How can I get over being Short and Skinny?

[Gm999]

I'm 42 Kg and 1.57. I have defined muscles because I work out, but I hate myself. I constantly feel like I'm never enough, never manly enough, tall enough, I get confused as A child constantly even if I'm 20 Years old. I'm always the shortest, only taller than REALLY short Girls. I feel miserable and hate my body so fucking much.

Any other men that have faced similar conflicts?

Updates

8 mo

Little update, this seems to have been taken as girl Issues, but I'd like to add that's not the case.
I'm moderately attractive, with a supportive partner.
This is about the mental toll it has taken on me.
It's not that I can't get girls (or guys cuz I'm bisexual), but rather how miserable It makes me to look at myself in the mirror, to always tailor my clothes because nothing fits, to always be the smallest in the friend group.

[HiveBee]

It is the very fact that you are beat up about your height that turns females off the most.

They hate when men are insecure. They hate when men are fucked up over their "flaws."

Ladies get wet for confidence and dominance.

I see short as dudes with cure girlfriend's all the time. It's BS that women only want 6 foot men. THERE aren't ENOUGH 6 FOOTERS FOR ALL THE LADIES.

I mean come on. You can see it clear in real life with your own fucking eyes.

I see dudes with cuter girls than I ever had and I'm 10 times as masculine as those guys.

Imagine dating a girl who is constantly afraid that you don't love her anymore. You have to constantly re assure her. You have to constantly deal with these annoying insecure emotions.

That's what females deal with every time a man interacts with them.

Cuz most men are fucked up over their "masculinity." And women don't like men who are insecure. Why? Because women are forced to deal with insecure men trying to be the alpha male who gets the ladies CONSTANTLY since they first grew a pair of tits.

Women have lifetimes of insecure men throwing themselves at them.

Women can smell insecurity from a mile away.

It's not the fact that you're short. It's the fact that you're fucked up over it.

And women will test you. They will poke fun at your height to see if you really have confidence

Because she is afraid. What if you start dating one day, and she wears heels, and you explode in rage and beat the shit out of her for being taller than you with heels on?

That's the kind of shit women are afraid of and they need to know you're not going to go insane because somehow, some way, your masculinity was challenged and your insecurity caused you to act crazy.

You have to literally not care anymore about it. As long as you do, girls will poke and tear and they will find out you're not dateable because you're insecurity fucks you up and makes you scary and dangerous, at the very least, very irritating. It sucks to support someone who has insecurity.

[Gm999]

Actually It's not about dating, I have a girlfriend and She makes me feel comfortable about it.
It's more about just how emotionally emasculated I think is the word (I'm not a native English speaker) it feels to be so.

[artgorgeous]

Try to become super fucking rich and wealthy or a super celebrity - this is the only way.

[Smashingdoozy]

Have you tried being short and fat? Seems like a good time. You could maybe paint yourself orange and sing some songs and do a little Dancy dance for Halloween 👻

[provokeesmokee]

Dude, you're 19.

Just live your life, you'll get manly with time.

Also, you get to define what being manly is to you.

[purplepoppy]

By not drawing attention to it. There's nothing you can do about your height so why worry what others think. It's mens hang ups about their flaws that puts girls off, not the flaw itself.

[boggboss]

Learn not to equate your masculinity with hight which from the get go is pretty silly

[Anonymous]

Things change as you get older, at least you’re slim, you can’t change your height so don’t beat yourself up over it, you have a girlfriend so she doesn’t care about it , things could be much worse

[Anonymous]

You look pretty sexy too me!!