In the midst of hatred, gender wars, etc how many people just live their own life without labels?

[ChicanaChick]

With all these gender wars, hatred and more names to identity yourself (Karen, SJW, alpha, omega, beta, red pill, MGTOW or whatever), more complications...

How many others are actually living their own life without saying ''Oh I'm an MGTOW...''Oh I'm a red piller'', ''Oh I'm a feminist'', etc and instead just happily being single or doing whatever they like in life? How many people are actually minding their own business and don't care about those labels whatsoever?

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Personally I'm just a carefree woman that enjoys life and like living in the moment. I don't like identifying myself as any specific label. I feel things are getting complicated with too much names.
There have always been white racist women even 100 years ago and the label Karen didn't exist.

[nolabels]

As my username suggests, I strive to not label myself nor others.

I'm not perfect at doing so.

Still, I try.

[ChicanaChick]

Great

[YourFavoriteFriend]

I do! I'm free after almost 2 years! And I couldn't feel better! Wish that to everyone!

[ChicanaChick]

Cool. Much better.
I find it worth laughing when those people that identify themselves with those labels claimed to be happy but then go on justifying their distrust/hatred for the opposite gender, then feel the need to call themselves those label. It makes no sense. If you're happy then you're happy and move on with your life.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Well, I learnt to not be so rough on people (even tho it's very hard some times). We all do mistakes and learn in the end of the day. You don't understand it when you are wrong. That's the whole point of delusion, that you can't see it. So I just try to have patience and wish them all luck 😇

[genericname85]

i live my own life but there's of course labels because these things are neccessary to orient yourself in the world. i just don't accept the bullshit labels that media media and as a consequence idiotic people who copy paste their opinions from the media are trying to force on everyone.

like i will use my own labels. like if you're a man, i will call you a man. words are meant to describe reality, not to pamper your feelings. i don't care about meaningless word hulls like "alpha", "feminism", "red pill" and shit alike because i don't think communicating with words that everyone fills with different meaning is pointless.

[genericname85]

and of course i have my opinion about current political affairs but that opinion will be very different from media, cause i don't let media make my opinions like a lot of people do.

[ChicanaChick]

Yes obviously identifiers is different than those pathetic names the medias are giving it. I like how things were in the old days, simple. A man that didn't want to date any woman was simply a single man. Nowadays there are more on this site that are calling themselves MGTOW (like I care, lol) and feeling the need to justify themselves when they call themselves that, blaming on us and going on with their hatred... so they're not happy being single.

[ChicanaChick]

and there was no such thing as a Karen in the old days. She was simply a racist.

[genericname85]

yeah i see that being a trend. nobody takes accountability for anything. not even their own life. instead they're trying to blame everything on some sort of "societally caused unfairness". like have you ever considered that where you are in life is a result of the choices you made in life? and if your life sucks, you should probably start making better decisions instead of blaming everyone around you xD

like mgtow and feminism are the same. they get with shitty people of the other gender over and over again. never adjust their standards so they always fall for the same shit and always end up with the same pain. so they figure "well everyone of the other gender must be as shitty as that little sample i got" xD it's idiotic.

[genericname85]

don't get me started on bullshit like "Karens". like first Karen was that asshole person who would try and force their shit on you. and then suddenly karen was that person who just didn't wanna wear a freaking useless face mask, so now she was the person who was opposing people trying to force their shit on her xD so it completely flipped in meaning. same with feminism. it was always a movement lead by extremist women but suddenly now we're supposed to accept that they're somehow fighting for equality for women AND men? give me a break.

[ChicanaChick]

Things have gotten too complicated. I always felt like too much labels (instead of just the basic identifiers) makes things get out of control and unhealthy extremists are born as a result.

[genericname85]

i think the core issue is that we're using words with no meaning. and then people get angry at each other and arguing with words that mean nothing. and they really never realize that they are getting all worked up over nothing, cause they actually don't undestand each other at all.

[Anonymous]

I agree with you that we need to denounce all these labels. But the problem isn't the label itself; it's the political and social platforms things like feminism provide to give victim minded people a pulpit from which to spread their hatred, ideology and identity politics.

[LazerBean]

If we are talking in real life, that would be most people. Those labels are pretty much things you only see if you frequent online forums.

[Sixgunsound]

I'll comment if provoked or asked directly but irl I have more important things to do.

[ChicanaChick]

Yeah I figure most people just mind their business and don't need a label with the added justifications and reasons.

[Andres77]

Dad is my only relevant label

[ChicanaChick]

That's different and it makes sense. It's an important figure in your life. I feel like as soon as those people feel the need to identity themselves as any of those labels, they aren't doing it because they're happy with their lives. It's like they need some justification and validity.

[Andres77]

Nailed it! That’s exactly why.