In the End, Love is Love...

[John_McStarrison]

There always seems to be something when it comes to love. No one is faithful anymore, no one gets married anymore, there's high standards, low standards, double standards, guys just don't understand, girls just don't understand, love is a lie...

I just want to say, no matter what our differences, there is one thing the human race all have in common, the ability to love. For many of us, that ability becomes a desire to love. Yes, things are different now, love is evolving, changing...and that's okay.

It's true that less people get married, but that doesn't mean love has died, it just means more couples don't want to get married.

Less couples start families, we have plenty of people as it is.

People date interracially, they date people older, younger, of every kind. All these changes may seem overwhelming to people used to traditional ways, but it's important to remember that just because things have changed, doesn't mean we can't all co-exist. Love is more inclusive than ever, and that's the way it should be.

Because in the end, love is love... ❤️

[BrittBratt2416]

It's true that less people get married, but that doesn't mean love has died, it just means more couples don't want to get married.
Less couples start families, we have plenty of people as it is.

Sorry but that to me does not sound like a good supportive fact to claim people still understand what love is. In fact you just kinda proved that people no longer know how to love, scared to love, and most importantly don't want to commit. And this is pretty prominent in today's society. Jump in and out relationships when things get to hard or to serious..

[BrittBratt2416]

Back in the day a lot of people did want to grow families but now people don't want that cause they either don't want to give up their comfortable lifestyle and men are terrified of having to pay child support. It has nothing to do with "plenty of people" .

[John_McStarrison]

I didn't word it great admittedly, it was late at night and I was kinda just writing out loud so to speak...
basically I mean that just because people don't get married and don't have kids doesn't mean that people don't understand what love is and don't want to commit. I don't believe that an unmarried couple is scared to commit. But that's okay, we just have different views on what love is, there's enough room for all of us, married, unmarried etc.

[John_McStarrison]

I really don't think that's the only reason people don't want kids and families, I'm sure some people are like that, but for many of us, it's just a personal decision

[BrittBratt2416]

It's a way to leave the door open so they can escape when they no longer want to be in a relationship. Marriage is the ultimate form/stage of commitment.

[John_McStarrison]

On the other hand, since marriage is more difficult to leave, it can make people feel trapped, and marriage can create a lot of pressure on either or both sides. For some people, it is the ultimate commitment, for some, it's just a legal process. Marriage has no meaning by itself, humans give meaning to marriage with love, and love is what really matters

[BrittBratt2416]

Yea that's because they are scared of commitment lol marriage is not entrapment, it only feels that way cause that's person has a negative view/ thought process of marriage cause they focus on nothing but the negatives instead of the postives. It's because society has made it negative or they are scared to get married just cause their parents marriage failed.

[BrittBratt2416]

People are letting fear and other people failures hold them back.

[John_McStarrison]

We can just agree to disagree on this issue... I actually find it interesting you say that, because I feel the same way about unmarried relationships, for so long, and even to this day, there has been a negative cloud over them. As if they just don't love each other or don't want to get committed. Those are stereotypes. As long as it's love, I don't see why it should matter.

[Bezbozhnikustanka]

I just don't see the sense in spending a shit load of money on a dress you'll only wear once, morning suit hire for the men, silly dressed for the bridesmaids, a horse drawn carriage and Champagne, especially as 5 years latter you'll be getting divorced. Nobody stays married these days, so why bother? We all know you'll end up having 6 children by 6 different fathers.

[hawkeye92]

You don't actually talk this crap in real life. You're just saying this lovey dovey crap to get social brownie points. It's pathetic guy. I feel dumber for having read this.

[John_McStarrison]

It's not like I made you read the take man. But whatever...

[hawkeye92]

Don't worry, I'm a skimmer

[Anonymous]

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