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I've been following this guy for a while and I can tell you that he is legit. I don't get why people get so offended by the term "alpha male" when this guy is telling you that an alpha actually is a good guy. This guys has a lot of good thoughts and I respect him, and so should you too.
I've been following him for a while too. Good guy I agree. Good intentions. His advice is generally good, but not always. His main arena is style/clothing. Good for a beginner, but not so much for anything beyond hat.
Sorry, I'll never take anyone seriously who uses the term "alpha male" as well as labels themselves as such. No matter how they define the term.
"a man who must say 'i am the king' is no true king"
-Tywin Lanister
Understand that^in context as you want ^^
@dartmaul15 So true, great point.
@jager66 and the idea is simple; if someone is unnecesarily claiming to be something, it is because they're insecure of their position as something and need to ensure both themselves and others that they are actually such a thing.
True confidence lies in knowing what you are, and not having the need to tell the world so they know. Just be what you are, and be confident the world will understand it through your actions.
I agree with you, alpha beta terms say a lot about the type of male it is
i have been following Aaron for a few months now. I found him on YouTube after I broke up with my girlfriend. He has inspired me to change me into a better man. A man who has goals and achieved greatness. You guys who are bringing negativity. You guys are so quick to judge and not open minded. But that's okay you have your opinion. You can't judge by just one video. The questions were kind of stupid. As he also mentioned that he answered the questions without already having s respond. He's a great man.
The truth with most of these dating coaches, "alpha males", pick-up artists, etc, is they happen to be wealthy, which is the reason why they are popular with girls. They fail to realize their own privilege here.
Why is it so hard for people to grasp a basic concept? Some people will be with you for money and some pepole don't. That guy could ask me for a date and have millions in the bank, yet I would turn him down. He's trying to teach guys how to attract girls by doing sensible common-sense things.
@RationalLioness "Some people will be with you for money and some people don't" Couldn't I use a similar argument towards dating coaches? Let's say a dating coach teaches me tips on how to get a girl, I could say "Some girls might like that, some won't." So if you agree with him on teaching guys how to attract girls by doing "sensible common-sense things", then why do you agree with the notion "some might like this, some won;'t"?
No duh! But the majority of women aren't into racist, bad-smelling, unkempt, illiterate, cave dwelling unattractive losers with a superiority complex. Most women want a nice attractive guy who is confident and isn't a push over with a great personality. These are Alpha Males.
@RationalLioness Actually, I know a lot of girls who go for the push-over time, so they can use them really. I'm very confident (I always have been) and girls don't seem to like that (because they don't like a guy who stands up for themselves.) Plus, most people don't know the true definition of confidence anyway.
Women in our age group seem to be so superficial about materialistic things. Then again, I live around a lot of wealthy white people too.
Before I met my girlfriend, she was approached by men who drove Ferraris. She rejected them. I make $13 an hour and she chose me.
With all due respect, you're talking out of your ass. I wouldn't be surprised if you've never had more than a couple girlfriends and you're just bitter about it.
I consider myself to be a successful male... i don't beleive in the whole "alpha". I am self made multimillionaire, tal, good looking, never a problem with the laides. One thing I wouldn't do is seek out advice from a guy like that and I don't think truly confident, successful men would. We tale advice but to go to so one like that is humiliating and shows a comlete lack of confidence, the opposite of what you are suppissed to be innately. What he is really teaching is for some guy to be able to pretend to ba that guy long enough to get laid. Success doesn't come from self help crap like this. Your personality os pretty much set by the time you are 7 years old. Waking up at 27 and learning a few tricks won't change who you are and eventually people will see that.
Well. Good to know my life was already a lost cause by the time I got into the Ninja Turtles.
Not lost. But your personality was pretty much set. There is a mate for everyone.
you are not a self made multimillionaire lmfao
Yes, actually I am. It isn't that uncommon and I would guess there are others on here as well. Not all of us dropped out of High School and are perpetually unemployed. My money was made through Stock Options at a company that you would know its name. As anon though, I can mention it as it is relevant to my point.
Tech company?
thats some self obsessed narcissistic nonsense there. countless people rebuild their lives and characters at any age. there is not some limit at 7 years old where you are doomed if you pass it... .
Here is one of many articles on the subject of personality being set at age 7. Being "doomed" is something that you do to yourself by seeing it that way, smh, this is why this program is making some money because guys see themselves as losers. You dont need to be like anyone in order to get a female. Some guys could get more but who cares. I have never been a guy who cares too mich about notches on my belt. Find a good one and stick with her. Many women, like men, can be a pain in the butt and even worse. The P is all the same, it is their personality that can make or break it for me.
news.softpedia.com/.../...he-Age-of-7-151093.shtml
Lol, as I sit here writing this the news is on my old company is mentioned. no, Imwon't be talking about the details.
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I don't know why but if I hear the word "Alpha Male." I just think of an annoying douchebag lol.
Because that's usually what they are.
That's exactly what I think too because that's normally the case
Douchebags span across the entire spectrum of men. LOL
Agreed, about 90% of the guys you'll hear call themselves an alpha male are alpha douchebags.
I don't have nothing against this guy, I don't know him, just sayin I wish we'd stop saying alpha male.
I really don't care if people call me a beta for saying this stuff either, so what? Your gonna give me a made up title because I called your title made up? Lol
Because an alpha male doesn't say that he's alpha male, his actions speak.
@Longblackveil: Yeah, the terms "alpha" and "beta" are just Internet buzzwords that were popularized by guys on bodybuilding forums.
"Alpha male" is a term that only makes sense when discussing wolf packs, elk harems, and lion prides.
Lol no. Alpha/beta can also be seen in primates. Humans are just highly intelligent animals. If you cannot see Alpha/beta in humans then you are denial.
LOL ok, Dr. Leakey. What you missed in your Ph. D. dissertation is the fundamental difference between humans and the other primates. Alpha/Beta/Gamma/Delta/Epsilon blah blah blah social dynamics only apply to animals who live in simple societies. Humans do not live in simple societies. Human society isn't composed of groups dominated by a silverback male that mates with a harem. Modern society doesn't function this way, and even hunter-gatherer societies didn't function that way. So your analogy is inane, given that you're trying to compare apples to aircraft carriers.
Exactly. im shocked someone actually said this. i was going to but now i dont have to ;-)
I couldn't watch this for more than about 4 minutes. This guy is too full of himself, to the point of being cocky. He reminded me of that show Jersey Shore. I'm surprised he wasn't on it.
You're judging him way too harshly and quickly based on one video. I've watched his videos in the past. I don't know how the hell you came to the conclusion he's a cocky douchebag from jersey shore, I don't get that vibe from him at all. In fact, he's really down to earth and humble.
Appart from the fact that he is married, this dude seems gay. What makes an alpha male alpha is that eventhough he might be wearing swim goggles to a social event people still think he's awesome. He forgot to mention that eventhough alpha males are respectful, they dont accept bad and disrespecful behavior even if it comes from a +10 hot babe. They choose who they want to date and they choose their friends. Self respect and independence are key.
women must be out of their minds in this site. the guy doesn't seem gay at all.
I agree @fiodor99
Meh. This guy isn't inspiring confidence in me at all. Now he's spouting mangina "pay for the date" shit. Seems like a feminist to me. I thought this guy was gonna be PUA. Well not really. To be brutally honest his face looked just, faggy to me. Sorry. It's crazy really. I kinda new instinctively and instantly the he was gonna be a beta male supplicant.
Same thoughts bar the homophobic crap you just spewed.
He sounds and looks like a fucking poser. He oozes fakery.
You two sound pathetic. And you, Anonymous, sound like a retard with such a biased view. What many people consider to be Alpha males today really aren't. Those arrogant assholes are truly betas and both of you are looking like it.
Well I was just speaking to my personal experience. The sort of standard definition of alpha is a guy that demonstrates leadership. This guy doesn't make me want to follow him at all.
Was I politically incorrect in the way I expressed it? Yeah. Try not to get too butthurt PC police. Supposedly the libs are all about a acceptance, so why are you trying to shut out my PERSONAL opinion? You don't have to agree with it.
I thought we were having a discussion on alpha. It seems to me that this guy is the total opposite. It seems to me that kowtowing to the PC police instead of making up your own mind is also the total opposite. It seems to me that men would be better served by thinking critically. But whatever man, that's just like my opinion.
@RationalLioness You're a breath of fresh air dear.
Lol. Cyric.
At Anonymous, no one is trying to bar you from your personal opinion. Trying to get your dumbass to THINK is a whole different matter.
You're dumbass-umptions come off as cowardly and cuntish. Which is hilarious due to the face that you're ANONYMOUS and you're talking about how this guy is a Beta?
"lol ur a dum feminazi stoopid fag lol xD"
What a fantastic argument. Really showing your maturity there, buddy.
Pee-wee Herman is more alpha then this guy. At least he doesn't shave his chest, & probably legs too. Anyone can go on the internet now-a-days & claim to be the Alpha Male, or "Modern Alpha Male" just to sell videos. 90% of these guys wouldn't even have survived among the Alpha Males of 30 years ago.
I can't wait to see what the "New Modern Alpha Male" will look like in ten years. Tons of make-up & perhaps a dress.
I'm glad that you have the mentality of a teenager.
You sure are a nice person mister anonymous...
If I was you I'd at least use some kind of name, it would help with your credibility.
Not what I expected, I kind of like this guy, even though he's normie af and not red pilled (or not in a position to say it). I think he's actually pretty helpful to young men. A significant portion of them would listen to this guy and get some reasonable advice. Hat's off to GAG for not putting some Marxist cuck up there sucking soy milk and talking about "toxic masculinity".
He actually surprised me how sociable he is. Strikes me as a real approachable guy.
I think that is the point.
How about I don't change my personality for anyone?
I've certainly changed my style over the past few years, but my composure, personality, and attitude remain the same.
I am not sure that is a good thing... You should always be growing. Stagnation is rarely a good thing.
@metalhead I didn't ask you for "advice" nor do I seek it.
Obviously I have grown, but the entire time I have stuck by the morals, values, and views I was raised on.
An educated man can entertain a thought without accepting it, which I have done several times.
Good thing we are on an advice giving and opinion sharing website, otherwise I would be over stepping my boundaries!
Just challenging the status quo, I don't mind making a few enemies along the way.
@Metlahead
Advice/opinions should only be given when asked for.
That's why I've stopped commenting on peoples opinions that I disagree with: it saves time/effort on a pointless internet debate.
So yeah, you did overstep your boundary with your pseudo intellectual comment about stagnation based on a few words I said.
That being said, this discussion is over. Respond if you want, but don't expect anything from me in return. I've already wasted enough time typing this out for you
¿Are we really still talking in alpha and beta terms?
Come on, that's ancient history.
This ^
We should be talking about sellers and buyers.
I don't wanna buy (or sell) crap.
¿Isn't that a bit objectifying?
And by a bit I mean a lot.
Don't you just love going through a comment section seeing females comment that they hate alpha males while knowing that they secretly love them?
I don't.
I don't get what this has to do with alpha. He's a fashion and dating consultant. I find him annoying.
I understand the point of what he's trying to say and do. I get where he's going with it all, but it annoys me that so many people are pushing the idea that we all can and should all be bold revolutionaries. Be true to the man you are, that's what an Alpha male is all about.
Im what Im!
😂😂😂😂
I have no need to change to something which doesn't benefit my soul. And he is not a Validator for 'men'.
These kinds of people are the one who create differences among men.
And his followers have no better work, than to listen and change their mind to impress others or themselves...
What type of man is a guy who listens to others on how to be a xyz man?😝