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Do you really NEED closure?

"Closure" is a frequently used term but I'm not sure we all mean the same thing when we say it. For me, closure means hearing an explanation, having a a chance to ask questions and seek clarification, ending with no...
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Why British women are so hated

I'm so done with the negative stereotypes on British women and the level of hate we get so if you thought this was gonna be me bashing my own your sadly mistaken. "British WOMEN ARE TOO LOUD!!!" British woman often get...
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A situationship isn’t love, it’s emotional abuse in disguise…

We live in a time where “it’s complicated” has become a normal relationship status. Where casual hookups are expected, and commitment is seen as pressure. But there’s a painful truth underneath all the mixed signals and...
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How to tell if a news source is trustworthy

Evaluating news source trustworthiness requires looking at several key factors: Check the source's track record and reputation. Established outlets with long histories of journalism typically have editorial standards and...
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Do you think your partner should have the right to check your phone?

Ladies and gentleman, I just want to let you know something important I have learned over my many years of online dating and meeting men online. Please check your partner or husband's phone. If he is cheating on you,...
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Pretty. Petty. Perfected…..

So, you thought I was just another sweet, naive girl you could fool? Cute. Really, it’s adorable how confident you were while stringing together your manipulative little lies. You must’ve felt so powerful. See, that’s the...
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After wasting 10 years of my life, this is how I'm bouncing back.

Hello all. This is not a vent or a call for help. I'm just sharing my journey of failures, trauma and learnings from 2014 to 2024. I hope this might help some who are in similar situation. Let's rewind time to 2015. I was...
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How tariffs work

Tariffs, also known as import duties, are taxes imposed by a government on goods and services imported from other countries. They are typically a percentage of the product's value, adding an extra cost to imported...
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Learning not to get too emotionally attached

Getting emotionally attached to someone is something most of us do without even realizing it. We meet someone who makes us feel seen, understood, or happy, and before we know it, we start depending on them emotionally....
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Equality with men is not always beneficial to women

Inspired by a question I answered this morning on GAGS, the question was “When do you think women will finally be equal to men?” Equality is important, but trying to make women the same as men in every way isn’t always...
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On His Holiness, Pope Leo XIV

On May 8, 2025, Cardinal Robert Francis Prevost was elected as the 267th pope of the Catholic Church and took the name Leo XIV, the first American to become pope. Long may he reign. I’ve gone through a variety of...
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He’s just a “player”…..

Ah yes, the modern love story. Girl meets boy online. Boy says all the right things. Girl catches feelings. Boy? Oh, he’s already in five other DMs, copy-pasting the same “good morning beautiful” text like it’s a full...
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Loving a love that lingers while choosing someone new is human, not betrayal….

Sometimes, we don’t stop loving someone. We just learn how to carry that love differently. A love that lingers can stay with us long after the relationship ends. It might be a first love, a deep soul connection, or...
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Support ambitions

Supporting each other’s ambitions is a vital aspect of a thriving relationship, fostering a partnership where both men and women can grow individually and together. For men, championing a woman’s goals means actively...
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The heart wants what it wants…

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-kxRLxzbiJU “Why are you with him?” I’ve heard that question so many times from my friends. Over coffee, during late night phone calls, in the middle of tear filled silences when I couldn’t...
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Not Dumb, Just Done……

It’s funny how some guys still think girls are dumb. Like we don’t notice the shady texts, the sudden change in behavior, or the way they start treating us differently when they’re hiding something. They act like...
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Why I Like Being a Woman

I know that I will get some static from this post. I don't care for the militant Women's Liberation Movement. I do agree with the movement just not in the same way that the militants do. I am not a man hater because as...
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One of my biggest mistakes in life is thinking people will show me the same love l've shown them…

There’s a quiet kind of pain that comes from giving your heart to someone and realizing they’ll never give theirs back in the same way. It’s not loud or sudden like heartbreak in the movies. It builds slowly, in long...
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I Tried Going Back to Vinyl

I'm old enough to have had an actual record player in my house when I was a kid. We weren't allowed to touch it, but it was there, sitting in the corner, but even then, rarely if ever used. I grew up on cassettes and CDs,...
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It’s Not Me, It’s My Brain (Only Vibes Allowed)..

Human brains are wired for connection, but not universally. We don’t feel drawn to everyone equally, and for some of us, this selectivity feels especially intense or mysterious. It’s as if our brain is a filter, tuned to...
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