Well said sir! This is completely on point and 100% true, especially that test one! Golden stamp of approval for you!
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Great job! Well done! (Clap clap!) Finally! Someone gets it. :-) I mean, guys, you really don't HAVE to do any of these things, but just try it. Experiment with it once and see what happens. If you don't like the results, then by all means you can always go back to the old dumb ways. But I have a feeling that you will REALLY ENJOY the results.
I don't care that much for 1 and 2, a message is fine instead of a gift and there aren't a lot of dates he has to remember. My birthday and whatever we have planned are enough.
Yup. All important, but the most important, I think - is No.3, and right after it No.6. I guess I am one of the rare women who says 'Don't go shopping with me.' and means it. xD
Good to know. Back in reality, men are people too and don't exist to amuse you. If you want me to come with you shopping, ask me politely. If you want me to bust my guts climbing the corporate ladder, too bad. I'm not dying at 65 from stress-induced heart attacks so you can feel proud about your trophy husband.
If you want a partner, don't expect them to cater to your every fantasy and whim.
Every time someone asks me for book recommendations, I have to give them a disclaimer:
As I tend to be a classics fiend and ready only a few modern books, most people won't like what I recommend. It really does read like an English lit professor's syllabus that spans four or five classes. :P
The blanket statement of "women care/don't care about looks" is incorrect; that statement is completely contextual. Women definitely care about looks before they've actaul gotten to know the guy. As do men. The person across the room at that party makes you want to approach him/her because of his/her physical attractiveness to you. Not much else. For women, looks combined with status make a guy attractive initially. His personality and status/money will keep her around though. For men, physical attractiveness draws, and personality keeps them. But physical attractiveness is still way more important to men throughout the course of a relationship than it is to women. They put way more weight into it. So when a woman says she doesn't care about looks, it generally means that other things are more important to her after the initial dating phase
All girls, whether they admit it or not, do want to be treated like a princess, they are often just what guys want, a lady in public, and hopefully very horny trash in the bedroom, or wherever else you have sex with your partner.
Number 5 Nope he can stay at home lol Shopping is my time and I can get it done faster on my own. Less distraction to find that perfect item. But the rest is true!
I don't get why us girls can't just tell our boyfriend/husband this stuff. I mean I guess if you're just crushing, but these things really apply to a relationship. We should trust them enough to tell them. But yes, sometimes guys don't listen soo. I don't know. Good points though! (Even though not all guys are like that, lol)
Yup... could've told you this... what surprises me is when I see a cute girl going out with a grungy unkempt goofball... I mean not just a day grungy but you can tell it's his "look."
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Well said sir! This is completely on point and 100% true, especially that test one! Golden stamp of approval for you!
Great job! Well done! (Clap clap!) Finally! Someone gets it. :-)
I mean, guys, you really don't HAVE to do any of these things, but just try it. Experiment with it once and see what happens. If you don't like the results, then by all means you can always go back to the old dumb ways.
But I have a feeling that you will REALLY ENJOY the results.
I don't care that much for 1 and 2, a message is fine instead of a gift and there aren't a lot of dates he has to remember. My birthday and whatever we have planned are enough.
Otherwise, really good take!
By the way, could you do one the other way around too?
I really think a woman should do that, don't you? ;)
Do you? I'd prefer to hear from a guy what guys really care about. Although a girl would know better what girls think guys don't care about.
Yup. All important, but the most important, I think - is No.3, and right after it No.6.
I guess I am one of the rare women who says 'Don't go shopping with me.' and means it. xD
Good to know. Back in reality, men are people too and don't exist to amuse you. If you want me to come with you shopping, ask me politely. If you want me to bust my guts climbing the corporate ladder, too bad. I'm not dying at 65 from stress-induced heart attacks so you can feel proud about your trophy husband.
If you want a partner, don't expect them to cater to your every fantasy and whim.
... mildly exaggerated.
Good Take.
I liked your writing style.
Do you have any good book recommendations?
And yeah, I like to shop alone but I also need someone to go with me.
Every time someone asks me for book recommendations, I have to give them a disclaimer:
As I tend to be a classics fiend and ready only a few modern books, most people won't like what I recommend. It really does read like an English lit professor's syllabus that spans four or five classes. :P
haha, I will keep that in mind
I legitimately don't care if he doesn't like my friends though 😂 It's happened, he doesn't have to adore them just get along with them for my sake
Great my Take, but you forgot to mention 'looks'!
They say women aren't as visual as men, but that's a HUGE myth because women care as much as men about looks, if not more.
I think most women today will admit they care about looks. :)
Yeah, some do, but I do see a lot of them bullshitting on men, saying things like "Oh, looks don't matter much to me"!
Yeah, well, that's just as big of a lie as when we say it. ;)
The blanket statement of "women care/don't care about looks" is incorrect; that statement is completely contextual. Women definitely care about looks before they've actaul gotten to know the guy. As do men. The person across the room at that party makes you want to approach him/her because of his/her physical attractiveness to you. Not much else. For women, looks combined with status make a guy attractive initially. His personality and status/money will keep her around though. For men, physical attractiveness draws, and personality keeps them. But physical attractiveness is still way more important to men throughout the course of a relationship than it is to women. They put way more weight into it. So when a woman says she doesn't care about looks, it generally means that other things are more important to her after the initial dating phase
All girls, whether they admit it or not, do want to be treated like a princess, they are often just what guys want, a lady in public, and hopefully very horny trash in the bedroom, or wherever else you have sex with your partner.
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Nope he can stay at home lol Shopping is my time and I can get it done faster on my own. Less distraction to find that perfect item.
But the rest is true!
What exactly are you testing? I don't often read myTakes, and I don't wish to be notified.
They were testing your patience :P
I don't get why us girls can't just tell our boyfriend/husband this stuff. I mean I guess if you're just crushing, but these things really apply to a relationship. We should trust them enough to tell them. But yes, sometimes guys don't listen soo. I don't know. Good points though! (Even though not all guys are like that, lol)
Yup... could've told you this... what surprises me is when I see a cute girl going out with a grungy unkempt goofball... I mean not just a day grungy but you can tell it's his "look."
I was skeptical at first thinking what does a guy know but yeah, good take. A must read fr the boys out there. Thanks💟
Why was I given an alert to this?
Guys, if that sounds like too much bullshit to deal with, I hear the Phillipines are awesome this time of year...
I Love Dresses, Cars, Perfums And Jewels
I Love Men... Money,... power
And I Love My Sex
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nice Take! everything can also be applied to women. If both partners do these things you can be sure the relationship will last forever.
😯😯 I didn't read your take!! So I don't know if I agree or not!! But I want that guy on your number 4!! 😯😯!! 😍😍😘👽❤️💋lol!!! 💋!!
If you think you're a smart enough man to understand what women want you're nowhere near as smart as you think you are.
Mostly true. I also wish guys could read body language better. When a girl says "I'm fine" it really means "I'm not fine, please hold me." fyi
Then why not say it?