Have you ever left like an outsider?

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tfan1 · Accepted Answer

Now I feel like that Beatles song - nowhere man

He's a real nowhere man
Sitting in his nowhere land
Making all his nowhere plans for nobody
Doesn't have a point of view
Knows not where he's going to
Isn't he a bit like you and me?

Nowhere man, please listen
You don't know what you're missing
Nowhere man
The world is at your command

He's as blind as he can be
Just sees what he wants to see
Nowhere man, can you see me at all?

Nowhere man, don't worry
Take your time, don't hurry
Leave it all
'Til somebody else lends you a hand
Doesn't have a point of view
Knows not where he's going to
Isn't he a bit like you and me?

Nowhere man, please listen
You don't know what you're missing
Nowhere man
The world is at your command

He's a real nowhere man
Sitting in his nowhere land
Making all his nowhere plans for nobody
Making all his nowhere plans for nobody
Making all his nowhere plans for nobody

Everytime l hear this on The Yellow Submarine - it makes me sad reminding me of my life. I feel like a loser and I have no real world friends only online ones. 😞

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes, I'm sure most people can relate to feeling like this at some point in their lives which is sad especially now a days when connecting with like minded people is easier than it has ever been in history. The whole point they sold us about social media was so we could be connected with people, yet it seems that it's only driving us further away from each other. Now people are at each other's throats because of things that don't REALLY matter like politics or social status. Those things only further divide us and make us believe that we are all alone, 7.5 billion people on Earth and so many of us feel more alone than ever.
If everyone feels like an outsider than maybe there's not really an inside, maybe if we put down the walls we've all built to protect ourselves we'd see that we're all standing outside.

cryscrys1 · Accepted Answer

Yes but that’s a very normal feeling all human being in this world maybe animals too feel like an outsider because this is not out - true home- we are here as a transit to go where we belong in the end of our journey. That’s why you feel empty and white or blank most of the time even in your best victories. If you feel extra than usual that’s because your an empath a true empath and not like those fake empath.. everyone now days appears as introvert/empath because they think it’s cool. Or want to mask their true intention. What’s sad is that only maybe 2% -10% of the world categorize as true empath yet in this world 99.9% categorizes themself as an empath.. contradicting.
You don’t express what you are your soul knows. If they people say what they are “then they are not” as they say

Paulalove98 · Accepted Answer

In elementary all the way to high school yeah.. I was bullied and had few friends, I dealt with a lot of insecurities and often felt depressed till I graduated high school and life was taking different turns since I was finding my true self and then started working, gaining confidence, believing in myself, and practicing healthy habits, also learning to speak up and give 0 fucks what people have to say.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Every time I am a new person entering a group who know each other.

One-on-one, no problem for me. But we are often outsiders. It's a tough situation to manage. But it can be learned, how to do it better/well.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes most of my school life since I was in the class where all the boys grew up with video games and I was one of the few that didn´t get them but got books instead something none of the other guys got.

xoxosilentgirl · Answer

all the time since i was a kid. But now i feel like those people are the real outsiders, not me.

Red-Blaze · Answer

Yes, I join a Role Play commuinty, and for a lot of it I feel like the odd out, the one intrested in stuff no one else is, or understands, remaing alone

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, a lot of times, and it does hurt me.

Wicked_Witch · Answer

There were certain times in school I did. Other times I was able to find my circle.

Sour-rose · Answer

Yup.. and lost. But then I figured it out- I'm asexual and i don't need/want sex from any mofo on this planet. And that's okay. :D

dustybiker · Answer

No. I just try a different angle. Adapting is a huge part of life.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

I felt that way a lot in high school because I didn't really fit in with most people

magiusX26 · Answer

was born being an outsider and preffer to stay that way.

melanieeeB · Answer

Yeah I have before

Alex8736 · Answer

i have and the rest drank the Kool-Aid and the rest didn't get to live and talk about it 😝

SnowedIn · Answer

There were quite a few times, yes.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

Yes definitely.

JosyJosy · Answer

felt yes, left hell yes

linka_pat307 · Answer

Like every tym I feel angry

Dnice1 · Answer

I sure did in elementary school

Jennz6 · Answer

Sometimes I feel like I’m am

BLP11520 · Answer

Sure 😔many times

BBFDancer · Answer

All of my life.

user_deleted · Answer

in school

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Every single day

NathanDavis · Answer

now, I do...

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, I felt that way all through High School.

Jaybefree · Answer

Yep.

Sexysunshine · Answer

Always

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