Since some people enjoyed me other story involving my lecturer I decided to verge on a topic of first boyfriends.
Now mind you, I have not had many boyfriends. In fact I am on my second one right now whom I am much happier with. But my first boyfriend well...that's another story.
Ever since going into college and a new country I discovered that I am indeed likeable by guys. I did not really know how to approach that topic to be fair. This is where my first boyfriend comes into play.
He was in the same course as I was, same class and he sat next to me for like the first 2 months of university before we were allowed to pretty much change seats.
I was very shy and awkward and my tactic to make friends was to message them on Facebook. Now this started off with pretty much something related to course and then developed into friendships (which I made a few this way).
I did the same to my ex and we started to chat. He seemed fun to be around and I explained how I am anti social. He told me he had a party coming up and that I was invited. In the actual party it was fun and I did meet one of his friends who I stayed up the whole night talking to. I enjoyed it but my ex kept telling me how the guy is bad news and how he's a fuckboy and etc.
Obviously I ignored that as I make my own judgement of people. After that I did meet up with the guy from the party and he did invite me to things as well. When he and I would text my ex would be around because we sort of hung out in a group.
Long story short I was oblivious that my ex liked me and he told me he did one night and I did not know what to say. From there on I kept making excuses how he should sort out things with his ex (they were very close friends) before pursuing anything.
Obviously he kept asking me to be his girlfriend until one night for a stupid reason I said yes. I did not like him in more than a friend way but I thought that the feelings might develop. Of course they did not.
Now for the star of the story. The first kiss.
One Friday night after hanging out until 11 pm I wanted to say goodnight and go home but he kept telling me about how pretty the beach is at night. I know he lives near the beach so out of a whim I said I could sleepover at his house. Around 1 am we were at his house. The beach at this point was too cold and I was too tired so I said fuck it I want to sleep. I stated to him that I did not want to sleep in the same bed (he had mattresses on the floor). He seemed fine with it.
I am laying down trying to sleep until I hear him say he was too cold so he went in the bed I was in. I moved further from him and tried to sleep. I kept feeling him stroke my arms. Now if this was with my current boyfriend id be all over him but my ex like i said before, my feelings for him were just friendship. And I am a person who cannot open up to people i have no romantic feelings for (in a physical way).
I asked him to stop as I felt uncomfortable and lied to him saying that it was because I never had a boyfriend.
He said ok and turned his back to me to sleep. I thought finally now I can sleep. I was laying on my back when suddenly i hear him get up and he just goes on top of me. He goes for the kiss and his tongue just circled around my closed mouth.
In my head im just like wtf is going on. He did not stop even with my mouth closed until I actually had to say stop. He gets off me and my mouth all over is just covered in his slobber. I wipe it away and all he tells me was "Well that was awkward."
I did not reply to him and just turned around to my side cursing at what I got myself into.
This is just one of many stories I had with this ex, whom I dated for 3 weeks.
You might think oh
3 weeks
that's not long enough to have stories.
Trust me it gets worse.
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When a girl surprised me by going for my lips at the end of the date and I went for her cheek haha. She later found out I had never had a kiss so gave me another date. Didn't last much longer though.
Lol! Just... wow
my first kiss was awful too