Common Reasons Why Couples Argue!

[Anonymous]

No couple wants to argue but especiall because of our genetics, we can't have a week without arguing. This time may change according to couples. If you can't control your instincts, you can harm your relationship.

Why couples argue?

Sometimes guys may not have enough time for their partner because of their work or family. In this case, girls will never be silent.

Another reason is jealousy. Being jealous of your partner will lead to arguments.

Lies are the number one reason of arguments. They can even end up with break up. That's why you should never lie. Tell the brutual truth all the time.

Couples butt in many things. Like where you go, when you will come back, what you will wear etc. This list just goes on. You may stay silent and do whatever your partner says. But after some time you won't let them butt in your life. Once you do that, arguments will start. Your partner will say that you have changed a lot. You must know your limit. You mustn't put your nose into everything. Know your line.

If you don't like something, don't do it to your partner. Lİke if you don't like to be controlled then don't control your partner. You already know how bad it feels.

Be respectful to your partner, their friends and family. Don't talk bad about them. Nobody lets someone talk bad about their loved ones.

[hibam]

Couples argue because their needs don't meet easily, guys take relationship differently from women. Guys deal with it like any other deal in their life and sometimes they forget to show affection "THE WAY" women want. Women want the guy dedicating 90% of his time and effort to them which is so difficult. They want affection and a lot of attention. They want the guy to imply them in every detail in his life. On the other hand guys sometimes screw it up and depend mostly on sex to maintain the relationship and the intimacy which women more often consider it as a "male selfish bevaior" because they think it's based on their sexual desire more than looking for their partner's needs. Guys can like more than two women in the same time if they are not still in love while women fall in love quickly with one guy and take things more seriously. Couples argue because guys are sometimes harsh and talking and don't know how to open up about their feelings and girls just speak all the time and want men to be more tender and careful about how they pick their words. Women concentrate on the slightest details while guys not. They argue because guys have big egos and girls are way too sensitive to handle their "ego" issues.
Couples argue because one of both is acting selfishly or carelessly and the other one is giving excessively. Couples argue because trust is lacking in the relationship because when you get hurt means you can't trust them well. If men could concentrate and dedicate more time to the relationship and open their ears up to their partner's needs, and if girls can stop imagining guys are "ideal super heroes" who can do for them everything they wished, because in the end guys are "humans who have limited capacities" not angels from the sky !
If guys determine from the beginning what they really want without making us girls wondering all the time and stepping back in the last moment as " Ah I think we have to break up or take our time" thing that they constantly do to girls.

[BrittBratt2416]

Jealous of your own partner? That's weird to me.. I don't think I've ever been jealous of my boyfriend at anything. If he's good at certain things than me, than that's fine with me. Everyone has a strength or weakness...

[myTake Owner]

i mean getting jealous him from someone else

[FatherJack]

Women & men are wired VERY differently & are polar opposites in many respects , with very different interests , interpretation of information & differing needs , one example is men tend to have much higher sex drives than women , due to testosterone levels. Conflict is inevitable at some point in hetero relationships , I am now a single dad , still working FT , I dumped my ex wife due to her slobbish tendencies laziness & constant moaning , my situation is hard , but I am overall happier & used to being single. Relationships are not for me !!

[Weirdstuff]

I think a big factor is also not being honest with yourself and not each other, with the consequence of expressing your emotions in a negative way. For example: my ex'es mother was always being grumpy against her husband to the extent of shouting and punching. She was not able to admit to herself that she wanted more intimancy with him. Her vague hints were not caught on by the husband and she got frustrated. Her behaviour made the husband even less likely to initiate intimacy, thus making the problem worse

[Anonymous]

Because she or some girls insist on hanging out with a guy friend, they take to Victoria secret with them and let them see what they’re buying first hand 😤.