How many specific big insecurities do you have?

[Jammaa]

By big, I mean big enough for it to impact your behaviors in the long term. If you have some small ones that you think add up to one big one, please add that.

For insecurities, we will use the definition below:

Insecurity -
n. something that makes you feel a lack of confidence about yourself or your relationships with other people

Ex. My boobs are too small
Ex. My lips are too big
Ex. My forehead is too big
Ex. My voice is too squeaky
Ex. I have too much fat on my belly
Ex. I am terrible with public speaking

It would be great for you to share the specifics. No judgement. Just curiosity. Feel free to go anonymous though if that helps.

I never had any

I currently don't have an insecurity

One

Two

Three

4-5

6 or more

[MCheetah]

1. My short height, above all else. I'd say 70% of my insecurity comes from every dude being taller than me, and a good one out of ten women being my same height. If I was two inches taller at 6'1"/185 cm, most of my insecurities would be gone. If I was six inches taller at 6'5"/195 cm, I'd have no height insecurities at all.

Me at a Dutch Bank.

2. My body. I'm overweight and Hypothyroidism makes it near impossible to lose weight the traditional way (I only eat one meal a day; about 900-1300 calories worth), so I am insecure about being fat, basically.

Me next to Amanda, although she's somewhat tall and in heels.

3. My face. I'm ugly as sin. Always have been, though. Highest most women have rated me is a 6 out of 10, which is still unattractive. I personally think I'm a 4, though. According to A. I, I'm barely a 2.5 out of 10.

Me and how ugly I am out of ten, according to an AI Algorithm

Minor insecurity: My dick size. I am small (6.5" x 5.5") and have been Noped out of the bedroom by more than one woman because I was too small for her and they only wanted bigger. But considering my height, that is the far bigger insecurity than having an inadequate sized penis for women. They'd have to like me first before we got to sex, and the shortness causes bigger problems than not being able to please them in bed. (Besides, I am apparently really good at oral sex, since I can't rely on my small junk to please a woman.)

So I have three big insecurities, and several smaller insecurities.

[exitseven]

I have a couple. There is something about my body that caused me embarrassment when I was younger. I am over 50 and married and my wife doesn't mind it so I guess I am over it. I am pretty insecure because I have always had a hard time getting through college. They pretty much convinced me that I was not as smart as the other students.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[SimonStudent]

Hi I'm a guy and I genuinely worry my penis is too small. I'm confident in almost all other areas though.