The shirt thing would be more towards controlling and possessiveness which I believe territorial in a nontoxic version of that, I think it's probably even normal and should be expected within two committed individuals.


There comes a point of being protective and say territorial and just having zero trustā¦. At the end of the day cheating is a choice made by your partner. I can understand if your partner is blackout drunk maybe consent is another story.
But some people think that they must keep everyone of the opposite away from their man or womanā¦. Which doesnāt help because if someoneās not going to cheat you should be able to trust them. If they areā¦. Theyāre going to find a way to anyways.
Yep there's a difference
Absolutely. Being controlling to someone whose loyal isnāt fair. The same as controlling someone whose not wonāt make them nor
Being controlling in general isn't fair, territorial isn't controlling just it's more of boundaries that shouldn't be crossed and for the most part they are both aware of those boundaries
I agree too that some people are compatible and others are NOT
Some people should never be together plain and simple. They arenāt bad they have different boundaries and looking for different things. But itās not okay to try to force someone into being a certain way
Indeed
Such as some people want to be able to go through one anotherās phone. Sone are uncomfortable having friends of the opposite sex. Etcā¦.
So as long as two people agree thatās what theyāre looking for thatās fine. But like I said if someoneās gonna cheat they are going to regardless so trust is important no matter what
Nope. If anyone I'm with feels the need to seize an opportunity, go for it. I will feel free to do the same. Be here because you want to be or be gone because I'm not the answer for you.
Fair enough
I mean.. there ARE some women I would ask my guy to stay away from bc I know how the women are, but I don't consider myself "territorial" in the sense of being jealous. I *am* territorial in the sense of not messing with my guy or badmouth him; if he's done something unacceptable I'll talk to him about it privately, but in public we're a united front.
That's territorial instincts indeed missy, if you didn't have any you wouldn't feel the need want him to pull back from certain situations, the difference is that unlike possessive and controlling behavior it's territorial and out of care for the person, I think any situation where you think your opinion should be resulted in him doing what you think is right is a territorial nature, weither you express it tho is up to you which it seems you don't
It's never been a trust issue, it's way many don't seem to understand but not everyone will respect your relationship and can get in the way of it even if your partner is loyal they can still touch them for example, it's more precautions than anything I guess
Nope, if he loves me he will come back to me. If he not, it doesnāt matter how you try to protect, he will find a way to cheat on you.
I often asked my boyfriend go give belly dancer tip or judge Hooters girls, and discuss with him which one is the best 😂
So are you like in an open relationship or something like that? š¤
Nope iām not in open relationship. He has eyes, he can just use his eyes normally even though he has me. Stare at girls or any random people is normal thing for me to do.
You canāt control people to do or donāt do something, if they want they will. If they donāt they wonāt. Iām not jealous person over small things like thay.
Alright fair enough
@Jennz6 i would love to if we were closer.
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Nah my husband can control himself so I never worry about him being around other women
Trust is fine but that doesn't mean others would respect your relationship, I have a feeling there's another side to you, there's no way you are that chill š
Apple pie style šš¼šÆ
i wanna be the type that's calm and says "i don't worry bc there's nothing i can do. if they cheat, then they'll cheat"
but yes i am lol i don't cause issues bc of it tho
It's good to be territorial momo, it's only normal š
IT IS
i swear people who say that just wanna look cool or they're a lot more mature lol
Yea or something like that, I see it as normal shit lol
Absolutely not, if they want to leave⦠the doors wide open⦠Also, I donāt want to beg someone to leave me either. As a matter of fact⦠the day I find out theyāre texting someone else, Iāll personally hand over their keys to herā¦
I think you misunderstood the form of territorial I was speaking about cause you surely have it š
You dropping him cause he disobeyed your set boundary is territorial, AF for that matter but I respect it, I believe it's healthy
Hell no, even when I'm dead id haunt the mf š
*pours ice water on you* yea let's not sass you up for no reason š
Lol little, but you've just realized, that's dangerous, did you know you were sassy or did you also just realize that when I mentioned it š
That is indeed true, default setting š«
Not really. I mean it's not like he's interested in any other women, so I don't really see what I should care if other women are interested in him. Heck, I'm interested in him so it makes sense to me that other women would be.
Well yea but I don't mean territorial in every sense as them just looking but I mean in generalized in a relationship, if you are yelling at women for yelling at him that is possessive behavior not territorial
Looking or speaking to him
If a woman starts touching him or his arm in a conversation or gets touchy in general, what would you do? Lol
So you'd just be in spectator mode lol
That depends. No, I try not to be. But if I have to, I will be. But even that has a limit. It's her responsibility to now sew doubt in my mind. I trust her, but I don't trust other men, obviously. But if she gives me good reason to stop trusting her. It's going to be a short run before I just tell him he can have her and walk away.
Fair enough said bro
Not really. My boyfriend has a few women friends, but I trust him. I also know the girls, so that helps XD.
But once they step out of line you'll...
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Probably dump him and end thins with the friend. I'm not gonna go beat him or anything XD
What about the friend šš
go after their BFs. It's only fair
The savagery is real lol
Just what would happen if he has sex with his "friends" ? Why is that bad?
@Priya99999 Well we are exclusive atm. Now if he wanted to open up the relationship we could talk about that, but for now we don't sleep around
Indeed I am. I canāt help it. Whatās mine is mine and I like it to be known 😅 itās nothing to do with trust in my opinion
It doesn't, many don't seem to understand that, you get it ššš¼
Yep, sounds healthy to me, people should be territorial in a committed relationship, if you miss it you should get back out there ha
Well I guess the option is always there when you are ready to jump back in lol
I'm but I'm good at hiding it XD
The whole shirt things is so crazy though and embarrassing XD
Naive but territorial, what an interesting mix lol
And it is but I'm sure after some time the person won't even remember they are wearing it š
The Alice will send you to wonderland look šāš¼
But i think some jealousy and territorial traits looks attractive on a woman ššš¼
Yeah, I honestly think most people are pretty territorial to a point..
Yep I think so too, they just don't realize it until they got too use it
Yeah, I've seen way too many couples all of a sudden start holding hands and kissing out of nowhere basically marking their territory.. š
Yep indeed so
I can be but if I ever date again I donāt think itāll be to the extent of any previous relationships
Why not?
My priority will be taking care of myself⦠if heās gonna cheat heāll do it whether Iām territorial or not.
Yes that's true but as his woman I don't think you'd be out of place by being territorial, although let's just hope the next one isn't a cheater
Oh he wonāt no oneās getting commitment out of me without at least the same in return
Wise woman indeed, that's good to hear, you go girl š š¼š
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I donāt have to worry about the guys I date
Fair enough Jenn šš¼
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You know me
Indeed so ššÆ
No. I want to marry a man that's loyal and mature.
Fair enough
No, I am not. That only leads to you being the bad guy in the end.
A good woman won't see it that way
You must remember that
Oh yes, she will. You cannot control your partner because of your insecurities. She will get fed up with your childish behavior and leave.
Thats some chick activity right there
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No, it simply means I am not controlling of my woman like you obvious do to yours. She needs to leave you for a man who treats his woman like a Queen not a slave to be controlled.
Clearly you didn't read what I said, I can't tell you don't protect her either, you being a simp and not having a backbone is what would drive her away, for someone with a backbone, I aim for women with the same nature, it's not controlling if she agrees and does the same, your ability to kiss ass will most likely be your relationships downfall, healthy relationships require boundaries, you'd be one easy person to fool and easy to lack respect for or take advantage of, even your expression of kindness should have boundaries or you'll get stepped all over
My woman can take to any man she pleases because I trust her. You obviously are controlling and insecure. This is why you are threatened by every guy who looks at her. It also could be because you know their Johnson is way bigger than yours and they could satisfy her needs 100 times better than you ever have.
Nobody is talking about dicks here, I see you have dicks on your mind tho, can't say I'm too surprised you were even too scared to show yourself online, give me her info let me talk to her then since you she can talk to anyone she pleases, id test your hypocrisy, you will either be a hypocrite and have territorial instincts or someone without a backbone, not much more to say, it has nothing to do with insecurity or dick size although that might reflect your own insecurities since neither of these have anything to do with the topic, I set boundaries in relationships and I expect her to do the same, weither there's compatibility is all on chances but just how you like to let your woman walk around a world that doesn't care about the health of your relationship nor respect it, I like my relationships to have good preparations for that and one of those preparations is being on the same page with the woman on boundaries and precautions, some dude can be slapping your girls ass at work without her approval and she's hiding it from you cause she doesn't wanna hurt you, best of luck with your relationship with no territorial instincts
Goodbye, Mr. Small Johnson. She is going to leave you for those men who can satisfy her needs. You obviously can't get the job done or you wouldn't be so insecure.
Lmao cry about old man, you are behaving like a child, how bout you grow some testicles and use common sense and reason rather than breaking down with emotions and blur out the deep down thought process that tortures you at night š
You are the one who is controlling women like you own them because you know you have nothing down there to satisfy her with. She is having a good time right now with a man who knows how to treat a lady emotionally and physically. Bye! Bye! Bye!
Is she now? How's so? I hope you do know only you get offended by this girlfriend getting someone else stuff cause you are the one with the wife that's most likely getting her back blown, your insults are referring to a girlfriend that doesn't exist, I'm single and ready to take your girl is what I'm saying now hand her over simp š
Goodbye small package loser. Your soon to be ex-girlfriend is with a real man this very moment receiving the attention you never gave her.
You mean your wife, been there done that, I hope you like sloppy seconds
You are so immature, but I guess that is how guys with a lack of equipment down there act.
What can I say I like trolling people like you lmao
You don't ruffle my feathers. I deal with low class people like yourself on this site all the time.
Your feathers sound pretty ruffled to me, it's so ruffled you are whining š
I don't hear any whining but from the immature troll who is missing his woman who is getting satisfied by another man who has it all together down there.
Sounds like straight up whining to me š
No, but the women I've dated have been fairly territorial.
If I can't be with him right away, I use my vibes to get to him
Wdym lol
Let's say he's with someone, then I would make plans to see him or make him my boyfriend
Sounds territorial, nice ššš¼
Absolutely. One waitress left her number on the receipt and was flirting with him. Like I was right there. No tip.
I am not in a relationship. But if I were I don't think I would be
Understandable
I've seen it with other relationships that when you are way too territorial your girlfriend doesn't really appreciate it and she ends up doing exactly what you are afraid of
not especially, I enjoy her wearing sexually suggestive tee shirts and revealing clothes to show the world how lucky I am. I don't mind other guys looking. If I can't trust her then she's gone.
So, if she is going to cheat (and most do) she becomes a problem until I get rid of her at which point she becomes another guy's problem, and no longer my problem. Good!
Thatās sad. I feel like a lot of girls have cheated on you.
Yes, I planted my flag a long time ago.
Lmao well said ššš¼
No! Itās masculine to be territorial.
Maybe some forms of it but it's also normal to not want to share your partner for example or not wanting them to hang with their ex for example
No. Not at all
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