and read why i got upset
I understand how you feel, im the same can't let things go
Why not do this--just see how they make it up to you. Go on a date with them and see how willing to please they are. If you find them attractive and they turn you on, hook up with them. If they're not interested in playing like you want, then bail.
The point is it's all upside to you. You have nothing to lose.
The weirdest thing is I have loved fat guys like fat Joe and Action Bronson. I get cold easily. Lol
Get cold?
I like warmth at night? I wear a blanket on leather couches. I get goosebumps.
Theyre still fat but the success is attractive to me too. Its not weird at all, im attracted to successful men too. How else would i learn anything?
Idc about the success lol
@Thedivinechic wow thats awesome that youd find a glimmer of attraction to a homeless person because they definitely dont care for success. Impressive that all that matters is the content of their character. If more women were like you, the world would be a better place
Have fun. Date em all at once. Have a full rotation. You’re in college. No one dates.
I rejected them
That works too
Sure why not. Most people aren't attracted to fat people. It's not their fault.
I can't date fake ass people though
It's not fake. Maybe she wasn't attracted to you when you were fat, but is attracted to you now?
Attraction isn't a matter of choice. It can't be fake if it isn't a choice.
You treat unattractive people like shit and then when they change, all of a? sudden you're nice? Fuck outta here. Go join that crowd
Did she treat you like shit, or just wasn't interested in you and that bothered you.
They treated me like shit. Can you not read what I've been saying to others? Wow a lot of you on here can't read
Now I can see why she treated you like shit. Because you are an asshole. Apparently THAT was the problem. So now you have your answer.
Lmao and you sound stupid af. You can't read what I've told others? What i am even asking? Of course you can't 😂
Nope screw her. If she can't handle you at your worst she doesn't deserve to handle you at your best.
For something like weight, people like it when you put in effort to stay in shape. I would give them a chance if you still find them attractive.
Let’s be frankly honest right here , if an overweight girl asked you out right now, you wouldn’t say yes either.
So how are these girls so terrible?
Well actually I've dated an overweight girl in the past. So good try trying to make me look like a hypocrite 👍
Nice try 🤣😅😂😂
@asker you only dated fat girls cus u were fat yourself.
You didn't ask him if he was still overweight so it says you'll believe what you want instead of the facts. can't always be right about the way you feel, facts over feelings
@Mofunfour20 he’s been fat his whole life up until recently.
Id still date overweight women right now. I have no problem with it. But again continue to try and make me look like a hypocrite 🙂👍
Believe whatever makes you sleep well at night 😂
@asker such things are more easily said than done
@Mofunfour20 you’re so emotional and sensitive like a woman
Oh wow you know me so well. What numbet am i thinking of right now 🤔
Number*
Coming from you, thanks for the compliment. You keep responding lol🤣
@Asker, Nobody expects you to go around bragging about how shallow you are. We all expect you to lie
@Mofunfour20 i don't know. you're acting as if i insulted you or something.
What if people aren't like you and actually respect people regardless of what they look like sweetheart?
@Asker, I don't think most people are that, to be honest.
Well then im glad im in the minority and not a robot
Comically missing his point. It's not the rejection, but rudeness and bullying that he has trouble forgiving. Context matters.
Yeaah man when you buy a new mercedes girls starts to suck your cock as well. This is how life goes.
This is like a physics rule except it and move on.
Nah when you treat someone like shit when there's no intention of being anything more than that, they still disrespect you
people are nicer to good looking people without even realising it. Ugly people are well aware of this.
Humans suck man lol
a documentary series on youtube exposed this do you want it its excellent its called WAW by FACEandlms www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFnJMPQow7A&t=1201s
Fuck them then dump them. Thats the best way to handle it.