Perhaps I should have included a bit that said "the vast majority" in order to appease sensibilities like yours, but I didn't think it was necessary-- I thought it was implied.
... You're kidding right? You think that you're right, because other people on an Internet post agree with you? So if a lot of people think a thing, that automatically makes the thing correct or good?
You know that's the same logic that Nazis used to say that Hitler was a decent dude, right? I mean, lots of people did the sieg heil when he walked by. And that Trumpers use to justify why anything idiotic he says or does is okay, because hey, he won the election? It's a self-fulfilling prophecy (you may need to look up what that means, sport).
Again, come back when you've learned a thing or two, or a hundred. Seems like you have a lot to learn. It'll probably take you a while.
You know this was so dumb I will just give you the dictionary definition of cheating to prove that your entire post is wrong in less than 15 seconds. Cheat: Verb: act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage, especially in a game or examination. Informal definition: be sexually unfaithful. alright point proven bye enjoy your "cheating is erroneous and foolish and blah blah blah blah blah" view
Yes I did, but not all the people cheat just because they are not happy, and some people cheat even when they are happy, just because they are not loyal to their girlfriend/boyfriend.
Not just sexually satisfied but also in good relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend. I didn't mean like a pet, being loyal is a matter of morality.
That's not an explanation, it's either just ranting of a bitter person who was a victim of cheating, or you were the cheater and now you're trying to find excuses for your actions.
Wellll... no, as I just said. I'm not bitter, and no one is trying to "cover up" anything. If you disagree with the logic of what's in the Take, then logically dispute it. You basically just said "it's wrong because." That isn't an explanation.
You never explained anything, and there is no logic in your so called explanation, rantings are not disputable, they are just a side effect of someone's bitterness, if a person is highly illogical, nobody can help him.
Yeah I got a lot of stupid comments. At least "hmm" implies "hmm, that's something to think about. I have not made up my mind yet based on what you've written but I will consider it."
I especially liked that part where you said that you don't advocate for being dishonest, just that you advocate for not telling people what you actually think because it might not get you laid as people tend to have a different opinion.
Well, bad things happening isn't justification for more bad things happening. Like "it's okay this bad thing is here because lots of other bad things are here." I mean anyone who legitimately decides they want to kill their partner or spouse because the other one had sex with someone else... those people need to check themselves into psychiatric wards.
Ha ha, i suppose we must all teach our young daughters that selling their bodies is perfectly fine because it is "not written down," following your logic, a few centuries ago, before any laws "were written down" it was okay to poke people's eyes out for stealing bread becuase that was the purpose of retribution and an "eye for an eye."
it's a violation of trust. there are parameters in relationships. if one enters into a relationship with another person, then merely say they don't want monogamy.
Yes. Your opinion doesn't hold any more clout than a person who believes in cheating.
That is how culture works. It's not a law. It's defined by social norms. So you can't illegitimize anyone else's opinion anymore than they illegitimize yours.
"It's not a law." Correct. "So you can't illegitimize [sic] anyone else's opinion anymore than they illegitimize [sic] yours." Incorrect. There are opinions which contain logic, reason, and evidence, in order to back up why they're being explained in the first place. And then there are opinions which do not contain those things. The ones which do contain those things are correct and the ones which do not are incorrect. Please don't tell me that you're really one of those people who falsely believes that all opinions are equal, or something?
Humans are animals. We're talking about sex here. Not commitment. And if you were unsatisfied with those first things you ^ just mentioned, you wouldn't be interested in the second thing (commitment) with that person... would you.
You were condoning cheating as it is only sex and lust I disagreed as in life you can't separated things as everything is one package... you cheat on me you are out don't care about your sexual desire or any thing else
Honestly what I'm thinking is you fucked and cheated someone. Here writing this fucking my take to support your self. Or just tell me. Didn't you cheat someone ?
Fine. I didn't wanted to blame you. But I just wanted to know either people think before doing or later they try to support themselves psychologically. I got your answer.
@Anon-ymous1 Having sexual intercourse with someone else, whatever you like to call it, it's wrong, and YES, IT'S BREAKING A RULE. Not an official rule, but a morale rule. Something of which you should know is wrong to do. I like to simply call it cheating.
Either you agree or disagree on the fact that cheating is wrong. Either way, this is a ridiculous take.
No... it doesn't. This is an anonymous Internet profile, man. No one knows who I am, or you are, or whatever. It's just about the exchange of ideas. And the term "cheating" is still erroneous and stupid, for all the reasons I listed above. Think what you like.
@Anon-ymous1 I just don't understand what you now think about cheating overall, or ''people having sexual intercourse with someone who isn't their partner''. Very vague at least. It almost suggests you support people who ''cheat''.
... Are you an idiot? Then why are you even asking questions about it? Like if I wrote a summary of climate change and how it's real, and you commented with "What are you even talking about here? !!1!!!1?" and I was like "Uh, read it and you'll find out," then you're like "no I don't want to," then how dumb are you?
I only wan't a brief explanation with out being called an idiot. I mean how hard is it to simply say it here? If it's that hard then pity for you. And you know what? You don't need to.
^ See those words up there? There aren't THAT many of them. If you want to actually have an answer, then read them. You clearly don't want an answer. So whatever man.
I saw and I got it. I was referring to your first question calling and judging me of being an idiot. And yes I get the rest of what you said, judgmental freak.
Why is it that if I ask even if I'm not interested at it idiotic? Simply curious but I don't care about it that much so you don't have to tell me of it's that hard for you.
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"... Especially guys to want to have sex with other girls, because that's what having dicks and lots of testosterone have designed us for."
How can anyone take this seriously when you believe such nonsense?
... Are you a guy? Apparently not.
Perhaps I should have included a bit that said "the vast majority" in order to appease sensibilities like yours, but I didn't think it was necessary-- I thought it was implied.
Yes I'm a guy.
The vast majority feels that way? Bro you are delusional.
Okay man. Good luck out there. Come back to me once you've learned a thing or two.
You are the clueless one. Notice almost no one agrees with this. ?😂😂
... You're kidding right? You think that you're right, because other people on an Internet post agree with you? So if a lot of people think a thing, that automatically makes the thing correct or good?
You know that's the same logic that Nazis used to say that Hitler was a decent dude, right? I mean, lots of people did the sieg heil when he walked by. And that Trumpers use to justify why anything idiotic he says or does is okay, because hey, he won the election? It's a self-fulfilling prophecy (you may need to look up what that means, sport).
Again, come back when you've learned a thing or two, or a hundred. Seems like you have a lot to learn. It'll probably take you a while.
That's why I do polyamory. As long as the girls agree, then it is good.
Unless she's not okay with it, and they generally aren't.
What a load of crap!
You know this was so dumb I will just give you the dictionary definition of cheating to prove that your entire post is wrong in less than 15 seconds. Cheat: Verb: act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage, especially in a game or examination. Informal definition: be sexually unfaithful. alright point proven bye enjoy your "cheating is erroneous and foolish and blah blah blah blah blah" view
"Informal."
WTF? You wouldn't think that if your girlfriend was cheating on you 🤨
Cool so, did you actually read the post?
Yes I did, but not all the people cheat just because they are not happy, and some people cheat even when they are happy, just because they are not loyal to their girlfriend/boyfriend.
I... am not sure I understand you. By "happy" do you mean like, sexually satisfied?
And people aren't dogs. We don't have to be "loyal" good little pets to only one other person.
Not just sexually satisfied but also in good relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend.
I didn't mean like a pet, being loyal is a matter of morality.
I disagree. I think morality is far more subjective than that.
Everything is subjective, but it's a common decency not to cheat if you're not being cheated.
The term "cheat" is erroneous and stupid, as I explained, and why, in the post.
That's not an explanation, it's either just ranting of a bitter person who was a victim of cheating, or you were the cheater and now you're trying to find excuses for your actions.
... Mmm no.
... Mmm yup.
Wellll... no, as I just said. I'm not bitter, and no one is trying to "cover up" anything. If you disagree with the logic of what's in the Take, then logically dispute it. You basically just said "it's wrong because." That isn't an explanation.
You never explained anything, and there is no logic in your so called explanation, rantings are not disputable, they are just a side effect of someone's bitterness, if a person is highly illogical, nobody can help him.
You're right-- if a person is highly illogical, no one can help her.
Said by the guy who gave MHO to a comment that goes "Hmmmm" 😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah I got a lot of stupid comments. At least "hmm" implies "hmm, that's something to think about. I have not made up my mind yet based on what you've written but I will consider it."
Yay, lucky me :)
@TatyanaTheEmpress my ex did it. No hard feelings
@jacquesvol She did what, cheat on you? What's that got to do with me?
This is the dumbest shit I read on this site in a good while, props to you sir.
I especially liked that part where you said that you don't advocate for being dishonest, just that you advocate for not telling people what you actually think because it might not get you laid as people tend to have a different opinion.
That's comedy gold right there.
Yawn. If you have something interesting to say, then say it. I doubt you did actually read it.
Interesting take, but somebody might get physically hurt or murdered... just sayin'
You've lost me.
I don't know what you mean.
What I mean is that cheating is taken very seriously by many, many people. History has many examples of how people may react in the extreme...
People need thicker skins, for one. Two, as I said, which is the point of this entire piece, "cheating" is a stupid term.
You can call it what you like... the graveyard, hospital and jail are full of people who are there because of "cheating."
Uhh, I guess? And isn't that, you know... toxic and disgusting? Obviously?
Just reality...
Well, bad things happening isn't justification for more bad things happening. Like "it's okay this bad thing is here because lots of other bad things are here." I mean anyone who legitimately decides they want to kill their partner or spouse because the other one had sex with someone else... those people need to check themselves into psychiatric wards.
yiur pseudo psychology aside I think you have ignored the fact that it does violate some rules.
Where are the rules; where's the law; where's it written; show it to me.
Ha ha, i suppose we must all teach our young daughters that selling their bodies is perfectly fine because it is "not written down," following your logic, a few centuries ago, before any laws "were written down" it was okay to poke people's eyes out for stealing bread becuase that was the purpose of retribution and an "eye for an eye."
also, allowing your prospective 5 year old son to watch some filthy channels with you will also be fine, right?
There’s nothing in the law of the land about leaning over someone’s shoulder in a test, still cheating.
it's a violation of trust. there are parameters in relationships. if one enters into a relationship with another person, then merely say they don't want monogamy.
Your opinion doesn't exhibit any more grounding than a person's argument that cheating is wrong.
..."Grounding?"
Yes. Your opinion doesn't hold any more clout than a person who believes in cheating.
That is how culture works. It's not a law. It's defined by social norms. So you can't illegitimize anyone else's opinion anymore than they illegitimize yours.
That means we have to respect other's views.
And my view is: cheating is wrong.
"It's not a law." Correct.
"So you can't illegitimize [sic] anyone else's opinion anymore than they illegitimize [sic] yours." Incorrect. There are opinions which contain logic, reason, and evidence, in order to back up why they're being explained in the first place. And then there are opinions which do not contain those things. The ones which do contain those things are correct and the ones which do not are incorrect. Please don't tell me that you're really one of those people who falsely believes that all opinions are equal, or something?
I just read the title, so I already know its a stupid article. Didn't read.
You sound like a dumbass, then.
Not sure how an idiot became a "guru" on this site, though you're not the only one I've seen, admittedly.
I cheated on my right hand with my left. I guess I'm going to hell.
Well that's just not right at all 😆
Life and relationshipship is not all about Romance, sex, physical attraction it is about commitments and sharing so you started with the wrong premise
Humans are animals. We're talking about sex here. Not commitment. And if you were unsatisfied with those first things you ^ just mentioned, you wouldn't be interested in the second thing (commitment) with that person... would you.
You were condoning cheating as it is only sex and lust I disagreed as in life you can't separated things as everything is one package... you cheat on me you are out don't care about your sexual desire or any thing else
No... love and sex are not the same thing. They are separate.
Honestly what I'm thinking is you fucked and cheated someone. Here writing this fucking my take to support your self. Or just tell me. Didn't you cheat someone ?
I wrote this because the term "cheat" is erroneous and stupid, and no one should use it.
That ain't what I asked. You better not replied that.
Didn't you hook up with someone?
That's the answer.
Fine. I didn't wanted to blame you. But I just wanted to know either people think before doing or later they try to support themselves psychologically. I got your answer.
''To use the term "cheat" implies that there are, well... rules.''
There are in relationships, and ''NOT CHEATING'' is one of 'em
The term "cheating" is erroneous and stupid, and no one should use it. Which is literally the point of the piece. Read it again.
@Anon-ymous1
Having sexual intercourse with someone else, whatever you like to call it, it's wrong, and YES, IT'S BREAKING A RULE. Not an official rule, but a morale rule. Something of which you should know is wrong to do. I like to simply call it cheating.
Either you agree or disagree on the fact that cheating is wrong. Either way, this is a ridiculous take.
Sorry you feel that way sport.
@Anon-ymous1
Opinions vary, but I think I'm one of the majority here.
As though that matters, or something.
@Anon-ymous1
Errrr... yes. It means good luck with you finding a girlfriend who's okay with you cheating on her.
No... it doesn't. This is an anonymous Internet profile, man. No one knows who I am, or you are, or whatever. It's just about the exchange of ideas. And the term "cheating" is still erroneous and stupid, for all the reasons I listed above. Think what you like.
@Anon-ymous1
I just don't understand what you now think about cheating overall, or ''people having sexual intercourse with someone who isn't their partner''. Very vague at least. It almost suggests you support people who ''cheat''.
i am glad that SOME guys get it.
Hmm, interesting how you are so much kinder to men than women, wonder why that is? Women haven't satisifed your "desires?"
I assume you wrote this because you or someone you know has cheated before.
I wrote it because the term "cheat" is erroneous and stupid and no one should use it.
so who did you cheat on, anon-ymous1? 😂
@youtoo Lol no one.
And what do you call the act if cheating? Are you trying to change the ideology?
Did you read it?
Not interested at reading someone's take about changing a meaning of a word
... Are you an idiot? Then why are you even asking questions about it? Like if I wrote a summary of climate change and how it's real, and you commented with "What are you even talking about here? !!1!!!1?" and I was like "Uh, read it and you'll find out," then you're like "no I don't want to," then how dumb are you?
I only wan't a brief explanation with out being called an idiot. I mean how hard is it to simply say it here? If it's that hard then pity for you. And you know what? You don't need to.
^ See those words up there? There aren't THAT many of them. If you want to actually have an answer, then read them. You clearly don't want an answer. So whatever man.
I saw and I got it. I was referring to your first question calling and judging me of being an idiot. And yes I get the rest of what you said, judgmental freak.
Why is it that if I ask even if I'm not interested at it idiotic? Simply curious but I don't care about it that much so you don't have to tell me of it's that hard for you.
SSDD.
Can you please elaborate 😂
@Goodwifie Absolutely: "Same shit, different day!"
OK cool thanks 👍
@Goodwifie It is an old American expression/acronym. Seems quite apropos for this post.
Do you think that takes like this are a bit demeaning to all the good men?
Like they are not capable of being with one woman.
@Goodwifie I think that most women can see this as the rationalizations of someone who has had some bad experiences and is not very bitter.
I've had bad experiences too.
Hasn't made me bitter
@Goodwifie Live long enough and you will have bad experiences. Some will become bitter but most will not. I think it is a choice.
It is a choice.
Disagree with you, that's a load of bologna
How so.
Cheating is cheating, that's all there is to it. No need to even read this.
Wow. Your IQ is likely below room temperature.
Great response mother fucker.
Cheating is just a word. Everyone knows what it means. It's pretty god damned simple.
Some guys consider her body their propriety.