OK, just to let you all know, I have never been out of nappies. Just imagine hiding/telling the girl of your dreams that you may need to pop out for a change! The first girl called me a freak!
The next pretended that it was not real and the third tried to treat me like her child.
All in all a disaster which left me in no doubt that I should be very up front.
I have had the worst things happen in terms of intimacy, she likes, she strikes, she touches, she runs!
I met Jeanette outsde a pub after such an incident!
Ashamed to say I cried as I stood outside, ashamed of my bladder and the so called friend I used to have!.
A soothing voice said " whatever it is, there really is no need to cry"
I pretended that all was well, "who me?"
Without any prior knowledge, she rubbed her hand againt my bottom and said, and I quote
"It's OK Baby, let me help, I think you need it!"
Oh shit, here we go, denial, and rejection. A common theme.
I prenteded not to understand what she ment but she produced a dummy and said
"I'ts OK mummy's here"
It turns out that she knew about me from my girfriends and was just waiting to meet properly.
Never looked back, accepted, nappied, no longer ashamed.
Good Luck!
That cashier is completely inappropriate. But to be fair, she was probably just trying to make conversation and just assumed he had a wife/girlfriend. She probably got more than she bargained for with his answer lol.
She might even feel bad that she brought it up. But it doesn't matter, they should never ask about stuff you're buying, especially personal hygiene stuff. I may have even gone to speak to a supervisor (although I maybe not, since I wouldn't want her fired over it).
^Well that's how I'd react in the situation you were in. In general...I don't really care. I'd rather some pad be used than none at all haha. People not in healthcare often don't understand just how nasty the human body is. Sanitary pads are the least of your worries ;)
It would be OK if he was my great granddad. This story is so silly. Surely the cashier would never have asked, and had he, the client would have let him believe whatever he wanted. Do you take fun in making stupid things like this up?
Good hygiene is always good..
My real thought here is why would he admit to that?
Hahahahhaha. Maybe he was joking. Don't people use diapers rather than pads ?
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I use sanitary pads since many years for incontinance problem due to accident. Its not only cheaper but easy to use, no bulge. Pantyliners are the best one. Dont see any problem in it.
We all age and leak, if I was his wife I would love him anyway.
I would say the same thing. Not going to lie and o dont think the cashiers was overstepping. Just small talk, probably as embarrassed as you were. Not that either of you should be. Society is putting labels on everything. I wear panties and dont care what anyone thinks. There is subtle differences in period pads and incontinence pads although they would have you believe its major difference and why wouldn't they when they can make so much more money off it.
i'm OK, he has a problem and he's finding a solution for it. more power to him
i don't find it funny, if he saves money that's great plus he could pick my pads up along with his
well that's obviously an embarrassing problem. poor guy. I mean, though, if he were a guy my age...tha'd be gross. I don'tt hink I'd be interested in him because of that
i would feel sorry for the guy and would recommend to him to have his incontinence checked up.
In no way would I want to make someone feel worse about something like this, I would try to be supportive, nothing to be embarrassed about.
Not weird imho, I sometimes buy kids pull-ups, tear the sides and use them as pads under y-fronts, they are about half the price and just as effective/absorbent,,,
he is just being practical, I have no problem with it and I don't find it funny.
LOL! Depens diapers would work better I would think...Kegels would help tone the muscles so that he can fix his problem, Yes, men can do them too!
I'll be honest, my first reaction was not "Whoa! sexy!"
I would feel bad for him, and tell him to go to a doctor. I think it might be treatable?
The Walmart cashier should be fired for this disrespect of a customer.
poor guy. I wouldn't think anything of it.
I would not be pleased.
I'd be weirded out -_-
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