Does the person you are interested in having options.. bother you?

[MementoMori777]

this question goes for both genders does it bother you? or are you always up for the challenge of the competiton, explain yourselves and whats on your minds when i say options 🙂

and im not asking whats right, im asking how it makes you feel, cause i know its perfectly normal for someone single with no commitment to anyone to have options.

[DizzyDesii]

If a person doesn’t have options then I’d wonder whats wrong with them. I accept that I’d have options and he would too. But the fact of the matter should be that we’d choose eachother over those options. This isn’t high school, so I’m no longer going to compete for a guys attention. Either he likes me more than that someone else or he doesn’t. Now if you’re referring to “backup plan” options then thats different. If i choose guy A then guy B and C are out of the picture. If guy A and i breakup and B or C happen to still be available and interested in me, then its fairgame.

[MementoMori777]

you lost me at backup plans, you started talking alphabets and i no longer know what you mean, so you just boyfriends? 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Are you referring to a single person having options or are you referring to a taken person having “backup plan” options? Either way, i gave my opinion above in response to both

[MementoMori777]

what are you talking about? its a red flag if they have dating backups, to jump from one guy to the other, i was talking about single people 😂

[DizzyDesii]

And i answered the question for that as well

[MementoMori777]

fair enough lol

[milknhoneyy]

I mean if you think about it, the reason they have options is probably because they're a catch lol. Plus I wouldn't feel as good about being chosen if I was the only option on the table in the first place. So not only do I not mind, but I prefer they have options, because if they don't then what does that make me?

[MementoMori777]

it makes you the one meant to be, no lie that was pretty corny, not my best work but i see your point, i personally wouldn't say you are any less because the person has no options tho 😂

i see your point tho ha

[Billlewis]

No, not at all, because I prefer to be in a relationship in which she has unlimited freedom to date other guys and have sex with them whenever she wants.

[MementoMori777]

fair enough lol

[Billlewis]

What's really weird about it is that I overwhelmingly prefer that she treats the other guys she's dating much, much better than she treats me. Isn't that strange?

[MementoMori777]

sure i get it bro, you are a cuck lol

[JoyGirl]

If I am interested in someone, I don’t care if they have options. I start losing interest. I will not be one of the options. 😂

[MementoMori777]

they can have options me, myself and i type shit 😂

[JoyGirl]

Fr!
Like don’t waste my time. 😂

[MementoMori777]

thats some real talk 😂

[LostandFound__x]

It doesn’t bother me if he’s not entertaining it.

[MementoMori777]

makes sense