Anonymous(36-45)+1 yAre you using the term "boyfriends or girlfriends" in a literal sense (a meaningful relationship) or as a euphemism for "somebody you've had sex with".
On several occasions when I knew the guy I caught girls referring to a confirmed sexual relationship as "he does not count" for any number of whimsical reasons.
The real number for most date-able women on the prude side is 1.2-1.5 per year times the number of years since they've lost virginity. The real number for average women in a large metropolitan area would be closer to 1.8...2.5 times the number of years since they've lost virginity.
For guys it is different because in most age groups up to middle age, the top 10-15% guys by appearance and social standing are having sex with all those women, while the remaining guys get nada.01 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 yForgot to answer. E. 32 years old. I've honestly stopped counting after 20, some 5 years ago.
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Age 35
3 GF's - in chronological order lasting 6.5 years; 8 months; current 9 months and counting.
had an additional date with one girl...So total 4.00 Reply
+1 yI turn 19 next month and I've had a few grade school crushes and "one-week/month" relationships. But I consider my current boyfriend to be my first "real" relationship. We started dating at the end of my freshman year of high school and we're going into our second year of college now. So I voted B in the poll.
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+1 yI'm 18 and I have had 3 relationships in total. Only one of those was a serious relationship and it's with my current and absolutely wonderful boyfriend. The other two were just a couple dates but definitely learning experiences :)
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8.3K opinions shared on Other topic. Two. One is serious the other one wasn't.
I am 21. I used to avoid relationships like the plague when I was a teen. I didn't do the one night stand thing either. I am very unconventional in regards to that.10 Reply
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+1 yi’ve had 9 boyfriends, only one I dated for a year and a half and the last one i’ve been on and off with for the past 2 years. Granted most of my boyfriends only lasted a month maybe 2 or 3 tops.
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what the hell 2 votes down? and everyone has at least a vote down, who’s hatin? must be either some fat ugly chick or some fat ugly dude. SMH.
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It's not me Nells just to make that clear. In fact I should clarify it as an update that I am not down voting anybody.
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I didn’t think it was you. Probally some troll lol
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+1 yI'm 18yo going on 19 this year and I've been with the same guy since I was 14. He is also my first boyfriend.
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+1 yI'd say only two true girlfriends. Others weren't really relationships (and no never did anything sexual with em either). Those were complicated lol. I don't really care to date casually and I don't date quickly either.
00 ReplyI'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've never even kissed. The only thing I've done with a dude was give him a hug and he called an evil seductress.
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+1 y30. 3 long term boyfriends, one 1/2 years, 5 1/2 years, and 8 years (give or take, with the complicated start and end, and break up in the middle). 3 boyfriends that lasted a couple months each.
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+1 y21 years old and I've had four boyfriends in my life. That is counting my current fiance.
Each relationship lasted over one year, my current one is five years.10 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThis depends, are you asking how many people I have dated and had an actual boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with (may or may not include sex). Or are you asking how many sexual partners I've had in my lifetime? Or both?
I'm 18. Please clarify. :P012 Reply- +1 y
Both include evreything in your summation.
Opinion Owner+1 yI've had one real boyfriend, I've been with about 55 men sexually and 2 girls. Hooked up with more.
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are you serious about being 18 and have already been with 55 men?! That is record breaking almost I guess.
Opinion Owner+1 yI have been with about 60 men (actual vaginal penetration) and probably 15-20 more men and women (just oral, or manual sex).
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My god. You really like to get busy with men. I wonder how sexy you are. How would you describe yourself? I'm guessing you're quite hot ;)
Opinion Owner+1 yI always find it funny when people say that on here because I know so many girls who have many partners and they look like carnie refugees.
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Yes reality could be quite ordinary, yet it is the first thing that comes to the mind of most men I believe. Fantasies.
Opinion Owner+1 yHmmm why is that? And fantasies of promiscuous women? Interesting.
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I don't know why it is like that. What I can tell you is that as soon as you told me that you slept with 50 or so men I instantly imagined some hot and clever girl. Well not necessarily clever but foxy. A vixen ;)
Opinion Owner+1 yHa like Samantha from Sex and the City or something.
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I don't follow that program but probably yes. hehe
Opinion Owner+1 yI don't either :)
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI'm 24. My only girlfriend ever was in 6th grade, it only lasted for a month and a half and we never even held hands. So I'm not sure that it even counts.
30 ReplyI'm 20, one boyfriend, going on fourth year together
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+1 y21, two serious relationships.. one lasted a year, the other 2 years
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oh if it is with everything, must have been.. 12, if a date counts that is
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Yes it counts
I am 21 and have had 3 girls I've been in a relationship with
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aha, so you must have had a lot!
I'm 25, and I had one short-term boyfriend in college.
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+1 yI'm actually 28 not 35 made a mistake while signing up and 0 GF's I'm too ugly for a Girlfriend girls don't even talk or wanna look at me. They all want good looking douche bags.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 y2 sexually active boyfriends. one long-term sexual partner without the status. And a ridiculous number of pre-sex boyfriends between the age of 13 and 23. I can't even remember them all to count them. I'm 29.
00 Reply23 & none so far...that needs to change...hopefully sometime soon...
10 Reply2.8K opinions shared on Other topic. I'm 21 and have had 7 boyfriends. Most were in high school and weren't serious.
10 Reply16. I've had 3 girlfriends. Two in middle school. One that ended just before the start of freshmen year. I don't think it's that bad, not having many girlfriends seems better to me.
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+1 y18. One boyfriend & two other have asked but I was younger haha
00 Replya few serious, and a number of crappy dating, relationships, girls - friends...
00 Reply23. I've had one serious boyfriend.
The other two were flings.00 Reply20. One serious girlfriend for two years. Been alone for a year now. That needs to change
00 ReplyDidn't you ask this before? And no partners so far.
00 Reply22 - 1, my current relationship which is just shy of 2 months old
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 y23 and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he's been the only one.
30 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Other topic. 19 and I've had 2 girlfriends. Only one was serious
10 Reply7.6K opinions shared on Other topic. I'm 27 and had 3 girlfriends (one in HS, one in college, one after).
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 y18 and had about 2-3 serious relationships...not sure if I should consider the summer f*** up relationship that ended abusively by winter as "serious"
00 Reply23 years old and never had a girlfriend. I do not like flirting event.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yNo partners, but that may change pretty soon here—I Hope. I met someone I think I really like.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 ylol, one date counts as a girlfriend? Then I've had dozens...I feel better now (I said one earlier)
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Yes of course they all count. It does not matter how long she was your girlfriend.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 y22
Number of girlfriends 6, but only one was longer than a year.00 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 y25 years old, only had one boyfriend and I´ve been single for almost a year.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 y1 and he's my current. My finger mad a mistake and clicked none... #iphoneproblems.
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Opinion Owner+1 ywhy a thumbs down... I've honestly had one boyfriend he was my first kiss and I'm still a virgin. I was 17 when we first starting dating but didn't have my first kiss till I turned 18. I've never had flings with guys, I've had crushes but never did anything about it.
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It was not me who gave you the thumbs down. I am not commenting on the number of boyfriends or girlfriends people have.
Opinion Owner+1 yoh lol someone went on a thumbs down rampage than..
Anonymous(36-45)+1 y29 and never had any girlfriend, not even a female friend, since I am ugly, short and excess hairy on body.
20 Reply18... only 1... and u?
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I tell you if you put your real pic!
12 years old:
Girlfriends: 5
Boyfriends: 223 Reply- +1 y
Are you bi?
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No
24 years old and no girlfriends
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI'm 21 and I had about 9 Ish
None of them were serious though00 Reply
+1 y24 and I would only count one as a girlfriend.
10 Reply663 opinions shared on Other topic. Nadaaaa. Lonely soul over here. I'm 18.^.^
10 Replystill non even if I include dates
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+1 y43. I guess maybe a dozen girlfriends?
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+1 y22 and have had 2 boyfriends
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+1 yI'm 21 and I've had three serious relationships
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+1 yfrom grade 7 to grade 12,i have had 5
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Girlfriends: 210 Reply646 opinions shared on Other topic. I voted A and don't want a girlfriend.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 y21 and I never had a boyfriend.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI have had 6 in my life.
00 Reply20 and I've never been with anyone
31 Reply1 but if online included then 2
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No no. Online does not count. There has to be actual physical contact.
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Hehe. O.K
Anonymous(36-45)+1 y27, I've had one short-term one
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 y22 and nothing
50 ReplyNone because I'm ugly and boys don't like me LOL
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yi would kill to have one
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 y3-4 boyfriends
2 girlfriends10 Reply
+1 y22. 2 boyfriends.
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Oh jeez. That's basically any romantic interest.. I'd say at least 7? Seems silly to include a date that went no where though...
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+1 yabsolutely zero
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+1 y25 and none.
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+1 yFive
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