What can I say or do with my cousin who feels suicidal from childhood trauma?

[Anonymous]

My cousin’s mom who is a single mother always bring up about dad who is a deadbeat that cheated on her mother away she looks like him that she tries to paint off as a joke or something but it’s not funny of how much he caused much pain to the mother and her. For once she tried to speak up for herself about how much she doesn’t keep hearing it constantly almost 24/7 but her mom yells at her and curses at her saying it’s her house and she can say what she wants continuously yelling at her each time. She hates putting up with her while she’s in college because all her mom says is that she don’t need y’all meaning her and sister and they need her. All her mom does is procrastinate with false promises that’ll never happen as it is all nonsense when she say when she gonna do it because she never do and gets mad at her when she don’t care about, then wants to call and tell people to talk shut about her every single time her sister or do something or something happens with someone else’s child and wanna being up her or both her and her sister. There’s much more.

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her mother always love saying that when she screams at her, all she do is cry but she doesn’t talk back at her like her sister does. My cousin did that from a child all the way to her high school years because she couldn’t do anything and didn’t even have any actual help. Her grandmother would always beat her with a belt when her sister who was the baby and youngest in the family used to get away with things like bully her because if she had hit her, her

[Gremlinimo]

Can she move in with you?

Sounds like she needs out of that place, sharpish.

No one needs to suffer that kind of crap, especially from family, who are supposed to cherish/nurture.

[Asker]

No because I can’t be anywhere else myself as I have a situation myself that is not as similar but it is with a narcissist and brainwashed sibling. It’s hard for my dad to get a place as he is near getting it but it’s been taking longer than usual. I would love to have took her in but I don’t have a place currently for myself to being out of my situation yet.

[Asker]

Like I said, her grandma wouldn’t do anything. But if my cousin were to hit back her sister, they both got beat or her mama or grandma would try to jump her which is stupid and unfair that contributed to her childhood trauma. She tried to explain to both of her parents of why she’s the way she is and they always try to correct on her trauma as a child and tell her how to feel. It’s like talking to brick walls that’s only worrying about themselves and not the pain they have endured on their children mainly her.
She is very much tired of how all that people that fucked over her say they love all their kids the same, I care about you, I love you, I understand you, I love all my grandkids the same, and I’m proud of you that is not true and if so then, she wouldn’t intentionally fucked over and things wouldn’t ended up the way they have. Living where she is now with her mom and other relatives make her loss her mind and have suicidal thoughts are going through the roof.

[Avicenna]

They need therapy more than anything else- encourage them to do that