Why does it take nearly losing someone to know how bad you are?

Anonymous

I just finished watching a show about a daughter that didn't want her mother showing up at her wedding because her mom was indigenous. Her length of disrespect was extreme; insulting her mom, cutting her braids, not presenting her mom to her friends or if she had to tell them she's her former nanny or maid, get physical with her... all the way to evicting her from the house.

Meanwhile I was thinking '' wow this girl disrespected and even hit her mother and she's still alive''. Lucky her. Just being respectful would be enough for my mom to put a stop to it. If I try hitting her, I'm already picturing her catching my hand in mid-air, even before I even connect. Then lets just say sweet dreams for me.

The young woman was a total brat all the way till it was revealed her mom has breast cancer and needs money for a treatment. All of that sudden, that smirk and arrogance on that woman's face was replaced with remorse and tears. All of the sudden she doesn't want to lose her mom.

Why should it take nearly losing someone to realize how awful you sound?

Why does it take nearly losing someone to know how bad you are?
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