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Bitter men: Women aren't inherently evil, they're just inherently selfish.

Bitter men: Women aren't inherently evil, they're just inherently selfish.



Bitterness is a natural by-product of being hurt on one or more occasion and as natural as bitterness is, it's self-defeating, it traps the man in a vicious cycle and only heaps on the misery already inflicted upon him by a woman.


I used to be extremely bitter, I hated women, I thought they were evil, but they're not; they're human and humans whether they be male or female are driven by their self-interests. We live in a capitalist society for a reason, it's every man and women for themselves in this world, competing for the limited resources that are available and that is true when it comes to our interactions with each other, no matter if the people we interact with are family, friends, significant others, work colleagues or strangers we meet on our travels.


Self-interests trump everything, no matter how much a female friend says she values your friendship, your loyalty, your respect, your time and commitment to the friendship, as soon as it's no longer in her self-interest to associate herself with you, she'll abandon you and your friendship.


A woman who is married and cheats on her husband doesn't cheat because she's evil, she cheats because it's in her self-interest to seek what is missing from her marriage and if she can get what she wants without her husband finding out, then she'll have no regards for him as she seeks what she wants.


A woman who divorces her husband and takes half his money, half of all the possessions he has probably paid the most towards and also takes his children away isn't an inherently evil woman. She's putting her self-interests first. She's done with the marriage, she wants a clean break and she's going to take advantage of the legal system that's in her favour.


Even those self-proclaimed "nice women" put their self-interests first and they'll hurt you in order to get what they want and they'll say how sorry they are but that is scant consolation to the man when he's left reeling in despair at being fucked over again.


By realising that we are all selfish in some degree or other and by realising that it is human nature to put our needs above anyone else's, the bitterness that existed within me has subsided and it's only now that I can start putting all of the hurt to rest.


The truth is all women will hurt you, it doesn't matter who they are or where they are, if you meet a woman and establish a friendship or a relationship/marriage with her, there will come a time where you'll serve your purpose, were it will be no longer in her self-interests to be with you and she'll stick the knife in and get rid of you.


If you can accept this fate as your own and if you can go into a friendship or relationship with the knowledge that you'll get fucked over at some point and it's back to square one, then you'll be better prepared to deal with the fall out and deal with the bitterness before it consumes every aspect of your life.

Bitter men: Women aren't inherently evil, they're just inherently selfish.
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