Have you ever been stalked or had someone obsessed with you?

[Anonymous]

If so, what happened and why did they stop?

I've had two guys, who I thought were my friends, flip the script on me and began to freak me out. One tattooed his name on himself and would park in my neighborhood. The other told his family that I was going to marry him and told his entire family. He went as far as renovating his house for my arrival and I never had intentions of going anywhere.

Yes, I've been stalked/obsessed over.

No, I haven't been stalked/nor obsessed over.

I've been a stalker/obsessive.

Other

[dustybiker]

Yikes. Sounds like you, unintentionally, know how to attract the crazies too. Hope that last one ended okay for you?
Yes, been stalked to the extreme. Not fun.

[Asker]

I know. I had to self reflect. Stop being too kind and have more boundaries or something.

Yes, thank God it ended okay. I moved, and had to block him.

How did things end up going for you?

[dustybiker]

It does make you reflect.
Thank goodness you’re safe.
Stolen mail and how much trouble that can cause with relentless crazy, it’ll be sporadic and ongoing for me for a long time.

[Asker]

Oh my gosh! That sounds horrible. The mail system needs some updates in regards to how mail is delivered and to whom is delivered.

[douride2]

It was so bad I had to involve the police & get a restraining order. The guy most likely still can't cross the Canada - US border.

[livingnightmare]

yep i was stalk by a girl from hs. she found out where i lived so she would drive by my house all the time and follow me to places whenever i go out.

[Asker]

That's such strange behavior. What do you think finally made her stop?

[MCheetah]

No. But I WISH I had a female stalker before. A young one. Am I not good enough to deserve a stalker girl?

[Asker]

Hahahaha I'm not sure that having a stalker equates to one being better than or more deserving.

[Twalli]

I don't think so. If I have, my stalker isn't good.

[Anonymous]

Nah, nobody gives a fuck about me😅

[Wise4myage]

Thankfully no.

[Asker]

Lucky you!

[Wise4myage]

Thanks.

[Anonymous]

If you ever want to get back at them, let me know