If you have desires to be an asshole, should you represd them or embrace them?

[bricksarehardarara]

a lot of times I have a desire to be a jerk, I always seem to wanna insult others or put people down or call people stupid, simply jus because of their view or opinion... dunno why... For example if I see a skinny jeans mod on a video game website, I get the desire to comment "skinny jeans are gay"

Most of the time I try to repress this feeling and jus ignore it cos I don't wanna put others in a shit mood or ruin their day jus cos I couldn't help myself, but sometimes I jus embrace it and say fuck it and be a jerk to everyone, I dunno whether this makes me an asshole or not, so... Does anyone else get these urges?
Should I repress them or jus embrace them and be a jerk to everyone?

Also... Am I an asshole? What is a asshole exactly?
Is that jus someone who simply has these thoughts, and they're still an asshole whether or not they share them... Or are you only an asshole if you let them out?

Yes

No

[devilish-cutie]

well you shouldrepress them to have good relationships with other people and to not hurt their feelings. You wouldn't want someone insulting you, so dont insult them. You may have your opinions wich may be negative but hate is a problem. So what if someone wears skinny jeans or is gay? You may dislike it, but dont export your energy in hate, it doesn't really matter for you and your life. You should focus on ysf and thingy you like and enjoy, not on hating others. Understaing is also very important, understand that some people like things you might hate, and its not their fault. As you like certain things, they also like certain things you happen to hate. Some hate what you like. It would be boring if we were all the same. Diferences make life beautiful and make everyone unique. If someones asks you about your opinion you can say the truth but you should be respectful about it. There are expetional cases when you can be "more" rude and that is when someone is also rude, but maintaining the dignity of respect is always important. You may also say your honest opinions to someone who isvery close to you and often to someone who seems to share same views as you, when you have the urge to feel understood and connect to other with same values and interests as ysf.

[bricksarehardarara]

Yeah. I don't know where all this unnecessary anger and desire to hate came from maybe cos I've been rejected a lot. But I'm gonna try to stop being a jerk lol

[devilish-cutie]

yes, that hate only mostly hurts you. It cold be general frustration from dificulties in life and in this way you desire to express your bottled emotions. Key is to find a way to let those emotions out in a helathy way. working out often helps. take care

[Kaneki05]

Do what you want it's your life that's the point of it. Just you have to live with whatever consequences that brings.

[dustybiker]

You meet all the great people through respect.