Wanting Yet Not Pursuing a Social Life?

[JohnYukon]

I always feel like I wanna become more social in college, but in reality I stay in my dorm on weekends. Part of me wants to finally get a girlfriend so bad, yet I never approach cute girls in class. Does anyone feel stuck in a similar cycle?

[menina]

I'm not in college anymore, but when I was there I was very social. I met so many people and I was always looking for the next place to go.
Now, I feel stuck and I have no social life. However, I want to change that, I'm just struggling with it.

In your case, I think you have to "force" yourself to go out. If you're not a party person, maybe you can meet girls and make friends in classes even if it's hard to talk to them. Or you can find something that you like doing and join a club. You can also play a sport or attend to events.

Good luck! :)

[JohnYukon]

Thanks so much! :)

[menina]

You're welcome! I hope you make friends and get a girlfriend. College times are the best, enjoy it! 😊

[DrPepper12]

Solid advice from @menina

[menina]

@DrPepper12 Thank you. 😊

[menina]

@JohnYukon Thank you for the MHO. 😊

Hope you're able to make a lot of friends and meet your future girlfriend. 😊

[JohnYukon]

@menina Of course! :) I really appreciate all of your help/support!!

[menina]

I'm glad you do.😊

[DrPepper12]

Stop feeling like it and do it! Stop the pity party, put down the phone and go make it happen! Have the courage to be vulnerable and the capacity to carry on when wounded but TRY!!!

[In_Trance]

You just don't want it bad enough

[MrWolf03]

Yep 🙋🏻‍♂️