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Why I, And a Lot of Men, Will Probably Never Get a Girlfriend (Page 3)
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Wrong. Women aren't the problem. It's you. You view all women as identical clones, and don't actually know any women at all. When you do approach a woman, they sense this and it's a huge turnoff. When you learn to make friends with women, then dating will be easy.
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Alter your strategy, read my myTakes they should give some perspective.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24344-the-pussy-price-ending-female-entitlement-male-whining
This one especially, I think you'll find interesting.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a25502-the-prerequisites-to-entering-the-dating-game
These 2 myTakes were written for people like you in mind.
Because you get to fly for free on Stand-by working at one. Also you get Buddy Passes and a Companion/Spouse Pass. If any single girl you like asks you for a buddy pass. At least get a date out of it. Just don't offer to put them on your Companion/ Spouse Pass unless they are your girlfriend
@VerbalWN What are you talking about?
As much as it pains me to say it, you kind of have a point mate.
I've seen how my mate's girlfriend treats him and it is just plain wrong, especially since he is such a sweet and clever guy.
Please it's sick how judgmental girls/ woman can be about other people (I have been a culprit of this once and I'm ashamed to admit it).
This is a very specific list of things, and your second argument seems very personal as you tend to repeat one point to try and prove your opinion.
It may be wise for you to consider that your view is very direct and narrow and your judgement is being clouded by your personal perception of the women you have been involved with and the women your male counterparts have also been with.
From my perspective as a objective reader and female, you should try widening your spectrum of women you interact with as your list seems very generalised to a minority group of women that to do not represent all females. And remember, you're only 17, as you mature and meet new people you will realise that all women are extremely different and your unconscious viewpoint will expand.
He could also realize that he will be treated the same regardless of how wide the spectrum is, or how many more women he interacts with.
The thing most women forget when posting replies is that we are the ones who have to make the sale, women just have to keep saying no until the perfectly gorgeous guy shows up looking for a third girlfriend.
@CBryan yep! words of wisdom
Ouch.. Dude not even half of this is true, You watch too much YouTube feminist videos or something. I approached my wife at a shinedown concert. We have been married a year and a half not. i approached her, talked to her, Took her out to dinner after, and kept seeing her. If you approach a girl that thinks you're creepy for approaching, Thats on her, Most women i know aren't like that.
Please dont generalize all women in to a category just because you choose the wrong ones.
Woah there buddy. I hate feminists, at least the radical ones. And plus what I am saying in the take would be the opposite of feminist ideology. Secondly, I'm happy for you and your wife, but you gotta know that these women that you do not are not the majority. The majority of them do that.
you're under 18... I rather doubt you have had access to the majority of women.
I base it off of other men's experiences too. Who are older.
And i base it off of the literally thousands of women i have come across and hundreds that i have dated.
Hundreds? Don't mean to be mean but I doubt you've dated hundreds of girls. by the way girls sugarcoat things because they are girls.
You can doubt all you want, but the reality is, i have nearly 17 years on you. Before i met my wife i dated a lot, Literally a different girl every few days. Again believe as you wish. you're a kid compared to me.
I understand I'm a kid compared to you. I'm 17 and you're 33. But with all due respect sir women now a days are these things that I have listed.
Maybe girls are.. Once they have matured its different.
lol ok buddy leave the op alone. I know it's easy to go after teens going through difficulty in their life. If anyone has been down that road they know it's no picnic. Only he can find his way out of this. Have fun with your girlfriend. Spend time with her rather than condescendingly making this guy feel worse about himself.
You're a dumbass lol. How many guys do you know.. would describe all of you guy friends to have the same personality? The same aspect applies to women. They are human beings dude.. not mystical creatures that all have generic standards and personality traits. You will not have a girlfriend until you change your cringe defeated attitude. All the guys who liked this take are the bitter losers who can't get laid.
Dumbass... A bit overboard but I'll take it. It's the truth though. Women always like to do these things and it seems to occur more than when men do these things
Yea, your never going to get anyone with that attitude. How about you look within yourself and ask yourself " Am I doing everything in my power to attract a mate?"
I'm 5'6" handsome and black but i don't go outside much lol. I used to complain "whoa was me" BUT I DONT GO OUTSIDE so I have no one to blame but myself. Im gonna start working on my wardrobe this Thursday after i get my paycheck...
How about we stop blaming ourselves for everything and put some blame on women. I get that it can be the guys problem but women need to take blame too. Like one guy said in here, stop putting pussy on the pedestal.
Nobody owes you anything in life homie... It's a bitter pill to swallow but its true, stay away from the bad ones. I used to pick terrible women and blame all women but I've met some good ones.
And no ones putting pussy on a pedestal but it is still nice to be around touch and fuck em...
Never asked for anything in life. I had to earn it. Women in particular are hard to earn unless you earn a 500k+ year salary.
Women don't like men approaching them because of the rape subject that's been in the media a lot. It's safer that way.
And I don't know who you been hanging around with but most women don't play games.. It seems like you're surrounding yourself with the wrong women..
you don't want to listen to the news media cause all their trying to do is create division between people that's all their trying to do
because their lives are not what there cracked up to be because of the choices they made so what they want to do is make someone else miserable so that they make themselves feel better about themselves
if people would start focusing on their lives then maybe we wouldn't have this problem
With all due respect I didn't say you had to approach us. Just saying when we approach you don't automatically think we are rapists.
about 100 thousand more men are raped by other men opposed to females. fun fact
It's kind of hard not to when we're taught from a young age men you don't know are evil, especially if they eye you down...
@Bobbyhill1 I knew that. I'm not saying male on male rape doesn't happen or is less important, I think it's so bad it's not talked about or portrayed in the media as much.
but all men aren't evil, thats the thing. I used to be taught by my father never to trust a women, and up until a certain age I never did
@bente2 you know if i had to listen to everybody I'd be fucking nuts that's why I don't listen to people cause their always wrong about what they say
@CancerianMan81 ya well I listen to the people I respect and they all worry for my safety around men because of the 'men are rapists' things. I don't even feel safe outside at night because I'm scared..
well I understand that but not all men aren't going to hurt you just know that
@CancerianMan81 ya well that doesn't take away that there's still a chance of something happening to me.
me i wouldn't worry about it but for you you can it's whatever you know sorry that you're going through that
@CancerianMan81 don't be sorry for me, it's just another lame part of being female.
please don't belittle yourself you're an awesome girl
@CancerianMan81 it's not belittling, it's just the sad truth.
I am one such man. I am 54 have never had a girlfriend and have never met a woman who wanted me for anything other a friend. I lack the looks, the finances, social skills to appeal to women so am destined to remain single and unwanted for life. I have to agree with the poster women are far too fussy they want everything, have long lists that few men can fill I believe in the 80/20 dating rule that says 80 percent of women are chasing the top 20 percent of men. This unfortunately means that most men will go without for most of their lives besides women don't need men anymore they have their own money or the state to keep them going most men are redundant.
I think some of your points are somewhat valid. (However, it's good to note that men are just as shallow and picky on their end, even if you, personally, aren't.)
Also I think you are slightly wrong about all women wanting bad asses. Sure, some do, but most women are adapting with times and want wealth. Looks just don't take you as far as a buck these days.
You're generally speaking to all women?
women want a men whose productive has a job, and a house that is already payed from mortgage!
Girls aren't women; they date anyone they want?
I've been single for 20 years, and I would ask people when I was in highschool for their input are dating, and some of them say the reason why they call boys creeps is because they don't like them!
Therefore you should understand girls have preference!
Yep. The majority of girls AND women are the things I've listed.
Those are generalizations. For example, a guy is creepy if he is continually staring but won't come talk to me. Or if he's the maintenance guy at my apartment complex and is 20 years older than me and trying to hit on me. Obviously thats inappropriate. Stuff like that.
I don't disagree with you but what if the starring is mutual? Is it on the guy to approach always? I find that I often won't approach a women in fear of feeling like a creepy or just not being interested in that that night
Unless he's a celebrity. I don't remember anyone complaining when good looking actors date girls half their age...
@CBryan well he isn't
maybe u look older to the maintenance guy?
he probably thinks ur 45
Guys who stare tend to have Autism. Women really have sunk lower then the nazis haven't they.
Lonely guys are like "all girls are like this" and all girls are like "no girls are like this."
The fact is, SOME girls are like this. SOME girls might have one or more of these problems. And lonely guys tend to think of these girls when feeling bad, so they blame them.
The majority of girls are like this
It's cool that you've met all girls. That's over 3,200,000,000 people to meet.
and how many of those women are between the ages of 13-25?
Still a million times more than you or anyone you've ever talked to have known.
Well the majority of them will think this way. Many men have told me so and from my experiences I know so. There is a minority that don't do this of course
There's still a million times more girls 13-25 than you or anyone you've ever talked to have known.
you forgot the hashtag.. don't worry i've got you covered.
#bitter
How he is bitter when he's stating what is the experience of many men around the world? Until you can walk in our shoes, please refrain from being narrow-minded.
@FlashyFlips i'm not narrow minded. i am, however, a girl.
For most of us that information is not true. I hate playing games- if anything, guys play games from my experience. You can't just put that on men or women. It honestly just sounds like he has had a few bad experiences and is pushing it on every other woman.
@FlashyFlips exactly. This puppy love chick must be the stereotypical girl. A girl who thinks any guy who isn't a male model is a creep
Lol no I'm not. I just said that I didn't hate women and that this is a majority. I know some girls out there don't do this. I've had plenty of bad experiences and so did other guys. Very few girls are good most of them are very self centered.
so then you stereotype me and say im just like them? okay, right. do you know a majority of the women? no.
Based of many men's experiences I can confidently say that the majority of them do this and a small minority of them don't.
I never said you were narrow minded, read what I have written. I don't know you to make such a conclusion. A lot of women say they hate game playing and that's exactly what they end up doing, unintentionally or otherwise. A lot of women are the way which the OP has described. That doesn't mean all women are, no but a lot are and I think a lot of men will share the same sentiments as the OP.
@FlashyFlips The game playing is actually been described and well documented. We refer to it as shit test, women whether subconsciously or consciously like to test men to see if they are worth investing in by playing mental games to see how they would react.
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@BubbleBoy69 I hear you which is why I don't take what Puppylove94 types seriously.
@BubbleBoy69 men play it too... thats why we play it.
for instance im talking to a guy right now and he isn't showing much interest, so im trying to do the same cause i think he's trying to play games. its just a constant circle.
or maybe he's not playing games and he is just actively talking to other girls (number games) because he is a player. You might be one of his dishes he is spinning.
You know how COMMON it is for women to be like, "Ugh, men SUCK. They're all pigs. I'm swearing off men forever!"? I've heard or read it hundreds of times.
But the moment a guy does it...
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@BubbleBoy69 he very well could be. but he is still leading me on if thats the case.
its simple, women are picky and men tend to bone anything that comes their way. A women will ignore a average guy opposed to a male being happy that a average girl gives him attention. If you deny this you are living in a bubble
For anyone interested. Here is an educational video on how to pass a woman's shit test. This does not include texting game but face to face conversation.
https://youtu.be/564CSaBTqFM
@BubbleBoy69 this is very interesting although I must ask how is this even a example of equality?
Don't worry I've got the dislike button covered lol
@Pacificblue62 much appreciated lol
Pathetic
@Alex1996 pathetic how?
Lol no worries
well if you are killed in USA latest mass shooting, you really did ask for it bitch.
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And it's funny because? You must be one of them.
Impossible. You said so yourself. I quote "I know that men can be very picky too, but from my experiences women tend to be more picky. Especially from ages ranging from about 13-25" end quote. This pink anon's age ranges between 25-29. So unless you want to contradict yourself, this woman isn't one of "them"
@Raymond_Reddington you must be right lol. forgot to read her age. She knows it's true because she use to do this or is still doing this.
You don't know her. You can't know that.
@Raymond_Reddington you're right I don't. But based off what she posted she must either use to be like this or is still like this
@Raymond_Reddington what if she was 25?
@Raymond_Reddington and of course he was just making a logical guess. Most young females play games because well, they are young.
that was savage and cheeky, the best reply ever
people say silence is the best answer but laughter is also a better answer
that guy should go on x factor to rant against girls.
Say that when you are looking down the barrel of a gun pointed at you by said men you treat leik this.
@TimeSplittersxvc Not cool
What do you mean “ woman want to take control of a guy”
No! I want a boyfriend! I don’t want a pet!
Look, I’m sorry if you feel sad about your loneliness... You shouldn’t give up! Every person deserves to feel loved by someone!
It’s just some things are very important for women and you have to do those things if you want a girlfriend.
1) keep your clothes clean
2) You have to smell nice
3) Don’t be to clingy to girls ( we want man not a dog 🐕)
4) Don’t be miserable
There is WAY more than what you’ve given me
You figured women out!!
And at such a young age!
For me it was 22.
Women will only use you as a utility. They ignore you in their prime but once they realize they are about to hit the wall they go for guys the use to ignore like you.
Wait until they turn 30 with no kids and no husband.
Definitely agree with one. A girl on GAG said attention to women is like sex to men they'll take it wherever they can get it. Women see nothing wrong with leading guys on so they can get attention, validation similar to how players see nothing wrong lying to women for sex.
Appreciate it!
Lmao, bro this is top-tier incel posting for G@G. Like the "nice guys" thing? C'mon, is this a joke?
It's not that hard to get chicks. I'm not a bad boy, I'm a big fucking nerd, and I can get girls.
I hope this was meant to be satire, otherwise, I hope you come to understand the world better someday, OP.
I wrote this three years ago. My views have changed, but somewhat similar. That’s why I didn’t defend myself to newcomers of this post. I have no idea why this old post of mine was featured
Oh damn, that's some bad luck. Sorry for any unwarranted shade, OP.
TLDR
this guys just gay... can't get a woman...
everything he wrote was preaching to the choir, but he's trying to verify why nobody wants him by asking if were alike...
are we alike... NOPE!
That made no sense