What's something you dislike about yourself or life situation that others might like?

[MCheetah]

Trying a "Grass is always greener" question, here. What do you dislike about your body or current life, that others might be grateful to have, or even love to have?

For me: Women frequently (not always, but commonly) tell me I'm unattractive, too short, and undateable, and all that stuff. I'm also overweight. So those are some negatives. However, I have my Masters degree in English, am living rent-free in Seoul right now, only teach six hours a day (out of eight) and only two of those classes are full of little bratty children, make about $2,400 a month (which isn't very much I know, but rent-free and after taxes that is; so 2,400 net), and I don't have any kids, family, or obligations back home in the US. Oh, and I also never get sick as well and have an intensely strong immune system, I've been told. Hooray? 🤷‍♂️

So I'm hopelessly single and alone, and overweight, and not tall, but I'm also mostly free. I guess that's something worthy being grateful for? How 'bout you?

[Anonymous]

what I dislike in other people; don't waste their money on nonsense... everything is perfect, they have nothing missing... so they can do street animals a big favor instead of spending their damn money on weird stuff and showing off to other poor people. and thus, they can set a good example to all people with their behavior. and then if all the celebrities in the world support, maybe no animal in the world will perish. For example, they can build a hotel, hospital or even a restaurant for animals. Doing a favor to innocent creatures instead of wasting their money, believe that it will never make them poor. but they find it more appropriate to show people off with their millions of dollars earned by the stupid public who are their big fans.

[natured]

I hate my hair, it's too much to manage they are thick and curly but people love them and they think they look good on me.
I also hate my huge breast -_- and obv people love them ffs.

[RasberrySlushPuppy]

this reminds me of when a girl at the back of a bus i was in said on the phone to her friend "i hate the bus driver, he's gone to go get fruit from the fruitstand" i giggled and she heard me and giggled. The way you express yourself is word play

[DonkeyDan]

I'm very broad shouldered and have a large upper body build, sometimes that's an advantage but it's not something I really like, it's hard to buy clothes as I have quite a thin waist compared to my chest and shoulders. T-shirts and tops just look ridiculous on me. I know there are some guys out there that would probably kill to have my shape, and I've had women say how much they lke my big strong broad shoulders. But I don't like them much and it can be pretty inconvenient at times.

[MCheetah]

Same here. I once had a man tell me I had "shoulders like boulders." It was awkward.

[DonkeyDan]

That's a bit weird yeah. Do you mind having broad shoulders?

[MCheetah]

A little. There's other things I dislike far more than that.

[DonkeyDan]

Thanks for the MHO

[FinalFantasyBro]

Things I hate about myself.
1. My depression, anxiety, and shyness
2. I unfortunately have a habit of wanting to become an overachiever.
3. I have man boobs, I really want to get rid of them.
4. My inability to make either friends or a girlfriend.
5. Sometimes I tend to lack focused, unfortunately. 🙄😒

[Alex2100]

Everyone tells me I'm such a pretty girl, how I should never change my appearance, and how I am such an amazing daughter. The only person who doesn't do this is my brother, and that's cause he's the only person who knows the truth. I'm a guy. I was born a girl, but I want to be a guy. I hate people categorizing me as a pretty princess, I hate every female part of my body. I'm too young to decide this though according to my family, so no one but my brother who is also LGBTQ knows.

[MCheetah]

Just a helpful hint for you if/when you decide to become a transman. Being a guy is like thousands of times harder than any woman. Women get sympathy in society. Women aren't expected to be brave and heroic at every waking moment of the day. Women aren't expected to keep society running 24/7 without so much as a thank you for it, and then get sh*t on by ungrateful feminists and Wokémon on social media. If you really want to become a guy, just know that NO ONE will kiss your ass and people (especially young women) will treat you like sh*t, all the time, and you'll have NO ONE to turn to, to listen to you or complain about (complaining as a man only gets you more sh*t, and called "an incel, a misogynist, a school-shooter," etc). Just a little advice.

[Cherry234]

What I don't like about my face is that I have acne (it's not severe, just mild). I also don't like that I have short curly hair (I wish I had long straight hair instead. The picture in my profile pic is me with my hair straightened). Curly hair can be a pain in the ass to deal with (most of the time). At the same time I'm happy that I'm slim and healthy. I also have a strong immune system

[Jonny59]

I hate my hairline is not 'perfect' I have like M but a tiny M but people say you look mature so its fine I guess I don't know haha
one more thing is i have a very tiny belly skin that is sagging because I've lost tons of weight and my girlfriend said she likes it its like a cushion but I just feel insecure when I take my shirt off I often lift my pants a little bit above like 1cm or 2cm just to hide the hanging

[Likes2drive]

Women never tell me those things at least not to my face but the only thing that bothers me I guess is losing hair on top of my head but considering women are pretty short in Korea how short are you for them to be telling you that? Since average height for a man is 5 foot 9 inches

[Starwitch23]

I don't like my breast sometimes because I get attention because of that.

[Pandupillu]

I have small face, even though I dislike it, others find it extremely cute.

[gaguser30]

You need a deeper throat 😉

[DonkeyDan]

I like smaller cute faces on women.

[LtJackass]

Not a big fan of being alive. I would be open to switching places.

[Marichat_N_Adrinette]

Me 2

[BBFDancer]

I dislike that I never had my first kissed yet. Sometimes I think I’m unattractive. Sometimes I’m a stubborn.

[Charliefretz329]

My incredibly high sex drive.