If a girl freezes up around you?

[Anonymous]

what does it mean If a girl freezes up around you badly and tenses up around you when you approach her? also if she freezes up and tenses up when she is in a group and she catches you looking at?

(I would say that she hated me but she let me hang out with her and we are not friends)

[semisweetsmile]

Not to confuse you, but I would think the opposite from the other girls ... I would think that it depends on her facial expression/other gestures? I definitely get nervous around my crushes, but I also tense up when I'm with a boy I'm not particularly fond of.

Try to notice how she interacts with her friends when she tenses up .. maybe you'll get more insight on whether it is an excited/nervous-tense, or a worried/dreading-tense (if you know what I mean).

A more straightforward way to find out is to ask her friends about it, if you know them enough ..

[Asker]

I thought this as well but then she let me hangout with her one on one

[kitkat76]

she is into you I would say big time. looking at your age grouping she is probably young and really crushing. if you like her just start of with easy conversations just to help ease her nerves make her laugh that always helps.

[Asker]

A really stupid question I know but forgive me I am young adult lol but how long would her crush last?

[kitkat76]

lord could be anything from a month to a year it all just depends on the girl. it will eventually pass on to someone else

[Asker]

thanks for your answer. she is a very weird girl as in if someone else flirts with her she will just ignore him and we will stare at each other. Also if her friends suddenly developed an interest in me is that a good sign?

[imApril]

I think that freezing up and tensing is a sign that you make her nervous. And usually, if a girl is nervous around you it means she either has a crush on you and/or is attracted to you. Hope I helped :D

[dommage]

She has the hots for you but is shy or insecure

[Asker]

yeah I think she seems confident but iv tapped into her insecure side