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The Worst Boyfriend Ever (part one)

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Worst boyfriend ever part one.

This can sort of count as part two from my previous MyTake (Worst first kiss). There I did mention how my boyfriend of 3 weeks was probably the worst and some did not believe me. Which is why I want to share yet another crazy story with you guys.

This was probably like a week into dating and like I said we hung out in a group. So it was him and I, my friend, another girl and another one of his friends. Now his guy friend, it was his birthday. We were all from the same class by the way.

Anyways, it was his birthday and we decided to celebrate the whole day. We all wore party hats around town and tried to do a lot of activities. I mostly hung around my guy friend whilst my ex hung with the girl and birthday boy. This is not strange by the way. I am way closer to the guy friend because I met him literally at the start of class way before dating my ex. But anyways, towards the evening we all decided to go to the bar. We are all of age as well aside from the girl since she was way younger but she did not drink she just sat with us.

Now I have to give you a visual on this bar. It has an indoors (obviously) but we sat outside right at the end. And right at the end there is another bar that is underground so we sat right near the stairs. The way we sat was, I was right near the stairs, girl in front of me, ex sitting next to the girl, birthday boy sitting next to ex andmyfriend sitting next to me and we are all in a circle. It was really relaxed and ex got me a drink which was like a soda to be fair. The evening was going great, we are all laughing and bonding and watching the birthday boy get drunk.

Sometime goes by and I hear someone coming up the stairs from the bar that is underground. Mind you, we were still wearing party hats and weren't bothered taking them off. This guy who looks well into his 50s and drunk, comes up the bar to greet us and asks whos party it is.

Of course the birthday boy replies and there was some small talk and the guy said I'll bring two shots for the boy who is turning 20". After saying this he just goes back down into the bar. The bartender from the bar below comes up with two shots and gives them to the birthday boy and wishes him a happy birthday.

Now I forgot to mention but there is a security camera right where the entrance is, and it is high up on the sign of the bar. This is all for safety reasons. Anyways, the birthday boy waves at the camera and laughs and takes the shots and we cheer. The night keeps going well.

Until, this drunk man decides to come back up the stairs. I was expecting him to talk to the birthday boy again but instead he leans down to where I am and whispers in my ear "You know on the security camera it looks like you don't have pants on". I got shit scared of course. By the way I was wearing really light green pants.

He then carries on to laughing and at this point I give my ex the look of "Why the fuck are you not doing anything". My close friend next to me starts to tense up and is just starring at the dude straight in the eyes whilst my ex is laughing. This drunk man then whispers "Im gonna do this to prove you have pants" and proceeds to grab my thigh and wave and smile at the camera. He did not grab my knee, or my lower thigh, he was probably 2 inches from my crotch and I kind of nervous laugh because I cannot handle drunks at all.

Ex still isn't doing shit. The man then says "can you pop down to the bar for a second to prove that you have pants". Now in this instant I knew I should have said no but instead I asked if I could bring a friend with me instead. That way if shit gets down im not defenceless. Again I give my ex the look like "you better come with me". Instead he sits there silent while the birthday boy volunteers.

So here we have a scene of me and my friend going down to the bar with this drunk man, great. We reach the bar and I have never shit my pants so much. As I walk in, this bar is just filled with menand they all stop talking and turn to look at me. One was even grinning intensely. At that instant my heart dropped, I was starting to panic and kind of stood behind the birthday boy. The old man isn't paying him attention and he grabs me by the waist and says look at the cameras, and I did. Then I said ok I'm gonna go now but this guy had a grip on my waist.

At this point I am fully panicking inside. The men at the bar haven't dropped their gaze from me, birthday boy is distracting the guy and I look at the bartender. And he looks at me and he points with his eyes to the stairs like telling me to get the fuck out.

I am still trying to back away but didn't want to leave the birthday boy alone, I look at the stairs and see my friend coming down. I was so relieved because he's like 6 foot 2 and massive. He walks up to us and just with the most serious face tells me to get out. I back away and nearly sprint up the stairs.

I get out and followed by my friends and my ex proceeds to ask my guy friend if he was alright and if shit went down. He then tells me he did not want to leave the girl alone which is why he did not go down with me. He did not ask if I was ok and all he said was you look red. Which isn't shocking because I get bad anxiety. Since the birthday boy and I live in the same building, He volunteered to take me home seeing as I was shaken. I apologised for ruining his day and he said it wasn't as he had a great time.

Later that night I got a text from my ex literally saying "Could have said no". At that point I did not care about the mistakes I made because I was shaken as fuck and needed some sort of comfort which he did not give me.

Now there is a similar story to this one with the same ex. Did he stand up for me the second time after seeing this first time? Soon you'll find out.

The Worst Boyfriend Ever (part one)
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