Questions

You have 2 options.

Option #1 - Self confident woman who is fun to be around, etc. however she has a life (I do NOT mean she's seeing other men). When you're not together she isn't blowing up your phone, she's not hounding your social media, etc. If you don't respond after some time she may text you a "are you ok" sort of text.

Option #2 - Clingy woman who is fun to be around, etc., however she is clingy. When you're not together she is blowing up your phone, hounding your social media, complains if you don't respond fast enough, etc (god forbid you go a few hours without responding cause she'll be calling all your friends asking where you are).

I'm asking because I think that hardworking women are upset that they're getting less from their man than women who are lounging around.

I'm not saying men do this but I'm not saying they don't do this. I'm simply wondering what you think.