No , she needs to wear my shoes like she expects me to wear hers or the relationship won’t work period , Double standards don’t sit well with me period , if she can’t sacrifice for me , I am sure as hell not going to sacrifice for her , I had my fair share of selfish girls that only really care about themselves, Why it’s been hard for me to even consider a relationship with a girl right away these days , Most girls want their cake and want to eat it to , If she doesn’t get her way she automatically assumes I am being controlling and insecure and it has nothing to do with that , It comes down to respect for each other , Most girls’ I been with don’t grasp this concept and then they wonder why we fight and break up and they wonder why they can’t last in a relationship period. It gets to a point that I feel like I am never good enough for her , She no longer accepts my flaws like she expects me to accept hers , I have always taken relationships seriously , and then my heart gets shit on when she decides to start being selfish again, when she starts prioritizing others over prioritizing me , Most girls feel they should be able to do whatever she wants but her man can’t do the same , but he has to accept her selfishness but she doesn’t have to accept his , and that’s where most relationships butt heads and disagreements come into play because the bottom line is we are all selfish people in general , when you can point your finger at someone else without pointing fingers at yourself first , you are the selfish person that only cares about yourself and that’s why most relationships do not make it , When you can’t admit that you are wrong and it’s always someone else’s fault, you are a selfish person period. Cuz you only care about what is best for you , and you do not consider your partner’s feelings. Always remember what you can do , your partner can do as well , Why you should always prioritize your partner over everyone else or your relationship will turn to shit , You have to remember you are not single anymore when you choose to commit to someone cuz they are choosing to commit to you as well. It needs to go both ways or it will not work period. You are
Just wasting your time giving your heart to someone that isn’t giving you their heart back the same.
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Its much more complex then that, I think the honest equation is if you expect to find someone better as a whole combined with how much you love that person. But the far bigger part of it is what they did and most importantly why.
I would let a loved one make a ton of mistakes, but the moment I notice its not a mistake and intentional and she is deliberately trying to undermine our relationship my loyalty would begin to disappear very quickly.
So its much more about the depth of our relationship and the honesty of what she did rather than anything else.
I was in a relationship where I just wouldn’t let go because he was so damn fine. It was hard bc he was good looking with charisma but after a long time I was just tired of being mistreated. I stuck around longer then I should’ve just bc he was gorgeous.
I don’t date people I don’t like just because they are rich or good looking. They would have to have a good personality before anything else is considered.
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Rachel, that depends on how a guy or girl feels about themselves, in my late 20's I was fortunate to attract many girls my age, and one of the prettiest had an alcohol problem. I had to quit seeing her. She later got in AAA after moving to Florida.
Other than that, I tolerated girls flirting, and even fucking other men up until I walked in on her at her apartment... Naked, with a guy in her bed.. I thought later, I should not have broken off with her.
I don't think it depends on how 'hot' they are, just how you feel about them as a person.
If I were younger and not planning on marriage for some time or holding myself to serious standards, yes I'd put up with some things but now that I am older. We're either cohesive and able to work together with our differences and make a good couple or we don't and we move on.
I like to think that I am understanding and forgiving enough in a relationship to never feel like I was “letting her get away with something.” I’ve never “dumped” anyone. Then again, I’ve never dated a girl I didn’t think was hot. So, I guess I don’t know.
It all depends. Like as a guy depending in how I interact with her and depending how honest and faithful she's with me.
But I hear of stories of love couples even marriage couples which is true. Interacting in group sex and orgies. Not most couples. Their are some couples that are very open towards threesomes, foursomes, etc.Only like 2% more... if that. If you're high drama you get a lot less hot real fast and there are plenty of other hot women out there who haven't proven themselves to be high drama yet.
Lol, I'd like to say a hot couple would be an easy-going, calm couple, who easily let things slide and pass. I mean, you're both gorgeous in that situation so, almost anything goes, and easily 👀👀👋🏻👋🏻😊😊 let slide 😎
Of course. I wouldn't want to. But I think it goes without saying that this happens. You see this on here all the time with women. They put up with more from really attractive guys because they know they probably won' do better in the looks dept. with another guy.😆😆😆
Notta. The person's looks have nothing to do with how they treat you. If they are hot and treat you poorly, then the hotness quickly fades to ugly.
No never by intentionally, I surely tried to maintain my relationship with positive, constructive in unity, peace and prosperity, healthy and happy.
By the way my girlfriend and me are strong enough being oneness.
No. If she's really hot that can be a really nice bonus, but it doesn't excuse any bad behaviour that's uncalled for.
no, i'm not like 14 anymore. it's not a guy being hot type of thing, but if we just got chemistry/history, then it's harder to let go
No if they can't respect themselves there not going to respect me and it would just get worse.
There's a lot of hot people in the world.policy frequently and i see on my lovers face she sometimes swallows her annoyance so we can stay together, for other fun stuff.
I treated all my girlfriends the same whether they were hot or not. If the relationship didn't work out I'd leave them and move on to the next one. I didn't date just for looks, I dated her because of her personality, eyes and smile.
No matter how attractive they're, they're not above my self respect.
Yeah I have in the past. Now I wouldn’t though
Unfortunately the hotter you are the more your bad behavior is tolerated.
I don't think so. Maybe in the getting to know you phase, but not once we're in a committed relationship
If you only date someone because they're hot or if the sex is good, you'll keep it going until you find something better. Once you do, you instantly drop them.
Absolutely no doubt. Everyone knows hot girls have it easy in life, and there's a reason why haha
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