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Are you more of a Pessimist or more of a Realist?

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  • Lliam
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    Master Age: 72 , mho 52%
    9 mo
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    I used to be an optimist. I was energetic, happy go lucky, and things always turned out for the best.
    Now I am laid back. But where social and global issues are concerned I am a 100% realist. I don't allow myself to get depressed or feel frightened. I figure what ever is going to happen will happen. I passively refuse to comply with rules I don't agree with.

    I consume lots of information about current events, but I am not swayed by ideology, partisan politics or consensus. I seek truth and reality and have good sources of information. In that regard, I find myself in a minority.

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      @Lliam not to mention you're pushing 70 as I'm pushing 30

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    • Lliam
      Lliam
      9 mo

      Thanks for the MHO, greenyogi. :D

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    • thegreenyogi
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      9 mo

      Welcome Lliam!!๐Ÿ™ƒ

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  • BeenThereLovedIt
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    9 mo

    Not much difference, but I'm a realist in the sense that I can do the math and predict the outcome of most situations simply by not letting emotions override logic, unless it's an emotional situation, which is still entirely predictable using basic logic.

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  • Sonorous
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    9 mo
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    I'm a pessimist who is good at convincing both myself & other people that I'm a realist.

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  • OneViewpoint
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    9 mo
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    Realist. Or at least that's always my goal. I try to not let myself get swept away by and give in to my desires, emotions, and personal bias. But I also try to distance myself from irrational negativity. I try to maintain healthy skepticism and evaluate situations and decisions based on the facts, my own morality and ethics, and a "best possible outcome" mentality. I'll solicit other opinions if I'm having trouble deciding on my own.

    But... it's really hard to keep from sliding into pessimism given what I've witnessed of humanity over and over again. Greed, stupidity, violence, lust for power, corruption.

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  • thatgirl2000
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    Xper 2 Age: 26 , mho 45%
    9 mo

    I have always been told I have unconventional approaches to life. I can go back and forth but I'm mostly sometimes ridiculously optimistic. But that has brought me nothing but good fortune as your thoughts and your attitude can reflect in your reality. Though I am capable of being realistic and logical.

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      Well you are doing the best you can

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  • HawkPerception
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    I consider myself a realist. A lot of people think I'm a pessimist, but I just say things as they are.

    Wanna start a new business? I'll call it out as stupid if I think it's a bad idea.

    Do you think the majority of people in the world are good? Maybe they think they're good, but once you get to know how many people are willing to step on others to get ahead in life, you realize how painfully pathetic most people's characters are.

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  • FreyaRed
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    9 mo
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    I appear to be an optimist. Inside I'm always consider all scenarios, even the worst ones, i don't have a problem with that. Some people don't want to hear worst case scenarios and it's better to tell them thing they want to hear, also most optimistic options.

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  • RandomGirl42
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    Guru Age: 26 , mho 70%
    9 mo
    386 opinions shared on Other topic.

    I believe in the good in people, I believe in love, I believe in happy endings. It's not that good always "wins". Good will always prevail. It is the highest vibration. 💖

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  • Spencer10
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    9 mo
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    I try to be a realist... with a touch of optimist thrown in. But its tough now a days. There is some realism for you!

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      You try Spencer. You try ๐Ÿ˜€

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  • NYlatefun
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    Yoda Age: 50
    9 mo

    If you ask that, youโ€™re a pessimist most likely.

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    • thegreenyogi
      thegreenyogi
      9 mo

      No actually, I'm a realist and an optimist.

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  • molonski2
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    Master Age: 55 , mho 40%
    9 mo
    774 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Optimistic for sure..

    Zero point in being pessimistic.

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  • AgentG111
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    9 mo
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    Great question, based on my life events and career I'd say I'm a good mix of both and depends on the situation of which way I lean or more forward with.

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  • exitseven
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    I am an optimist. I like to think that things will be better.

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  • Shiprex
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    9 mo
    693 opinions shared on Other topic.

    More than likely an optimistic type but have moments of despair often

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  • HaveNoName
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    9 mo
    1.3K opinions shared on Other topic.

    My take on life is: If anything CAN go wrong, it WILL go wrong. Normally it gives you a 2nd chance to make it right though.

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  • Richardjd
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    Xper 2 Age: 38
    9 mo

    I'm a trietist it's a world I made up because I'm all 3 I'm a optimist pessimist and a realist at different times

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  • Ironco
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    Yoda Age: 54
    9 mo

    Realist, I try not to give pessimist people the time of day. Or the "I'm a victim" person either.

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  • Nikki1989
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    Mentor Age: 37 , mho 31%
    9 mo
    7.3K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Realist, but what you see as reality might seem pessimistic to some.

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  • Paul09
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    9 mo
    535 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Im a realist. But surely have pessimistic moments.

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  • Anonymous
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    I'm usually in between pessimist and realist.

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  • jakesmithTGM
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    9 mo

    I don't see good in people all I see is potential enemies

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  • WhitneySnow
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    9 mo
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    Neither. Iโ€™m an optimist.

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      @WhitneySnow but is that realistic ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    • WhitneySnow
      WhitneySnow
      9 mo

      @mysteriousNicholas sometimes lol

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      @WhitneySnow a comedian ;) like me. Anyways lady : I wish we could all see your pale face ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ‘€

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    • WhitneySnow
      WhitneySnow
      9 mo

      @mysteriousNicholas ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Nice to talk to you again though.

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      @WhitneySnow will we ever see your white face avatar? ๐Ÿ‘€

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    • WhitneySnow
      WhitneySnow
      9 mo

      @mysteriousNicholas nope lol. Iโ€™m mysterious ๐Ÿ˜Š.

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      @WhitneySnow hey, that's my gimmick ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜‹

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    • WhitneySnow
      WhitneySnow
      9 mo

      @mysteriousNicholas twinsies! lol

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      @WhitneySnow 19 year old's can be such players lol ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜†

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      @WhitneySnow you're a funny one lady , ๐Ÿ˜… you stay classy and find a man in his early 20s ๐Ÿซฃ

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    • WhitneySnow
      WhitneySnow
      9 mo

      @mysteriousNicholas ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    • WhitneySnow
      WhitneySnow
      9 mo

      @mysteriousNicholas you too. Night!

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      @WhitneySnow *๐ŸŽต๐ŸŽถ baby come back ๐Ÿ”™" joke joke cya

      Reply
  • AviatorTom
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    Master Age: 59
    9 mo
    4.1K opinions shared on Other topic.

    I classify myself as an optimistic realist.

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    • mysteriousNicholas
      mysteriousNicholas
      9 mo

      @AviatorTom lol my twin โ›ณ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  • katiesmuff
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    Master Age: 42 , mho 48%
    9 mo
    933 opinions shared on Other topic.


    'A realist ffor sure

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  • mysteriousNicholas
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    Xper 7 Age: 32
    9 mo

    @thegreenyogi realist 🌌😋🌌🚀

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  • DrPepper12
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    9 mo
    1.5K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Im optimi-stic prime

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  • soe11
    soe11 Follow
    Guru Age: 55
    9 mo
    436 opinions shared on Other topic.
    • Realist and optimistic.
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  • LiamJHayden
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    Master Age: 31
    9 mo
    2.5K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Realist with a touch of Optimist.

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  • Sal_Monella
    Sal_Monella Follow
    Explorer Age: 78
    9 mo

    Pragmatist. It is what it is.

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  • AngryCarl2
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    Yoda Age: 66
    9 mo
    488 opinions shared on Other topic.

    As long as I take my meds I'm an optimist.

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  • Cidknee
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    Xper 7 Age: 32
    9 mo

    Realist like my mom and dad were.

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  • Purpleronnie
    Purpleronnie Follow
    Yoda Age: 38 , mho 42%
    9 mo

    Neither , Iโ€™m a pragmatist

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  • noohair
    noohair Follow
    Guru Age: 72
    9 mo
    909 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Women are a mystery to meโ€ฆ

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  • Darkest-Knight
    Darkest-Knight Follow
    Yoda Age: 59
    9 mo

    I'm a pessimist and my reality is dark.

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  • RedInnocent69
    RedInnocent69 Follow
    Guru Age: 50
    9 mo
    572 opinions shared on Other topic.

    A realist idealist

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  • Bloodparadise
    Bloodparadise Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 28
    9 mo

    I'm a realist. I like to be practical.

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  • qwerty2469
    qwerty2469 Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 27
    9 mo

    Im a dreamer. Im not the only one.

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  • Fireguy17
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    Master Age: 61
    9 mo
    1.5K opinions shared on Other topic.

    more cynical about things.

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  • CupcakeTheDestroyer
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    Master Age: 32 , mho 61%
    9 mo

    Iโ€™m an optimist

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  • beenherebefore
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    Yoda Age: 36
    9 mo

    Both honestly.

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  • Agape93
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    Master Age: 34
    9 mo
    7.5K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Realist.

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  • WonderingManII
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    Guru Age: 47
    8 mo

    Realist

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  • Blueeyes81
    Blueeyes81 Follow
    Master Age: 45
    9 mo
    3.2K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Realist.

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  • dudeinohio
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    Master Age: 61
    9 mo
    2.7K opinions shared on Other topic.

    pessimist

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  • Artistthe91
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    Xper 5 Age: 34
    9 mo

    Whatโ€™s the difference?

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  • Curmudgeon
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    9 mo
    1.2K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Synonyms?

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  • fish5505_87
    fish5505_87 Follow
    Explorer Age: 51
    9 mo
    419 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Optimist!

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  • beefcakebradybatson
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    Guru Age: 73
    9 mo
    771 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Realist.

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  • Pterodon
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    Guru Age: 64
    9 mo
    720 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Realist

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  • Swixka
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    Xper 1 Age: 32
    9 mo

    More realistic

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  • Slave_submissive
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    9 mo

    Optimistic:)

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