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12 Reasons Why YOU Are In The Friendzone (Page 2)
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Many guys care, while she doesn't give a damn and do fake drama just to keep him on her side.
Did u miss.
Guys have a dream too.
Did u miss.
Some guys literally sacrifice.
Did u miss.
Love is not just making a girl as girlfriend and having sex, its seeing her smile all time.
Get over yourself, there's probably a very good reason these girls don't date you.
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I dont want any such girls to date me too. I live for myself.
Don't worry, i have made my family plans and they are working properly.
Worry about what will happen of you!
(You will get a boy, and you will hide things from him, and again a fight when he finds, come up on social media and ask who was wrong?)š
Very true š
They ends up in friendzone themselves with those childish behaviors in a very early stage š
What I learned long ago is that if she's actually into you, she will rip off your clothes and bang you. If she isn't no big deal. Literally billions of women int he world.
Well i learn what you are & how you view... N
I think this is very reliable. I just am distressed at the tone of apathy. Especially because it mirrors the common attitude from women. I think men should reveiw and consider these things but women should address their own inhumanity.
Dear men. BULLSHIT donāt believe this rubbish especially number one.
You are friendzoned for one reason and one reason only because she choose to and that decision is because of her prejudice towards you nothing more or less.
You donāt get friend zoned because of something you did itās because she decided to.
Exactly
You all are talking about the friend zone but you all should really be worried about the... "Danger Zone":
i pmsl LAAAAAANNNNAAAA
The friendzone can be an excellent wakeup call for those that are crushing hard on someone that isn't interested.
This just makes me think men and women have wildly different ideas of what a friend is lol
Or they are players and you aren't an easy target...
Nice points🤞 in my opinion, lots of guys never heard or thought about those and that's why they are alone 👍
I wouldn't want to make a man play mind games. Some on this list is just games. If you are'friend zoned', She wasn't interested in the first place.
I have seen enough of these to know to keep my distance from women as anything but work friends, if even that.
Lol I just tell a chick how I feel usually and if it's a no go I'm honest and upfront I just say I don't dislike you but I don't make friends
you forgot, if they dont like your appearance its another, its happened to me at times 😂
Okay. So to avoid this "friendzone" I have to pretend to not be interested and not be available. Duly noted.
Nobody's saying to pretend to not be interested or not be available. Just have balance. Learn to say no.
Heās not wrong. The less attention you give. The more attention she wants and the more she will be willing to fight for UNLESS she wasnāt really interested in the first place.
@MittenstheGlove Only works if she likes you in the first place or it doesn't matter what you do... so if you like her, just tell her... if she doesn't like you, just move on.
Sarcasm
Or the most simple answer she is just not attracted to you
Next up. Million reasons why women aren't with the right men. *reads the first sentence* "Donāt blame your crush why youāre there" Welp don't blame men you got yourself with him.
Iknowright. This take makes no sense and can mislead guys.
@stormbreaker06 Yeah if guys gets friendzoned, it's not their crush's fault but if girl chose the wrong guy, it's not the women's fault then starts generalizing guys. It's not even the girl's fault if she's the wrong girl guys chose.
@Pinay_ako is that all you can do? Downvote everyone? That's right stay quiet. I still have a point tho.
Did I downvote everyone? Why don't you write one too?
Ok if you say so. But I don't have to write anything misogynistic
So you're saying I wrote something against men? nothing I wrote says bad things about men. I just said if you stop being a pushover or wrapped around her finger and just tell her already what you want and get going if she doesn't like you. Her loss, not yours.
Because being a push over is not the only reason why men get friend zoned. Not talking about myself but in reality, it's just lots of women are entitled to make their choice and some of them even complains no body wanna approach them meaning they gain power by rejecting men no matter how much he tried. Just have to address something for your information
Because society rarely blame women en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_are_wonderful_effect
The "Friendzone" just sounds like some whiny crap to me.
Can you please write a take offering solutions rather than observational statements?
We have all heard this a thousand times. Why havenāt we heard a thousand times? WHAT TO DO INSTEAD.
The opposite of what she says? Being too easy, hidden agenda, etc... How about don't do those things?
Don't wait too long to ask her out, be upfront about your intentions, if she says no don't stick around in hopes she'll change her mind, and move onto the next girl as quickly as possible instead of moping about being rejected.
@capncool Okay. Good. How do you be upfront?
Do you just come right out and say to her face āHello, I am sexually attracted to you.ā ?
No, that's super creepy never do that or you'll probably get arrested. Just.. be confident, don't use pick up lines, make an impressions and for the love of god don't be a creep. You don't have to be James Bond, no one can be James Bond, just don't walk up to her and say "hey sugar tits, can I get a taste?" or something along those lines, they're all as terrible as each other anyway.
@Robertcw No, don't do that! It largely depends on where you meet her and how you know her, but as a general rule you get her number, text her the next day and set up a date, and use escalation to communicate to her you like her while at the same time gauging her interest. Escalation starts as simple compliments and flirting, if she responds positively to that introduce light touches (for example, high five her, or if she has a watch on her wrist reach and gently grab her near where the watch is and compliment the watch). If she responds work your way to a bit more prolonged touches (i. e. touching her hand, touching her arm). If she responds positively to that, work your way up to touching her back to guide her through crowds, or holding her hands, if she's holding hands with you then there's a very good chance she won't say no to kissing you.
If at any point she says "I thought we were just friends" or "lets just be friends", nobody is forcing you to remain friends with her. You're only in the friendzone if you choose to stay friends with her in hopes she'll change her mind.
You're both terrible at this.
@B15H0P So let me get this straight. Donāt be indirect and donāt be direct. Donāt be indirect and donāt be direct. Makes no sense.
Iām demonstrating the stupidity of female psychology.
This example was supposed to highlight the falsity of this entire Take, since it operates on a false premise: that nice guys are too indirect and are faking niceness. The solution to such a dilemma, if the premise were true, would to be exactly direct.
Since being exactly direct is not a solution, the argument she is making is invalid. She probably doesnāt even understand what sheās talking about.
It is not indirectness or directness that is at issue. It is the desire to have sex without a mutual relationship that is at issue. Nice guys want to have sex before or without a relationship. Those other guys donāt. Thatās what is really at stake here.
Itās not the delivery of the intention, itās the intention itself.
Why do I do this to myself...
It's not that complicated. Just go up to her and I don't know, say hi, maybe offer to buy her a drink. But don't put roofies in it, that won't end well. Don't use stupid pick up lines, don't be a creep, just talk to her. Have some confidende, introduce yourself. It's pretty clear though the only thing you want is sex so just hire a goddamn hooker or buy a blow up doll. It's cheap long term and probably suits you better.
@B15H0P Well you are right. I donāt enjoy female company just for the sake of it unless sheās a unicorn. Iāve met maybe 2 or 3 women in my life whom I am willing to do that with.
And, prostitution is illegal in my state. And now that I think about it, itās probably my local area that is worse than average female attitude wise though Iām not completely sure on this.
And there's the problem,. You wonder why women don't want to go out with you and you always end up in the friendzone? That right there. It's honestly kinda sad and pathetic.
The Solution is to childish play games it seems
@B15H0P I never said I wanted to date. I donāt. However, your comment made me realize there are legal brothels in Nevada. Actually not too far from me. I might start paying them a visit. Either that or Iāll start doing porn.
Getting paid for sex sounds like the best possible job to me.
You do that. And have fun, porn is a great industry to work in.
@B15H0P Thanks but I hate unsolicited advice. Iāll do it if I want to.
lol, And this is why so many women come running to G@G when the guy they're with does them wrong ( bad choices). I can understand not wanting to ruin a friendship by dating but beyond that most of this list is nonsense.
Rubbish. Women have agency; they make choices. Stop blaming it on men!
You always have the best gifs.
Thanks girl. I try lol