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Thanks for the tips :)
Appreciate it. But most of have been done and still single. Hell for 4 years or so hhhhh.
:/ ye only thing that did work is me not trying to find a girlfriend and destiney play me there and force me to find a girl and like her and she like me without me searching don't know what's wrong with the universe when I am find and decided to live single that happen. And when I looking to find a girl nothing happen and stay single :/ .
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A very good take overall , even though this won't apply to me personally , as my situation does not allow dating. Here in the UK , cold approaches are NOT welcomed by most women , most are glued to phones anyway , also compliments are not generally taken well by most women. I agree totally with the do not be a pushover " Nice Guy TM " , I definitely speak my mind , I can be belligerent at times !!
Good take, although these things are more about pushing you over the finish line to get a girl.
You need to have her interest initially otherwise you will never get this far. Most of GaG struggles with that first stage, hence the negative responses here...
The teasing thing is new to me, I'll consider putting it to practice :D
Thanks for the professional advise, as you know I'm as single as can be.
Many of these things I already do but I'll consider some others as well!
lol girls want what we can't have so yes, use it.
@WriterAndPainter okay I'll tease you to death hahahaha :D
lol I own this game, so we shall see.
@WriterAndPainter gosh what a challenge... I feel very small besides her teasing Majesty :o
You should lol
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Great advice as always. I wish more girl's were more like you and was cool like you.😀
"Stop trying to get a girlfriend/ be confortable on your own."
That is actually the best advice someone can give. Ironically, the best way to be attractive is to not need to be with someone. Besides, guys that try to get a girlfriend (especially if they try hard) often behave in a desperate manner. And desperation stinks.
Good job.
I totally agree with you :)
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a hearty kek
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Yeah... It's shit advice.
Why so?
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It's because you didn't get to the nitty-gritty about the harsh realities men have to realize to be successful.
Looks. Height. Status. And resources.
You barely even touched on these things. These are the four main things that hold men back. If you are a short, fat, poor and ugly, don't expect any amount of "vocals & body language" to help your case.
As long as the guy is sexy, the ball is in his park to get girlfriends and that's the truth. No girl would want to go out with a guy she is not attracted to. The things you mentioned (apart from the teasing advice won't help much).
You didn't dive deep enough into the sexual dynamics between men and women. And before you argue that NAWALT (not all women are like that), there's a reason why these players are fucking girls time and time again.
Those things crossed my mind, but they are irrelevant, at least according to me, at least according to the way I was raised, in here I stated my opinion and the title says it all, "By Natured" so this mean, those are my concepts, my thoughts, my advice, if other women are different and have different thoughts on this, and they base everything on looks and status, it's their problem :)
This MyTake is a pure advice by ME to get someone LIKE ME ;) who actually doesn't give a damn about those things you mentioned.
Have a nice day sweetheart <3
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I am a strong believer of watching how people behave rather than what they say. If these players are getting laid and getting girlfriends, then they are doing something right.
I don't blame you though. Many women advice men from an idealistic perspective; they look at what good traits these men have that they find attractive but that doesn't matter too much if the guy isn't sexually attractive to begin with.
This is why guys recommend dressing well, social proofing and GAME. These are the things that girls sexually attracted to them. I am not saying being an asshole is the answer but you need to realize that you aren't pushing the harsh shit hard enough.
Can't change it, and i won't add those stupid details, this is why I have an amazing relationship, because I didn't care about status, money, clothes, and the GAME, and my boyfriend applied all of the above and he got the fabulous me ;) LOL
<3 I still understand where you are coming from, but if a man wants a woman who loves them for who they are, if they want to be loved even if one day they remain without money without a car, then they should allow themselves to be natural and follow these natural rules by natured, to find a woman that will appreciate them as they are.
If they focus on THE GAME, and being sexual attractive, they will find just what they are looking for, TRASH..
Good luck
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... And you're missing my point.
And women don't love men for who they are.
No social skills = unattractive
No ambition or money = unattractive
Very short height = unattractive
Repulsively ugly face = unattractive
Those things your boyfriend did to "win" you over are fine but you had to find him sexually attractive to begin with.
If you honestly can say that a short, poor, ugly guy can pull all of the above and still win your heart over then you are very rare snowflake indeed...
And teasing or whatever-you-may-call-it is game. Just so you know...
Consider me a rare snowflake :)
I've seen ugly, short, fat men in a Ferrari with extremely attractive woman, so i would question your points are invalid?
I also think in summary she's trying to say "This is how not to be a creep".
Obviously picking up girls is extremely complicated as each person has different perspectives.
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@Chriscunning Re-read what I wrote my friend.
"Looks. Height. Status. And resources."
He has 2/4. All you proved is that girls fuck rich guys. Height is a funny one though; being short for a guy isn't too bad as long as he isn't "too" short (whatever "too short" is). He has to make up for it though. Having money and status increases his SMV.
@Chriscunning If those ugly fat men in Ferrari are with attractive women, those women do not deserve loyal amazing men like YOURSELF, you deserve something better than that, I don't give a flying fart about one's status or car, my boyfriend is not the richest, he can't afford a lot of things, but hell I am so proud of him... so yeah... i guess i'm just EITHER NOT NORMAL or those girls are normal. you decide :)
@UnknownXYZ. Sorry i missed those ones. It is just a matter of fact that girls are biologically designed to search out those things. I do believe being an "alpha male" can break the points though no matter how ugly you are. But it's a hard thing to do, cause generally speaking confident men have more status and money.
But i think generally speaking her advice didn't deal with the negative sides, which is why I tried to add the details oh "how".
Like i remember in a pub literally saying "Hi" to some chick who turned around and swore at me for picking her up. I laughed and "whispered" to my friend in a loud voice "Look at this one". Needless some 3 hours later she apologized. But point is every person takes things differently. In this case her advice would've sounded wrong, but there have been many times a "Hi" worked great. It just all depends.
@natured I don't think it's fair to assume men who drive Ferrari's aren't faithful? :-)
But everyone has there own list that their partners tick. Most girls I have found do flock to money (as all men flock to attractive girls). There's no shame in it, it's how things work. But since these are exceptional cases I think generally speaking there are some helpful pointers you made.
But guys do need to practice on their game.
@Chriscunning Sure :)
have a wonderful day dear <3
How To Get A Girlfriend -Tricks and Tips- By Natured
What I did naturally was to base my relationship with a female on God word. See I did not have to do any tricks or tips natured.
Only works if you have equally God-minded women to try this on. If the gals your age at church have all their real priorities elsewhere, then they're only going to care about how you fit into their other priorities. And if you don't sell to them that you do, nothing else you do will make you mean anything to them. I can think of at least two instances where that's happened to me.
Finding any God-minded woman my age in my area who is still single is... well, not easy, to say the least. The 30-something women who are single in my area, are usually single for a very valid reason... or several. If there's any validity to the Hot-Crazy Matrix, I'm surrounded by No-Gos and Danger Zoners.
@ObscuredBeyond
That why I only date Christian women who are true believers. I am married, our marry is great.
It not about me, it not about her. It about us, we. Marriage is a two-way street.
Well, congratulations brother, what else should I say? Thanks for reading?
Have a nice day <3
I am good-looking I believe, and I've approached girls hundreds of times... but my success percentage is only like 1% or 2% to be generous.
Could it be that my voice is pretty atonal and low, or that they see me always being alone? Or that I look very different than the average male? Dunno... but I'm still believing that I'll find the perfect match, it's only a matter of time.
If your win rate is that low, there's always ways to improve yourself to bring up that winra te
@ubilockon I believe the problem is my country, not me. Here if they see you alone, then you are automatically branded as a weirdo no matter who or what you are.
This is too much to remember.
Why can't I just walk up to a girl, say hi and introduce myself, and say the first compliment that pops into my mind and try to keep the conversation going.
"Use the first thing you noticed about her that attracted you" - I'm not sure about that. What if her boobs or butt was what caught my eyes? That's a big slap on the face. Or worse. The other tips sound good.
Great Take 😊👍👍
Guys if none of these tips work, order a wife from Russia
why not they are absolutely beautiful
@ScottSummers go for it.
Nobody like gold diggers.
@blondfrog if no one did, there would be no gold diggers. Try again Sunny.
Hm, cool tips!
What if im in the trap already? As in, i already have a crush. Let the crush go, i guess. We all know how that feels.
Woooooooooooo,,,, You have really did it this time honey... Awesome... I just read it in minutes... Do you have any tips on how can a Shrek get GF?
Not trying to get a girl... is the best way to get a girl If you show an ounce of needing her it shifts the power into her hands and she will often look down on you. girls like some sort of chase...
yeah but it like trying not to think about a blue elephant.
Not trying to try makes you try.
@ConnorGracie what is your point? Are you one of those people that jut has to type the ''It's you're**'' comment on everything. Yes technically you are still sort of trying in a different way... but its much easier in comparison then trying to win her over with conversation etc.
Good tips for the guys here, most of the GaG guys are totally uninformed ;)
everything is pretty on point except for the compliments section, it should have been "backhanded compliments" cuz those actually work
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